Whether it’s church, parties at friends’ houses, or school concerts, these loud, overwhelming events are a part of life. I want to prepare them to navigate these situations on their own, so they can attend and know how to handle the challenge.

For my kids, it often felt like the environment was attacking them, so I knew we needed to take it slow and give them time to process.

Here’s the process:

1. Start Small: The expectation was that we’d go inside the church. But we took it slow.

2. Noise-Cancelling Headphones: At first, we’d go into the service with headphones on, then step out during the music, and come back in for the sermon.

3. Gradual Exposure: Eventually, my kids could stay in for the music with their own music playing through headphones, sitting the whole time.

4. Building Tolerance: Next, we’d try listening to the worship music with headphones, then take them off for the sermon.

5. Full Participation: Over time, we worked up to sitting with no headphones during both worship and the sermon, and eventually standing and participating with the music.

After we’d been at one “level” for a while, I’d let my kids know that things might be a little different the next Sunday. Sometimes they were ready for the challenge, and sometimes they weren’t—and that was okay.

I also learned that I needed to take care of myself. Those days were stressful and exhausting for both of us, so I made sure not to jam-pack our schedule with more events.

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In this episode of the Moms in Neurodiverse Families Podcast, I’m diving into a topic that hits home for many of us: feeling the pressure of family life bring out the worst in us. As a wife and mom navigating the unique challenges of a neurodiverse family, I know how overwhelming it can be when emotions run high and boundaries feel blurred. I share my personal tips with emotional regulation and how it has transformed my ability to connect with my loved ones.

Resources:

Dr. Jim Wilder https://www.lifemodelworks.org/

Dr. Marcus Warner https://deeperwalkinternational.org/

Chris Coursey https://thrivetoday.org/

Dr. Stephanie Holmes

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In this episode, I discuss the vital steps I took to begin establishing healthy boundaries—which allows you and I to carry out self-care, especially in a neurodiverse family. I offer practical advice on spotting where boundaries in your life need strengthening and invite you to reflect, plan, and seek support when needed. Join me as I explore plans to work with the “boundary pusher” in your life and take that heartfelt, essential step toward a healthier you.

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Hi friends, in this episode I get real about the challenge of setting boundaries in our neurodiverse family—especially when the demands of being a wife and mom seem overwhelming. I discuss my personal journey from a time when boundaries weren't even on my radar, to realizing that without them, I end up exhausted, frustrated, and even sick. Join me as I explore practical strategies to fine-tune your “boundary radar” and reclaim some necessary self-care time.

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Usually, self-care is thought of as something only for yourself, but what if you could adopt a self-care routine that also benefits your neurodiverse husband and kids? I have a simple yet foundational solution that I began implementing in our home during a challenging time. This solution can help anyone with autism, ADHD, OCD, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life.

Dr. Stephanie Holmes' Group Study on the book, Building Bounce: How to Grow Emotional Resilience, By Dr. Marcus Warner and Stefanie Hinman

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Do you deal with chronic pain, an autoimmune disease, or extreme fatigue on a daily basis? Many women in neurodiverse families experience these challenges. Join me as I share a simple solution that helped me find direction in managing my own chronic health challenges and self-care.

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Did you know that by using routines to automate repetitive tasks throughout your day, you can reduce your mental load? This can be especially beneficial when you're living with someone with autism and you are juggling so many concerns.

And have you invested in your parasympathetic nervous system lately? If not, check out the tips I share to help your body maintain a more restful state instead of remaining constantly stressed. You can find moments for self care even while caring for your neurodiverse family.

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In this episode, I dive into the importance of a well-crafted morning routine and how it can set the tone for the rest of your day. I share practical tips that have helped me establish a morning routine that works for me and my family. From dealing with the challenges of a neurodiverse family to finding moments of peace and preparation, I discuss how small changes can make a big difference.

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