• S5 EP15: From ADHD Daydreaming to Doing: Understanding and Cultivating Focus with Sylvia Hall
    2025/04/20

    I was truly excited for this solo podcast featuring the wonderful Sylvia Hall. It had been a while since my last solo show, but having Sylvia on made the wait worthwhile. We had such a great conversation!

    Sylvia has a fascinating story. She described herself as someone who "waltzed out of the corporate world as an entrepreneur," and it's clear traditional 9-to-5 jobs weren't for her due to their lack of autonomy and heart.

    She's built several successful businesses, most notably Lifted Naturals, her mood probiotic company that's been thriving for seven years. She also mentioned other ventures like Honeypot Publishing with its coloring books and gratitude journals, and she's currently launching her personal brand.

    What impressed me about Sylvia is her perspective on working with others. She champions collaboration over competition, using that brilliant analogy of "ovens all around and there's more pies that we can bake." She doesn't believe in taking someone else's slice—instead, she's convinced there's enough for everyone.

    We discussed how she balances everything, including her family and children, which have always been her priority. Her philosophy of "give from the overflow" truly resonated with me. She believes you must "fill your own cup first" to properly love and serve those around you.

    In fact, she agreed with the idea that you need to be "selfish to actually be able to give because... you cannot give what you do not have."

    Sylvia also shared her experience with her ADHD diagnosis, which came when her children were young—a time she described as both the "hardest time of my life and the most beautiful."

    She talked about experiencing daydreaming as a child, apparently more common for women with ADHD. While she tried medications like Ritalin and Adderall, they weren't right for her due to her "highly sensitive nature."

    She had strong reactions, going from "squirrels at a rave to ducks in a row," but with difficult side effects. This led her to embrace more natural management methods, which connects to her work with Lifted Naturals.

    For managing overwhelm, Sylvia has effective strategies. She uses the phrase "outer calm is inner calm," meaning that organizing her physical space helps quiet her mind. She also uses "trigger music"—specific playlists she only listens to when needing to focus on writing.

    Looking ahead, Sylvia is returning to helping people directly through her personal brand. She's focusing on digital products, beginning with a 10-day email challenge called "The Frequency Framework" designed to help people get unstuck.

    She keeps communications brief because, as she noted, we have "information out the wazoo... We don't need more information but we could sure use a little transformation." Interestingly, she's intentionally moving away from social media for her personal brand, finding it something of a "brain drain."

    If you'd like to connect with Sylvia, visit SylviaHall.com. For her supplements, check out lifted.naturals.com, and for coloring books and journals, look up Honeypot Publishing. All links will be in the description below.

    Sylvia, thank you so much for your time—it was absolutely wonderful having you on the podcast. I felt we could have talked for hours! That's all for this episode, everyone. Sayonara!

