In this debut episode of the Unstressed Exec podcast's four-part conflict mastery series, Dr. George Vergolias, an executive and resilience coach, guides listeners through the complexities of conflict. He redefines conflict beyond just fights and tensions, explaining it as the occurrence of competing needs, goals, or perceptions.

Dr. Vergolias highlights various conflict response styles from the Thomas-Kilmann model and discusses the importance of self-awareness in managing conflict. Delving into the emotional roots of conflict, he emphasizes the role of attachment styles and past experiences. Additionally, he explores the factors that fuel conflict, such as unspoken expectations and misperceptions, and distinguishes between high-stakes and low-stakes conflicts.

Dr. Vergolias also advises on the power of curiosity and emotional regulation in resolving conflicts and encourages listeners to rewrite their inherited conflict stories. Key takeaways include the transformative potential of managing conflict effectively and the importance of curiosity and regulation as superpowers in conflict resolution.

00:00 Introduction to Conflict Mastery Series

01:28 Redefining Conflict

02:20 Common Responses to Conflict

03:55 Emotional Roots of Conflict

06:03 Sources of Conflict

09:21 High Stakes vs Low Stakes Conflict

12:16 Curiosity: The Antidote to Conflict

15:41 Rewriting Your Conflict Story

21:04 Final Reflections and Key Takeaways

22:42 Conclusion and Call to Action

About the Host – The Unstressed Exec

Meet Dr. George Vergolias — a clinical and forensic corporate psychologist turned executive coach with 20+ years at the intersection of leadership, mental resilience, and high performance. George has advised Fortune 500 companies, guided C-suite leaders through crisis, and coached high-achievers to reclaim clarity, calm, and purpose without losing their edge.

On The Unstressed Exec, George brings powerful insights from the boardroom to the mic — helping leaders navigate stress, burnout, conflict, and transformation with practical tools and no-BS wisdom.

If you're ready to lead with strength and sanity, tune in. And when you're ready to go deeper, reach out for one-on-one executive or leadership coaching. This isn’t therapy — it’s your next level. Let’s build the life and leadership you actually want.

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In this episode of the Unstressed Exec, Dr. George Vergolias concludes his four-part series on separation and divorce with a focus on co-parenting after separation. He discusses the importance of aiming for progress and stability rather than perfection, sharing his own experiences and emphasizing the crucial role of minimizing harm and maximizing stability for children. He outlines key strategies for effective co-parenting, managing conflict, and creating a new normal, including the difference between co-parenting and parallel parenting.

Dr. Vergolias also provides practical communication techniques, such as the B.I.F.F. method and leveraging technology, to reduce conflict with high-conflict exes. Additionally, he addresses how to protect children from emotional collateral damage and offers guidance on when to introduce new partners into children’s lives. Finally, he encourages listeners to reclaim their solo identity and focus on personal growth and transformation post-divorce.

00:00 Introduction to the Series

01:32 The Goal of Co-Parenting

03:38 Creating a Foundation of Consistency

05:47 Co-Parenting vs. Parallel Parenting

09:11 Effective Communication Strategies

18:02 Protecting Children from Emotional Damage

25:33 Managing a High Conflict Ex

38:20 Reclaiming Your Solo Identity

39:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

About the Host – The Unstressed Exec

Meet Dr. George Vergolias — a former corporate psychologist turned executive coach with 20+ years at the intersection of leadership, mental resilience, and high performance. George has advised Fortune 500 companies, guided C-suite leaders through crisis, and coached high-achievers to reclaim clarity, calm, and purpose without losing their edge.

On The Unstressed Exec, George brings powerful insights from the boardroom to the mic — helping leaders navigate stress, burnout, conflict, and transformation with practical tools and no-BS wisdom.

If you're ready to lead with strength and sanity, tune in. And when you're ready to go deeper, reach out for one-on-one executive or leadership coaching. This isn’t therapy — it’s your next level. Let’s build the life and leadership you actually want.

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In episode 13 of 'The Beginner's Guide to Navigating Separation and Divorce,' Dr. George Vergolias delves into the critical yet often overlooked phase of rebuilding self-identity, self-worth, and emotional recovery post-divorce. Through insights and strategies drawn from his experience as an executive and resilience coach and forensic psychologist, Dr. Vergolias explores concepts like the identity vacuum, the non-linear nature of healing, and the importance of rewriting personal narratives.

He also provides practical tools for emotional recovery, such as inner child work, somatic practices, and journaling prompts. This episode aims to help listeners rediscover joy, set new life goals, and prepare for future relationships—all while reinforcing the message that growth and healing are possible, no matter where you start.

00:00 Introduction to the Series

01:48 Understanding the Identity Vacuum

03:07 Healing is Not Linear

06:32 Rebuilding Self-Worth and Identity

16:54 Rediscovering Desires and Goals

21:10 Rebuilding Intimacy

27:57 Practical Tools for Emotional Recovery

33:20 Closing Reflections

About the Host – The Unstressed Exec

Meet Dr. George Vergolias — a former corporate psychologist turned executive coach with 20+ years at the intersection of leadership, mental resilience, and high performance. George has advised Fortune 500 companies, guided C-suite leaders through crisis, and coached high-achievers to reclaim clarity, calm, and purpose without losing their edge.

On The Unstressed Exec, George brings powerful insights from the boardroom to the mic — helping leaders navigate stress, burnout, conflict, and transformation with practical tools and no-BS wisdom.

If you're ready to lead with strength and sanity, tune in. And when you're ready to go deeper, reach out for one-on-one executive or leadership coaching. This isn’t therapy — it’s your next level. Let’s build the life and leadership you actually want.

🎯 Listen. Grow. Lead — at The Unstressed Exec

📩 Stay Connected: Website: www.theunstressedexec.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.unstressed.exec

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If you like The Unstressed Exec podcast please leave me a review and rate!

For more info on my coaching services, keynote speaking and guest speaker/podcast opportunities, please visit my website at: www.theunstressedexec.com