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  • 28: Catastrophizing 101: When Your Brain Writes a Disaster Movie About Your Life
    2025/06/17

    In this Therapy Thrift Shop Find, host Winifred Akande shares a personal spiral of catastrophic thinking after starting a new job—and walks us through how to recognize and challenge those “what if everything goes wrong?” thoughts. Learn how to spot catastrophizing, reframe fear-based thoughts, and build mental resilience using real-life examples, humor, and heart. Because sometimes, your anxious brain is just a little too creative.


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    Disclaimer: The resources and content shared here are for informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice. If you are struggling with your mental health, please seek support from a licensed professional. You are not alone. 💛

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    7 分
  • 27: Disqualifying the Positives: How Downplaying Wins Damages Mental Health
    2025/06/12

    Ever finish something amazing and instantly downplay it? You're not alone. In this Therapy Thrift Shop Find, Winifred gets honest about how a lifetime of disqualifying the positives—aka brushing off compliments, minimizing achievements, and never letting the good stuff land—has impacted her mental health. She explores where this pattern comes from, what it’s cost her, and how she’s learning to let the good things count. If you’ve ever struggled to accept praise or feel like nothing you do is enough, this one's for you.


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    Disclaimer: The resources and content shared here are for informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice. If you are struggling with your mental health, please seek support from a licensed professional. You are not alone. 💛

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    7 分
  • 26: Mental Filtering: Why I Couldn’t Stop Obsessing Over the Baby Shower Decorations
    2025/06/10

    In this short episode, I share a real moment of mental filtering after co-hosting a baby shower. Even though the event went well, I found myself stuck on the decorations that didn’t meet my expectations. I talk through how this cognitive distortion showed up, what my inner critic was saying, and how I’m learning to reframe those thoughts with self-compassion. If you’ve ever fixated on one small flaw and overlooked everything that went right, this one’s for you.


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    • Email - hello@therapythriftshop.org

    • ⁠Etsy Shop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (discount code: PODCAST)


    Disclaimer: The resources and content shared here are for informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice. If you are struggling with your mental health, please seek support from a licensed professional. You are not alone. 💛

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    5 分
  • 25: Overgeneralization: How One Rough Morning Became ‘I’ll Never Get Used to This Job
    2025/06/03

    In this Therapy Thrift Shop Find, Winifred unpacks a real-life moment of overgeneralization after oversleeping before work. Join her as she breaks down how our brains turn one off morning into a dramatic narrative ("I'll never get used to this!"), and how to gently challenge that kind of thinking. If your inner monologue is a bit of a drama queen lately, this cozy mental health moment is for you. You're human and hopeful—and that matters.


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    • Email - hello@therapythriftshop.org

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    Disclaimer: The resources and content shared here are for informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice. If you are struggling with your mental health, please seek support from a licensed professional. You are not alone. 💛

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    6 分
  • 24: Losing Fabric, Finding Grace: How I Reframed My All-or-Nothing Thinking
    2025/05/27

    A missing piece of fabric sends Winifred into a spiral—but it’s not just about the fabric. It’s about all-or-nothing thinking, that sneaky mental trap that turns small mistakes into big self-blame. In this 5-minute Therapy Thrift Shop Find, Winifred walks through the distortion in real time, offering a funny, gentle reminder that being human is messy—and that’s okay.


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    • Email - hello@therapythriftshop.org

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    Disclaimer: The resources and content shared here are for informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice. If you are struggling with your mental health, please seek support from a licensed professional. You are not alone. 💛

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    7 分
  • 23: I Tried Tantra Speed Dating—Here’s Why I Walked Out Before It Started
    2025/05/22

    I tried Tantra Speed Dating hoping for connection—but left before it even started. In this honest (and hilarious) recap, I share what happened, why I walked out, and what it taught me about intuition, loneliness, and dating in your 30s. Spoiler: It involves beads, breathwork, and one very awkward moment.


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    Disclaimer: The resources and content shared here are for informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice. If you are struggling with your mental health, please seek support from a licensed professional. You are not alone. 💛

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    34 分
  • 22: 8 Common Cognitive Distortions That Sabotage Your Mindset (and How to Challenge Them!)
    2025/05/20

    In this Therapy Thrift Shop episode, host Winifred Akande dives into the world of cognitive distortions—those pesky mental habits that twist our thinking and fuel negativity. Discover eight common distortions, from all-or-nothing thinking to mind reading, and learn practical tips for spotting and challenging them. Whether you're new to the concept or need a refresher, this episode offers valuable tools to improve your mental well-being. Tune in and start thinking more positively today!


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    • ⁠Etsy Shop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (discount code: PODCAST)


    Disclaimer: The resources and content shared here are for informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice. If you are struggling with your mental health, please seek support from a licensed professional. You are not alone. 💛

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    6 分
  • 21: Overcoming Loneliness: Lessons from an Ex, Self-Worth, and Finding Peace
    2025/05/15

    In this episode, host Winifred Akande opens up about her ongoing struggle with loneliness and how it has shaped recent decisions, including pursuing a new in-person job after years of remote work. She reflects on a recent encounter with her ex-boyfriend "Richard," which reignited old patterns and reminded her of valuable lessons about self-worth, growth, and boundaries. Winifred candidly discusses the challenges of navigating relationships as an "other-centered" person and emphasizes the importance of not sacrificing one’s mental well-being for companionship.

    The episode concludes with a powerful liturgy from the Instagram account "Every Moment Holy," which resonates with those feeling left behind as friends move into new life stages. Winifred shares her reflections on loneliness, healing, and embracing personal growth while maintaining faith and community.


    Connect with Me:

    • IG - @therapythriftshop
    • Email - hello@therapythriftshop.org
    • ⁠Etsy Shop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (discount code: PODCAST)
    • Every Moment Holy Volume 3


    Disclaimer: The resources and content shared here are for informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice. If you are struggling with your mental health, please seek support from a licensed professional. You are not alone. 💛

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    22 分