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  • S5 EP14: Living with ADHD an Entrepreneur's Journey with John Torrens
    2025/04/15
    Alright, so in this particular episode of "Diary of a ADHD Strategist PODCAST", you're tuning in to hear me, the ever-so-slightly clueless Eli Dervonté, have a proper natter with a fascinating chap called John Torrens. Now, John's a busy man, juggling life as a professor of entrepreneurial practice at Syracuse University – a top-notch department in the US, no less – where he coaches students with their new business ideas. But that's not all; he also runs a therapy company that supports young children with disabilities, which sounds absolutely brilliant because he's clearly driven by something more than just making a few quid.What I love about these chats is you never quite know where they're going to go, and John's story is a prime example. He was an entrepreneur first, selling his business back in '08 and then finding his way into academia. Interestingly, he then bought part of his company back, so he's been brilliantly balancing both worlds, using his business experiences to inform his teaching and vice versa.Now, what really struck me was when we got onto the topic of ADHD. It turns out John was diagnosed in his 40s, which I found incredible considering he'd already scaled his business to over 250 employees. He reckons that the early chaotic stages of growing a company are actually where folks with ADHD can really thrive. He even mentioned doing research and writing a book on the link between ADHD and entrepreneurship.It wasn't all plain sailing though. John shared a pivotal moment where he realised his team was relying on his limited financial knowledge, which spurred him to go back to university for a PhD in business. He felt a real need to get a proper grip on that side of things.Later on, his employees actually nudged him towards considering ADHD, which led to his diagnosis. Looking back, it all made sense – the report card comments about not focusing and shouting out answers in class. He feels that understanding his ADHD helped him reframe how he approached his work and, importantly, his relationships with his employees.We also touched upon the "what ifs" of an earlier diagnosis. While it might have presented challenges in a less understanding era, John also sees how early awareness could have been beneficial. Interestingly, he tried medication but ultimately found alternative ways to manage his ADHD, focusing on his consumption – food, media, information – and his output, like daily movement, and delegation. He even delved into meditative and breathwork practices.His decision to pursue a PhD in finance, even though he could have just delegated the financial side of his business, resonated with me. John candidly admitted it stemmed from a feeling of not being "enough" and a desire to master that area. Despite this, he's a big advocate for delegation now, seeing himself as the least important person in his successful business.Thinking back to his childhood, John could see those ADHD traits as early as primary school, particularly his initial struggles with reading and the impulsive moments like shouting out answers in class. He highlighted the research showing how ADHD traits can be highly functional in the context of entrepreneurship, with a much higher percentage of successful entrepreneurs identifying with these traits compared to the general population. However, he also stressed the flip side – how those same strengths can become liabilities if not managed.Growing up, getting the boring stuff done was a real challenge for him, and he admitted to being an average student who prioritised fun and experiences over top grades.We then got chatting about his book, "Lightning in a Bottle, How entrepreneurs can harness their ADHD to win". It came about from his research into the link between ADHD and entrepreneurship and the overwhelming response he received after giving a TEDx talk on the subject. Writing the book was a challenge from a discipline perspective, and recording the audiobook proved even more difficult, leading him to delegate that task to a professional. He doesn't have immediate plans for a follow-up book but hasn't ruled out the possibility of his podcast transcripts forming the basis of one in the future.John's now running a new podcast called "The Total Entrepreneur Mind, Body Spirit", focusing on the holistic well-being of entrepreneurs. He's also thinking about transitioning his company to employee ownership and eventually spending more time surfing in Costa Rica. He seems to be in a really content phase of life, appreciating the present rather than constantly striving for more.What keeps him grounded is a focus on healthspan over lifespan – wanting to live a healthy and vital life for as long as possible. He also identifies as spiritual, believing in being part of something bigger.His one piece of advice for neurodivergent listeners is to focus on their strengths and find a path that allows them to tap into those, while also recognising and managing the potential ...
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  • S5 EP13: The ADHD Flow: Mastering Flexible Strategies with Stephanie Camilleri
    2025/04/12

    "" Tired of focusing on the challenges? Eli and Stephanie reveal how to leverage your unique ADHD abilities for success in life and business.

    Ever feel like you're trying to fit a square peg in a round hole? That's a feeling Eli Dervonté knows all too well.

    For years, he masked his difficulties with memory and writing, feeling "sick" when faced with letters on a page. It wasn't until later in life that he truly accepted his ADHD, a turning point that came from being "sick to death" of other people's expectations.

    This journey of self-acceptance is a key starting point, as Eli and Stephanie Camilleri, The ADHD Advocate, discuss in their podcast conversations. They both firmly believe in a strength-based approach to ADHD.

    Stephanie's coaching is built on this "strength space", and Eli advises everyone to "use your strengths to your strengths and don't get hooked on your weaknesses". In the business world and in life, it’s your strengths that will shine.

    Stephanie’s own journey involved a slow but steady increase in awareness and acceptance of ADHD. Starting her coaching business nearly seven years ago felt a bit "out there", with significant pushback initially.

    This highlights how understanding, or the lack thereof, deeply impacts the experience of ADHD. In families, a lack of understanding can even create "toxic" environments, as Stephanie experienced before diagnosis brought a crucial "relevant lens" through which to understand each other.

    But understanding isn't just about diagnosis; it's about leveraging interdependence and collaboration. Eli stresses that "networking is very important not just for business but for personal growth, allowing individuals to use others to complement their weaknesses".

    Learning and progress happen much faster through working together. He even pushed himself to overcome his tendency to isolate because he recognised the value of external perspectives.

    Today Artificial Intelligence (AI) is emerging as a powerful ally. Eli sees AI as a "virtual assistant" that can handle tasks like writing, where individuals with ADHD might struggle.

