In this episode of the Radical Collective podcast, the hosts explore the complex relationship between pain, masculinity, and femininity. They discuss how pain can serve as an invitation to transformation and personal growth, particularly in the context of relationships. The conversation delves into the dynamics of marriage, the importance of setting boundaries, and the transition from boy psychology to man psychology. The hosts share personal experiences and insights on how to navigate these challenges and the rewards that come from stepping into empowered masculinity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of masculinity, relationships, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of facing hard truths, embracing vulnerability, and the transformative power of sexual energy. The dialogue emphasizes the need for men to step into their roles with responsibility and authenticity, while also recognizing the significance of support from other men in their journeys. The conversation culminates in a call to action for men to embark on their own hero's journey, embracing their unique stories and potential.

Takeaways

• Pain is often a gateway to transformation.
• Our partners reflect our unresolved issues.
• Creating a strong foundation is essential for relationships.
• Men must transition from boyhood to manhood.
• Healthy boundaries are crucial in relationships.
• Leadership in relationships requires active participation.
• Men should not abdicate responsibility to their partners.
• The dynamics of masculinity and femininity are complex.
• Emotional maturity is key to navigating challenges.
• The rewards of stepping into empowered masculinity are profound. Creating safety for your partner is essential.
• Sexual energy can be a powerful force for creation.
• Men must navigate their own empowerment journey.
• Triggers in relationships are invitations for growth.
• Vulnerability is key to authentic connections.
• Unactualized potential leads to stagnation.
• Men need brotherhood to share their truths.
• Facing hard truths can be uncomfortable but necessary.
• The rite of passage is crucial for men's development.
• Embracing one's design leads to fulfillment.

Chapters

00:00

The Invitation of Pain

03:01

Reflections of the Masculine Journey

06:09

Navigating Relationships with the Feminine

09:01

Boy Psychology vs. Man Psychology

12:00

The Dynamics of Leadership in Relationships

15:00

Claiming Responsibility and Ownership

17:53

The Rewards of Stepping into Empowered Masculinity

25:35

Facing Hard Truths in Relationships

28:33

Masculine Creation and Sexual Energy

33:46

Navigating Masculine Empowerment

39:12

The Invitation of Triggers

44:20

Embracing Vulnerability and Responsibility

51:53

The Rite of Passage for Men

2.0

outro real

In Season 2 EP3, Miles Santo, Steve Mizesko, Mitchell Martin and Colin Skinner of The Radical Collective explore the multifaceted nature of pain and its role in personal growth and transformation.

Chapters

00:00 The Journey of Pain and Growth
02:57 Personal Experiences with Pain
05:58 Understanding Pain Points in Men's Lives
08:55 The Role of Fear and Resistance
11:55 Transcending Victim Consciousness
14:53 Pain as a Teacher
18:08 Embracing Pain for Transformation
21:10 The Connection Between Pain and God
24:00 Rites of Passage and Modern Challenges
27:40 The Importance of Brotherhood
30:07 Embracing Pain and Identity
33:04 Acceptance as an Antidote to Pain
35:51 Responsibility and Power
39:46 Navigating Relationships and Communication
48:54 Final Thoughts on Pain and Growth

For more on The Radical Collective and how to get involved with their work, please visit our website at https://theradicalcollective.com/

Follow The Radical Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_radical_collective?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

For more on Steve Mizesko and his work in refinement, archetypal masculinity and parenting: https://www.instagram.com/rad_dad_revival?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

For more on Colin Skinner and his work in health, wellness and vitality: https://www.instagram.com/colin__skinner/

For more on Sam Peralta ans his work in spiritual renewal: https://www.instagram.com/thesamperalta?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

For more on Miles Santo and his guidance in men's work: https://www.instagram.com/miles_santo?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

For more on Mitchell Martin and his work with men in addiction and responsibility: https://www.instagram.com/mitchellleema?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

2.0

outro real

Brothers, welcome back to SEASON TWO of the Radical Collective Podcast! We’re honored to kick off this journey with you again. This season isn’t just about conversations; it’s about transformation. It’s about breaking free from cycles, confronting illusions, and rewriting the narrative of what it means to be a man today.

And today, we’re diving into Part Two of the Radical Collective sharing our stories. This is where we get personal. This episode is about our testimonies—our real stories. The struggles, the doubts, the breakthroughs. We’re pulling back the curtain on our own journeys because the truth is, none of us are immune to the pressures of modern life. If you’ve ever felt the weight of expectations, the sting of failure, or the ache of wanting more, you’re not alone. We’ve been there too.

In this second installment, we’re taking you deeper. We’ll share how life forced us to face our shadows and find light in places we didn’t expect. You’ll hear about the pivotal moments that shaped us—the pain that broke us open and the grace that put us back together. These aren’t just stories; they’re lessons, truths that we hope will resonate and ignite something within you.

Our testimonies are a reminder: You’re not here by accident. Your struggles have meaning, and your life has a purpose. We believe that sharing these stories sets the tone for this season—a season where we’ll confront the silent battles men are fighting every day and offer the tools to reclaim your power, purpose, and peace.

So, buckle up, brothers. This season isn’t for the faint of heart. It’s for the men ready to confront the truth, embrace change, and step into their God-given potential. It’s for you. Let’s dive in, share more of our stories, and rise together.

