In this episode of the Unapologaytic podcast, host Pierre speaks with Rahim Thawer, author of The Mental Health Guide for Cis and Trans Queer Guys.

They delve into the complex dynamics of masculinity, body image, and internalized homophobia within the queer male community. The discussion covers the challenges faced in maintaining social status, navigating mental health struggles, and the importance of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).

Rahim shares insights from his book, focusing on how queer men can address disenfranchised grief and internalized shame.

They also explore the intersection of race, culture, and class, and how these factors impact mental health and community belonging. Rahim discusses the significance of community support and the need for culturally competent healthcare.

The episode concludes with practical strategies for self-help and mental well-being.

The Mental Health Guide for Cis and Trans Queer Guys will be released on 1st June 25.

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00:00 The Unapologaytic Podcast: Rahim Thawer Redefining Queer Wellness: Beyond Traditional Narratives

01:02 Introduction and Welcome

01:17 Meet Rahim Thawar

01:31 Cultural Differences and Eccentricities

01:31 Rahim's Background and Work

03:43 Navigating Identity and Hierarchies

05:40 Intersectionality and Privilege

14:01 Disenfranchised Grief

17:51 Global Perspectives on Identity

22:34 Exploring Social Hierarchies and Mental Health

23:26 Strategies to Overcome internalised Shame

25:25 Personal Experiences and Self-Perception

26:15 Building Inclusive Communities

27:21 Navigating Family and Cultural Conversations 2

8:21 Intersectionality and Disenfranchised Grief

31:27 Cognitive behavioural Therapy Techniques

39:02 Addressing Health and Aging in the LGBTQ Community

44:31 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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👋🏾 About The Unapologaytic Podcast

Hi I’m Pierre. I’m the founder of the ethical gay brand Unapologaytic as well as a male form photographer.

I want to use this podcast to explore LGBTQ+ culture and use this platform to share our stories, struggles and breakthroughs. No matter who we are we’ve all got something to share and learn from each other.

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In this episode of the Unapologaytic podcast, host Pierre speaks with Dr Jason Durant, author of Boy from the North Country, about their shared experiences of growing up in small communities and grappling with masculinity and acceptance as gay men. They discuss the pervasive sense of alienation amongst gay men, even in tolerant places like New York City. Dr Durant delves into the impacts of internalised homophobia, the grief of missed opportunities, and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance. He emphasises the necessity of facing uncomfortable emotions, fostering supportive relationships, and the daily commitment to self-care and personal growth. They touch upon the importance of authentic pride, the healing process of revisiting and comforting past traumas, and strategies for processing anger. Dr Durant also shares the importance of journalling and building a compassionate community to navigate the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:54 Discussing the Book: Boy from the North Country

03:27 Challenges of Growing Up Gay

11:34 Healing and Self-Acceptance

19:36 Community and Support

38:30 Processing Anger and Embracing Yourself

41:22 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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👋🏾 About The Unapologaytic Podcast

Hi I’m Pierre. I’m the founder of the ethical gay brand Unapologaytic as well as a male form photographer.

I want to use this podcast to explore LGBTQ+ culture, art and wellness and use this platform to share our stories and struggles. No matter who we are we’ve all got something to share and learn from each other.

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In this episode of the Unapologaytic podcast, host Pierre engages with painter Dan Swan @danswanart | danswanart.com to explore his representation of the male body in art.

Dan shares the aesthetic inspirations behind his work and the natural beauty and seduction of the male form. The conversation delves into societal attitudes and censorship towards male nudes, contrasts with the accepted portrayal of female nudes, and the influence of iconic artists like Tom of Finland.

They discuss the impacts of Dan's art on traditional masculinity, including depicting queer and transsexual identities, as well as the stigma against straight men appreciating male beauty.

The discussion touches on the challenges of posing for nude art, painting from live models versus photos, and where Dan's work can be found on platforms like Instagram and exhibitions in Brighton.

Dan emphasises the importance of being unapologetic and encourages self-acceptance and celebration of the male form.

Introduction to the Unapologaytic Podcast
Meet Dan Swan: Celebrating the Male Form
Artistic Approach and Inspirations
The Unknown Lover: A Dreamy Representation
Public Perception of Male Nude Paintings
Navigating Art and Eroticism
Influences and Inspirations
Effortless Artistry: The Illusion of Ease
Live Models vs. Photos: The Artist's Perspective
Intimacy and Vulnerability in Art
Challenging Masculinity Through Art
The Unique Style and Message of Dan Swan
Embracing Identity and Authenticity
Where to Find Dan Swan's Art

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👋🏾 About The Unapologaytic Podcast

Hi I’m Pierre. I’m the founder of the ethical gay brand Unapologaytic as well as a male form photographer.

I want to use this podcast to explore LGBTQ+ culture and use this platform to share our stories and struggles. No matter who we are we’ve all got something to share and learn from each other.

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