    This frees them up to focus on their inherent strengths, like creativity and problem-solving. Stephanie is a "big proponent of AI", seeing it as the "ultimate body double".

    Throughout their conversations, the concept of "going with the flow" comes up frequently. While this can represent adaptability, Stephanie points out it doesn't suit everyone, especially those with co-occurring autism who might need more structure.

    However, Eli also believes that their ability to uniquely understand what people need, rather than sticking to rigid structures, is a "greater gift".

    Ultimately, the journey with ADHD is unique to each individual. But by embracing self-acceptance, focusing on strengths, building supportive networks, and utilising available tools like AI, individuals with ADHD can not only navigate challenges but truly thrive in both life and business.

    As Eli passionately states, "We're great leaders and we're great leaders because we quite we're from the point of view we're quite creative". It’s about seeing your neurodiversity not as a deficit, but as a unique set of abilities waiting to be unleashed.



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  • S5 EP12: The ADHD Advantage: Creativity, Focus Hacks with Emily Guerra
    2025/04/08

    Alright, ever felt like your brain is a whirlwind of brilliant ideas and scattered thoughts? You're not alone.

    Welcome to the podcast where we flip the script on ADHD, moving away from the challenges and diving headfirst into "The ADHD Advantage: Creativity, Focus Hacks with Emily Guerra."

    Join us for a down-to-earth chat with Emily Guerra, an ADHD strategist and the founder of The Productivity Flow. Emily isn't just talking theory; she's lived it.

    Growing up not knowing she had ADHD, Emily found herself constantly battling to stay organised and focused. It wasn't until later in life that the pieces clicked.

    But here's the inspiring part: Emily didn't let that define her. Instead, she embarked on a journey of self-discovery, learning to understand how her brain works differently and, crucially, how to work with it, not against it.

    This led her to become a certified productivity life coach, helping other self-employed women unlock their own potential.

    In this episode, we delve into the surprising positives of ADHD. Forget the notion of being "broken"; Emily shares how her fast-thinking brain fuels creativity and the ability to connect dots in unique ways.

    We also explore practical focus tools that have been game-changers for her. Ever heard of binaural beats?

    Emily explains how this type of music can scientifically help your brain get into the flow. And then there are her trusty cube timers – simple yet incredibly effective for staying on track with time blocking.

    This isn't about quick fixes; it's about understanding your own neurodiversity and discovering the power of working with your brain's natural rhythms.

    Emily's story is a testament to embracing who you are, quirks and all. So, if you're ready to explore a different perspective on ADHD and pick up some real-life strategies to thrive, you're in the right place.

    Get ready to discover your own ADHD advantage.

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  • S5 EP11: ADHD and the Burnout Myth
    2025/04/04

    Alright, ever felt like the world expects you to run a marathon at a sprint?

    This week on the podcast, we're diving into something a bit spicy: "ADHD and the Burnout Myth: Are We Blaming Neurodiversity for Systemic Overload?"

    You might be thinking, "ADHD and burnout, yeah, that makes sense." But our guest, the insightful Sally Holden, asks a really important question: are we too quick to point the finger at neurodiversity when the real culprit might just be the relentless pressure of modern life?

    Sally, as you know, isn't just talking theory. She's been through the wringer herself, battling burnout not once, but three times, with a particularly tough episode back in 2020.

    This personal experience gave her a deep understanding of what burnout truly feels like – that overwhelming exhaustion physically, mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually. She knows firsthand how it can hit you, even when you think you have all the tools.

    Now, Sally works as a kinesiologist and an intuitive holistic thrive coach, helping women, in particular, who are feeling utterly burnt out to find their way back on track.

    Through her own journey, she realised just how prevalent burnout is, and she's made it her mission to equip others with the strategies to recover.

    So, in this episode, Sally isn't shying away from a potentially controversial take. Could it be that the intense focus and sensitivity often associated with ADHD are being unfairly linked to burnout, when perhaps the real issue lies in the constant state of "fight or flight" many of us are living in?

    Sally's personal struggles and her work with clients have led her to believe that while there might be overlaps, we need to be careful about attributing burnout solely to neurodivergence. Maybe, just maybe, the system itself is overloaded, and we're all feeling the strain, neurodivergent or not.