For more on The Radical Collective and how to get involved with their work, please visit our website at https://theradicalcollective.com/

Follow The Radical Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_radical_collective?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

For more on Steve Mizesko and his work in refinement, archetypal masculinity and parenting: https://www.instagram.com/rad_dad_revival?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

For more on Colin Skinner and his work in health, wellness and vitality: https://www.instagram.com/colin__skinner/

For more on Sam Peralta ans his work in spiritual renewal: https://www.instagram.com/thesamperalta?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

For more on Miles Santo and his guidance in men's work: https://www.instagram.com/miles_santo?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

For more on Mitchell Martin and his work with men in addiction and responsibility: https://www.instagram.com/mitchellleema?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

2.0

outro real

Brothers, welcome back to SEASON TWO of the Radical Collective Podcast! And let me tell you—this season isn’t just about talking. It’s about breaking cycles, shattering illusions, and rewriting the narrative for the modern man.

Here’s the truth: Men today are drowning. Society has us juggling the roles of provider, husband, father, leader—and it’s slowly killing us. We’re stretched thin, disconnected, and numbing ourselves with distractions: scrolling, drinking, gambling, or worse. Deep down, we’re asking the same question: Is this all there is?

This season, we’re going there. We’re confronting the modern man’s dilemma head-on. We’re tackling the pain points no one else dares to speak of: the silent shame, the endless grind, and the question of who you really are beneath the expectations.

And to kick it all off, we’re pulling back the curtain on our recent Radical Collective Retreat—a transformative space where men like you came face-to-face with their truth. This episode is raw. It’s real. It’s a firestarter for everything we’re about to unpack this season.

We’re diving into how to rewrite your past, claim your future, and make peace with the man you see in the mirror. You’ll hear about how we tapped into the inner voice, confronted the external experience, and learned to stand as prophets who can see the path ahead.

We’re not stopping there. This season will unpack the frameworks you need to reclaim your identity, break generational patterns, and take the lead in your life, your family, and your community. It’s about finding strength in brotherhood, creating a new legacy, and discovering what it means to live radically alive.

This isn’t just a podcast. It’s a movement for men who refuse to settle for mediocrity. So, if you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or like you’re barely surviving—this is your wake-up call. This is where we rise together.

Season Two starts NOW. Let’s break the cycle. Let’s claim our power. And let’s make this the season that changes everything.

Instagram Live: Vitality and Resourcing w/ Mitchelle and Collin.

2.0

outro real

Instagram Live: Modern Day Church Revival.

2.0

outro real

In this episode Steve and Sam discuss the final episode of the first season of the Radical Collective Podcast and reflect on their experiences over the past three months. They talk about the importance of waking up and living a more conscious and intentional life. They also discuss the process of refinement and renewal, using the metaphor of renovating a house. They emphasize the need for awareness, attitude, and action in the refinement journey. The conversation explores the themes of attitude, alignment, and renewal. It emphasizes the importance of having a positive attitude and how it affects our relationships and overall well-being. The concept of alignment is discussed, highlighting the interconnectedness of all things and the need to align ourselves with the greater cosmos. The conversation concludes with a focus on renewal, encouraging listeners to dream, create, and build a new future together.

Takeaways

Waking up and living a more conscious and intentional life is an important part of the radical path.
Refinement and renewal involve uncovering the blueprint of your life and building on it.
Awareness is about making the unconscious conscious and alchemizing past patterns and conditioning.
Attitude plays a crucial role in the refinement journey, as it determines your energy state and how you respond to challenges.
Taking action is essential in the refinement process, as it allows you to embody the changes you want to make. Having a positive attitude can greatly impact our relationships and overall well-being.
Alignment involves recognizing the interconnectedness of all things and aligning ourselves with the greater cosmos.
Renewal requires dreaming, creating, and building a new future together.
Listening to women and honoring their dreams can be a catalyst for personal growth and transformation.
Seeking support and community is essential in the journey of renewal.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Season Finale
02:37 Waking Up: Living a Conscious and Intentional Life
04:40 Refinement and Renewal: Uncovering the Blueprint
07:22 Awareness: Making the Unconscious Conscious
09:42 Attitude: Shifting Energy State
12:14 Action: Embodying the Changes
19:16 The Power of Attitude
24:04 Alignment
29:20 Renewal

2.0

outro real

In this episode, we discuss the concept of realization, which is the process of discovering who we were born to be by shedding societal conditioning and uncovering our true selves. We emphasize the importance of authenticity, alignment, and defining our own values. We also touch on the role of ego and the need to remember our true identity beyond the personas we create. We provide guidance on how to start the journey of self-discovery, including exploring our childhood and understanding the feelings that drive our behaviors. We explore themes of individuation, ego, emotions, and the journey of self-discovery, emphasizing the importance of realizing one's true self and living authentically. We discuss the societal expectations and norms that hinder personal growth and the need for individuals to break free from these constraints. We also highlight the significance of facing fear, having faith, and taking action to manifest our dreams. The conversation concludes with the message that every person is valuable and has the power to create positive change in the world.


Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Realization
03:31 The Impact of Environment and Trauma
08:56 The Journey of Self-Discovery
09:10 Understanding Values and Authenticity
11:26 Living a Congruent Life
13:25 Discovering Your True Self
16:36 Moving Beyond Ego and Persona
18:01 Exploring Childhood for Clues
20:08 Remembering Your True Identity
23:11 The Connection to the Universe
25:06 The Role of Ego in Self-Discovery
26:57 Breaking Free from Societal Expectations and Living Authentically
28:17 Understanding the Motivations Behind Ego and Emotions
30:38 Triggers as Pathways to Self-Discovery
31:37 The Impact of Artificial Light and Environmental Pollution
33:00 The Importance of Having a Relationship with Emotions
36:23 Realization and Self-Actualization: Understanding the Self and Connecting to the Divine
37:46 Overcoming Fear, Having Faith, and Taking Action
46:56 Every Individual is Valuable and Can Create Positive Change
49:27 The Power of Support and Community in Personal Growth

Follow us on Instagram
@the_radical_path

2.0

outro real