In this episode, I'm diving into the subtle, silent habits that quietly sabotage your progress—the ones that don’t always look like self-sabotage on the surface. From overcommitting and procrastinating to doubting your own voice, these patterns keep you stuck in cycles that feel productive but lead nowhere. You’ll learn how to recognize the hidden ways you block your own breakthroughs, and what it really takes to shift into aligned, intentional momentum.

This is your lead-in to The Life Upgrade Masterclass Series happening this Saturday, June 14th, where we’ll take the conversation further and give you the tools to defeat self-sabotage for good.

Are you ready to stop living on autopilot and start creating the life you actually want? The Life Upgrade Masterclass Series is your monthly blueprint for real change. 12-months of live Masterclass workshops (with replays available) designed to help you break old patterns, build momentum, and create lasting transformation. With a focused downloadable workbook monthly, you’ll get the tools, strategies, and structure to take charge of your growth and stay aligned with your goals. No more drifting. No more stuck. Just intentional action, one month at a time. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

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I used to think my relationship would get better if only my partner would change, be more present, more affectionate, more anything. But what I’ve learned is that real change started when I stopped focusing on what he wasn’t doing and started looking at how I was showing up.

In this episode, I’m sharing what it means to shift a relationship by shifting yourself. Not by shrinking or people-pleasing, but by growing, owning your part, and showing up differently—with more awareness, honesty, and intention. If you’ve ever felt stuck waiting for someone else to change, this one’s for you.

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Today’s episode is a little something special as we approach our 300th episode! The producers of Creating Her Best Life podcast have taken over the podcast this week and have handpicked a few of the most powerful, eye-opening moments from our last 100 episodes to share with you—moments that we know will give you the encouragement you need to keep moving forward, no matter where you’re at in your journey.

Whether you're looking to smash through self-doubt, find the courage to take that next big step, or just feel a little more connected to what truly matters, this episode is sure to have something that speaks to you.

So take a moment, get comfortable, and let these handpicked moments serve as your reminder that you’re not alone on this journey. We hope these insights fuel your next steps forward, inspire you, challenge you, and remind you that no matter where you are, you’ve got what it takes to keep going. Whether it’s a little inspiration or the nudge you needed to take that next step, we hope this episode leaves you feeling empowered and ready to create your best life.

Make 2025 your year with the Year of You program! Each month, join an empowering workshop designed to help you grow, refocus, and take charge of your life. Paired with a intentionally designed digital monthly downloadable workbook, this program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to create your best life—one intentional month at a time. Say goodbye to feeling stuck and hello to a year of purpose, progress, and possibility. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

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Ever feel like you’re stuck in a rut, like no matter what you do, the next step just feels impossible? I think we’ve all been there. But here's the thing: there's this quiet force called hope that has a way of sneaking in when we need it most. It’s not loud or in-your-face, but it’s powerful enough to keep us moving forward, even when we’re ready to throw in the towel.

In this episode, I'm diving into how hope works, and how it gets us through the tough times and keeps us going. I share what it really means to hold onto hope, and some simple ways you can bring more of it into your life, no matter what you’re facing. It’s not about waiting for big changes, it’s about finding strength in the small moments and believing better days are ahead.

Make 2025 your year with the Year of You program! Each month, join an empowering workshop designed to help you grow, refocus, and take charge of your life. Paired with a intentionally designed digital monthly downloadable workbook, this program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to create your best life—one intentional month at a time. Say goodbye to feeling stuck and hello to a year of purpose, progress, and possibility. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

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Sometimes life feels slow, like you’re stuck or falling behind. But this episode is a reminder: good things take time. The growth you can’t see—the deep, unseen work—is often the most important part. You’re not behind; you’re growing roots. And roots matter. Flowers don’t last without them. It’s easy to get caught up waiting for the visible bloom, but real strength and lasting change are built underground, in the quiet seasons. Trust that what’s coming is worth the wait.

Make 2025 your year with the Year of You program! Each month, join an empowering workshop designed to help you grow, refocus, and take charge of your life. Paired with a intentionally designed digital monthly downloadable workbook, this program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to create your best life—one intentional month at a time. Say goodbye to feeling stuck and hello to a year of purpose, progress, and possibility. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

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Ever wake up one day and wonder, “Where did I go?” You’re checking boxes, showing up for everyone, juggling roles like mom, wife, boss, caregiver, friend… and somewhere in the shuffle, you got lost. This episode is a heart-to-heart for every woman who's ever felt like she disappeared behind the roles she plays.

In this episode of "Creating Her Best Life Now," Coach Jenn and I dive deep into the powerful truth that losing yourself in roles doesn't define your true identity. We're unpacking the truth: what you do is not who you are. Those titles you carry? They’re part of your story, but they’re not your identity.

Join us as we navigate through the maze of roles and rediscover the essence of being YOU. It's time to shine a light on your true identity beyond the labels and roles you've taken on. So if you're feeling burned out, unseen, or like you've forgotten what it feels like to dream for yourself—this one's for you.

Make 2025 your year with the Year of You program! Each month, join an empowering workshop designed to help you grow, refocus, and take charge of your life. Paired with a intentionally designed digital monthly downloadable workbook, this program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to create your best life—one intentional month at a time. Say goodbye to feeling stuck and hello to a year of purpose, progress, and possibility. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

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Ever wake up and think, “Okay… what can I do today to just feel better?”

In this episode, we’re getting real about those blah days—the ones where you’re running on fumes, your to-do list is giving you side-eye, and you’re just trying to make it to bedtime without losing it. We’re unpacking simple, doable ways to lift your mood, protect your peace, and maybe even make yourself smile a little.

This isn’t about overhauling your life—it’s about asking one powerful question and actually listening to what you need today. Whether it’s a nap, a no, or just five minutes to yourself, let’s talk about how to show up for you—in small, meaningful ways that make a big difference.

Make 2025 your year with the Year of You program! Each month, join an empowering workshop designed to help you grow, refocus, and take charge of your life. Paired with a beautifully designed digital planner and workbook, this program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to create your best life—one intentional month at a time. Say goodbye to feeling stuck and hello to a year of purpose, progress, and possibility. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

Welcome to a special episode of Creating Your Best Life, where I’m giving you an exclusive sneak peek into my Year of You program when I taught the power of Delaying Your Gratification from my March Workshop.

Join me as I share how delaying instant rewards can lead to greater long-term success and fulfillment in life. This isn't just about saying "no" to now; it's about saying "yes" to a future you've always dreamed of.

Listen in and discover practical tips, personal stories, and insightful strategies to help you embrace delayed gratification as a powerful tool for personal transformation. Because when you invest in yourself today, you're paving the way for a brighter tomorrow.

Make 2025 your year with the Year of You program! When you join Year of You, you will gain instant access to the replays from February, March and April's workshops. Each month, join an empowering live workshop with me designed to help you grow, refocus, and take charge of your life. Paired with a digital planner and workbook, this program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to create your best life—one intentional month at a time. Say goodbye to feeling stuck and hello to a year of purpose, progress, and possibility. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!