    Get ready for a down-to-earth but thought-provoking chat with Sally. She brings her lived experience and her holistic coaching approach to the table, offering a fresh perspective on why so many of us are feeling the crunch.

    Is burnout an inherent part of having ADHD, or is it a sign that something bigger needs to change? Tune in for a discussion that might just shift how you think about both ADHD and burnout.



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  • S5 EP10: ADHD Late to the Party with Neena Perez
    2025/04/01

    Welcome to ADHD Late to the Party with Neena Perez, a podcast that delves into the often-untold stories of individuals who received their ADHD diagnoses later in life. Join your host, Neena Perez, as she navigates the complexities of this newfound understanding, drawing from her own personal journey and the insightful conversations she shares.

    Have you ever felt like you were living life on a different wavelength? Perhaps things that seemed easy for others felt like monumental challenges, or maybe your mind raced with a million thoughts, making focus an elusive dream.

    For many, these experiences remain a mystery until a later-in-life ADHD diagnosis sheds light on a lifetime of seemingly unrelated struggles.

    In this podcast, we pull back the curtain on what it means to receive an ADHD diagnosis as an adult. We examine the contrasting experiences, much like the open and honest discussion between Neena and Eli Dervonté on the "Diary of a ADHD Strategist PODCAST".

    Their conversation highlighted the moment of realisation, the sense of things finally making sense, and the subsequent journey towards self-acceptance.

    Each episode explores a central question: does this newfound understanding empower self-acceptance or inadvertently impose limiting self-perceptions? We delve into the stories of guests who, like Neena and Eli, navigated years of life without this crucial piece of the puzzle.

    They share how their late diagnosis has impacted their understanding of past experiences, their relationships, their careers, and, most importantly, themselves.

    We explore themes of not being 'broken' but 'different' , echoing Eli's powerful statement. We discuss how individuals learn to manage their neurodivergent traits, the masking strategies they employed unknowingly for years, and the liberation that can come with finally understanding why their brains work the way they do.

    Through candid conversations and relatable anecdotes, ADHD Late to the Party with Neena Perez aims to foster a sense of community, offer validation, and empower listeners to embrace their neurodiversity.

    Whether you suspect you might have ADHD, have recently been diagnosed, or simply want to understand the diverse ways our minds can function, this podcast offers a down-to-earth and professional exploration of a significant and often overlooked aspect of neurodiversity.

    Join us as we unpack the late arrival to the ADHD party and discover the profound impact it can have on how we see ourselves and the world around us.

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  • S5 EP8: The Consistency Myth: How ADHD Minds Achieve More by Breaking All the Rules WITH Sarah Ennor
    2025/03/27

    Welcome to "Diary of a ADHD Strategist," the podcast that dares to question everything you thought you knew about getting things done, especially if your brain works a little differently.

    This isn't your typical podcast.

    Forget the rigid schedules and the endless to-do lists that leave you feeling more overwhelmed than accomplished.

    Here, we're diving deep into the world of ADHD and exploring a radical idea: perhaps achieving more means breaking all the traditional rules.

    Inspired by conversations with individuals like Sarah Ennor, the ADHD strategist featured on the "Diary of a ADHD Strategist" podcast, we uncover the reality that neurotypical standards of consistency simply don't align with how many brilliant minds operate.

    Sarah's own late diagnosis in 2023 illuminated a lifetime of experiences, revealing that her unique way of thinking and working – often marked by last-minute bursts of productivity and an "interest-based nervous system" – wasn't a deficit, but a different wiring.

    Each episode of "The Consistency Myth" will take you on a journey, sharing stories and insights from individuals who've learned to redefine success on their own terms.

    We'll explore how the power of urgency can be a potent motivator, why traditional planning sometimes falls flat, and how self-acceptance is the crucial first step towards unlocking your full potential.

    Drawing directly from candid discussions like the one with Sarah, we'll challenge the notion that consistent has to mean "every day at the same time".

    Instead, we'll explore the idea that progress can look like waves crashing against a rock, uneven but ultimately transformative.

    If you've ever felt like you're constantly fighting against the clock, struggling to maintain a consistent routine, or being judged by neurotypical standards of productivity, then "The Consistency Myth" is for you.

