In this week's episode of The Brink Podcast, your host duo David Ring and Matthew Ridge sit down for the second time with Clinical Psychologist Selena Clark to explore the complexities of body image, focusing on body dysmorphia and its implications on mental health. They discuss the differences between psychologists and psychiatrists, delve into the impact of social media on self-perception, and introduce the ugly duckling theory, which highlights how beauty standards can affect self-worth. The conversation also touches on muscle dysmorphia, revealing how societal pressures can lead to obsessive behaviors around body image. In this conversation, the speakers explore themes of self-acceptance, the impact of cosmetic surgery on self-perception, the importance of fitness for mental health, and the complexities of beauty standards. They discuss the role of validation in shaping self-image and the dynamics of friendship beyond societal labels. The conversation also delves into the influence of ego on personal growth and the significance of trusting one's instincts.

Ringo and Ridgey talk to top NZ female bodybuilder about the high’s and lows of competitive female bodybuilding both in New Zealand and internationally, her journey from plus-size Mum to super-Gran, her passion for training, nutrition and how exercise can be a key tool in helping you people struggling with addiction to help find moderation and control in their lives

In this conversation of The Brink Podcast, Selena Clark, a registered clinical psychologist, and your hosts Matthew Ridge and David Ring delve into the complexities of sexuality, exploring themes of confusion, normality and the impact of societal and religious influences. We discuss the fluidity of sexual identity, the importance of open conversations about sexuality as well as the role of shame in personal acceptance. The dialogue emphasises the need for understanding and compassion in navigating one's sexual experiences and the societal pressures that accompany them.

Takeaways

• It's not unnatural for you to have those feelings.
• Many young men experience confusion about their sexuality.
• Religion has historically influenced perceptions of homosexuality.
• Sexuality can be fluid and change over time.
• Open conversations about sexuality are crucial for understanding.
• Shame can be a natural part of the sexual experience.
• Societal norms shape how individuals express their sexuality.
• It's important to create safe spaces for discussions about sexuality.
• Understanding one's sexual identity can be a lifelong journey.
• The complexity of human experience includes navigating societal expectations.

In this episode of The Brink Podcast, we sit down with one of New Zealand's finest content creators, Leighton Clarke – better known as UNCLE TICS!

Leighton rose to TikTok and Instagram fame, known for his unfiltered and hilarious take on life with Tourette's syndrome.

tiktok.com/@uncletics

instagram.com/uncletics/

With literally millions of followers, Leighton uses humor to spread awareness about Tourette's and dismantle the stigma surrounding the condition, all while giving people a reason to laugh.

Matthew Ridge and David Ring dive into Leighton's rise to fame, the challenges he faces and how he turned his tics into comedy gold.

Expect raw stories, side-splitting moments and more insights as we discuss everything from his viral moments to how he manages his condition in public.

Learn more about Tourette’s Syndrome:

tourettes.org.nz

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Ringo & Ridgey

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Keywords: NZ, podcast, content creator, influencer, kiwi, mental health, awareness, tourettes, tics, syndrome, comedy, rugby, ADHD, rugbyleague, living with Tourette’s, TikTok viral, overcoming adversity

In this heartfelt and revealing episode, Matthew Ridge’s eldest son, Boston, opens up about the challenges and rewards of growing up. They hammer out the meaning of the modern family and how a broken family doesn't have to end with broken people. Joined by hosts David Ring and Matthew Ridge, Boston shares his unique experiences, from dealing with biases at school to forging his own identity. With raw honesty and moments of humour, they dive into family dynamics, the ups and downs, and how they’ve all grown together over the years. This episode is a powerful exploration of family, resilience and the complexities of life in the public eye.

In this insightful and energetic episode of The Brink, hosts Matthew Ridge and David Ring are joined by Jock Matthews from Rojolie Clinic in Auckland (New Zealand) to dive deep into the world of ADHD.

Check out rojolie.co.nz for more info.

Is ADHD a syndrome holding people back or a superpower waiting to be unleashed?

The trio breaks down the myths, shares personal stories and explores how ADHD impacts relationships, careers and everyday life.

Whether you're navigating ADHD yourself or want to understand its nuances, this episode is packed with humour, raw honesty and expert insights from Jock Matthews.

Tune in for a fresh perspective on how ADHD might just be your greatest strength!

Keywords: ADHD, neurodiversity, mental health, superpower, syndrome, personal stories, relationships, career, Rojolie Clinic, Matthew Ridge, David Ring, Jock Matthews, all blacks, mental health

Mila, a successful real estate agent in Monaco, shares her background and experiences in the world's most expensive property market. She discusses her journey from Russia to Israel to Monaco and how her family's resilience and adaptability shaped her drive and ambition. Mila highlights the unique aspects of living and working in Monaco, including the high net worth clients, the favorable tax system, and the tight-knit community. She also emphasizes the importance of building genuine relationships with clients and the challenges of working in a small, high-pressure market. In this conversation, David and Milla discuss living in Monaco and the high cost of living. They talk about the language barrier and how English is widely spoken in the South of France. They also discuss the booming real estate market in Monaco, with properties selling for over 100 million euros. Milla shares her experience working in the luxury real estate industry and the kind and humble nature of the people she has met. They also talk about Milla's new business venture, a spa for dogs in Monaco. The conversation ends with a discussion about the importance of treating everyone with kindness and authenticity.

Takeaways

• Monaco is the world's most expensive property market and attracts high net worth individuals.
• Mila's journey from Russia to Israel to Monaco shaped her drive and ambition.
• Living and working in Monaco offers unique opportunities and challenges.
• Building genuine relationships with clients is crucial in a small, high-pressure market. English is widely spoken in the South of France, making it easier for non-French speakers to get by.
• The real estate market in Monaco is booming, with properties selling for over 100 million euros.
• Milla's experience in the luxury real estate industry has shown her that people with wealth can still be kind and humble.
• Milla's new business venture is a spa for dogs in Monaco, catering to the high demand for pet services in the area.
• Treating everyone with kindness and authenticity is important, regardless of their status or background.