    Join us as we dismantle the myth of one-size-fits-all productivity and celebrate the diverse and powerful ways that ADHD minds truly thrive.

    We'll learn that you're not broken, but simply wired differently, and that your unique approach might just be your greatest strength.

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  • S5 EP8: ADHD A Family's Journey Through Diagnosis and Discovery with Aquila Mendez-Valdez
    2025/03/25
    Welcome to "ADHD: A Family's Journey Through Diagnosis and Discovery with Aquila Mendez-Valdez," a podcast episode that pulls back the curtain on the realities of neurodiversity within a family and how it intertwines with the world of entrepreneurship.Ever wondered how a busy PR strategist navigates the demands of running her own agency while raising a neurodivergent child and supporting a partner who also likely experiences ADHD? Join us as we sit down with Aquila Mendez-Valdez, the founder of a thriving PR and marketing agency that empowers female founders to share their stories with the world.This isn't just a tale of business success; it's a deeply personal narrative that begins with the transformational experience of her youngest daughter's ADHD diagnosis about a year ago. Aquila candidly shares how this revelation has changed the way her entire family interacts with the world and has even influenced her approach to building processes within her business.Hear about the hindsight moments, the recognition of earlier challenges, and the journey of understanding her daughter's experiences in the classroom, where masking her struggles led to anxiety despite her bright and engaged appearance. Aquila offers an honest account of navigating communication, advocating for her daughter's needs with teachers, and the ongoing process of empowering her daughter to understand and articulate her own needs regarding medication.But the story doesn't end there. Aquila also sheds light on the unique dynamic within her marriage, where her husband, a successful former professional athlete, likely has undiagnosed ADHD. She explores how his experiences have differed due to growing up in a generation where it wasn't recognised, and how they now work together to balance their different approaches and celebrate his entrepreneurial spirit.Through Aquila's down-to-earth storytelling, you'll discover how embracing neurodiversity has fostered greater empathy and open communication within her family. This episode highlights that an ADHD diagnosis isn't an endpoint but rather a new beginning, offering a different lens through which to understand and support loved ones.Ultimately, this conversation reveals how Aquila balances the demands of her professional life – helping others craft their narratives – with the deeply personal story unfolding within her own family. It's a testament to the unexpected strengths that can emerge from navigating neurodiversity, proving that different isn't deficient, and highlighting the power of understanding and connection in both business and family. Join us for an insightful and relatable journey that goes beyond the surface of ADHD and celebrates the unique strengths found along the way.The Journey of Diagnosis:* The episode begins by exploring the transformational experience of Aquila's youngest daughter's ADHD diagnosis about a year ago.* Aquila shares how this diagnosis has significantly changed her family's interactions and even influenced her business approach.* She reflects on hindsight moments, recognising earlier challenges in getting her daughter to school and the various strategies they tried before understanding the underlying cause.* The conversation highlights the experience of "quiet" ADHD in girls, where her daughter masked her struggles in the classroom, leading to anxiety despite appearing engaged.* Aquila candidly discusses the process of communicating with her daughter, advocating for her needs with teachers, and navigating the complexities of medication.Family Dynamics and Neurodiversity:* The episode also examines the unique dynamic with Aquila's husband, a successful former professional athlete who likely has undiagnosed ADHD.* It explores how his experiences differed due to the lack of recognition in his generation and how they now work together, balancing their different approaches and celebrating his entrepreneurial spirit.* Aquila emphasises how embracing neurodiversity has fostered greater empathy and open communication within her family.The Intertwining of Personal and Professional Life:* This conversation reveals how Aquila, as a PR strategist who helps others craft their narratives, is navigating a deeply personal story within her own family.* It highlights that an ADHD diagnosis is not an endpoint but a new understanding that offers a different perspective on supporting loved ones.* Ultimately, the episode demonstrates how navigating neurodiversity can lead to unexpected strengths, proving that different isn't deficient.Join us for a relatable and insightful journey that goes beyond the surface of ADHD, celebrating the unique strengths and fostering greater understanding within families and beyond.Diary of a ADHD Strategist | ♉ +📣 =👂🏽 is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Diary of a ADHD Strategist | ♉ +📣 =👂🏽 at elidervonte.substack.com/...
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