Stacey usually interviews wives of NFL players and coaches. In this episode, Stacey Bell shares her journey from a small town in Arkansas to becoming a prominent news anchor and her transition into the NFL world through her relationship with now husband, Anthony Lynn, now with the Washington Commanders as run game coordinator and running back coach. She discusses her career in journalism, the various cities she worked in, and then the challenges of moving between cities as her husband changed NFL teams. Stacey talks about the balance between her professional life and family responsibilities. Stacey reflects on her experiences in Cleveland, her introduction to the NFL, and how she manages life as a partner to an NFL coach. She emphasizes the importance of embracing the community, building connections, and giving back through her family’s Lynn Family Foundation. Stacey also reflects on her career in journalism, her love for storytelling, and love of her current podcast hosting.

Takeaways

• Stacey always knew she wanted to be a news anchor.

• Cleveland holds a special place in her heart.

• She values being present in the moment.

• Stacey manages multiple relocations due to Anthony's career.

• She emphasizes the importance of making a home wherever they go.

• Stacey took time off work to enjoy family and team experiences.

• Stacey's journey reflects resilience and adaptability.

• Just embrace it and do all of the things.

• You have the commonality of rooting for the team.

• Our family foundation benefits many different organizations.

• I miss the camaraderie from my news career.

• I like having the flexibility of my time.

• I love doing my podcast and telling the stories of the women of the nfl

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In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Stacey interviews Babette Perry Pitts, an accomplished agent and former NFL wife and daughter-in-law. They discuss Babette's family legacy in football, her career as a broadcasting agent, and the challenges of balancing family life with a demanding career. Babette shares insights into the evolving role of NFL wives and girlfriends, highlighting the pressures they face and the importance of maintaining their own identities in a high-profile environment. In this engaging conversation, Babette shares the journey of her family in the NFL, highlighting the legacy of her husband, father-in-law and she and Ronnie’s sons. She discusses the challenges faced in college football, the international experiences of her sons, and the transition from player to commentator that her husband and many sports stars make. The conversation also delves into the unique bond among NFL wives and the importance of teamwork in achieving success.

Takeaways

• Babette Perry-Pitts has a rich family legacy in the NFL.

• She transitioned from being an NFL girlfriend (ultimately wife) to a successful agent.

• The importance of integrity and values in sports careers.

• Balancing motherhood and a demanding career is challenging but rewarding.

• The role of NFL wives has evolved significantly over the years.

• Women in sports are increasingly pursuing their own careers.

• Babette's creative approach to finding talent in broadcasting.

• The pressure on NFL players is immense and often misunderstood.

• Respect among NFL wives is earned through shared experiences.

• Maintaining one's identity is crucial for NFL wives and girlfriends.

• Babette and Ronnie’s son, Shay, earned a scholarship at UCLA and embraced the legacy of number 47.

• Lee found success at Azusa Pacific and now works for the NFL.

• International football experiences enriched Lee's career and personal growth.

• Shay's journey included playing football, overcoming injuries and transitioning to coaching.

• Ron navigated his career from player to commentator with dedication and hard work.

• The NFL sisterhood is a powerful support system for women in the league.

• Team dynamics are crucial for success in football, from players to support staff.

• The bond among NFL wives is unique and fosters lifelong friendships.

• The importance of recognizing everyone’s contribution to a team's success.

• Family legacies in sports can shape the paths of future generations.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Babette Perry-Pitts

02:09 Legacy of NFL Families

05:01 Babette's Career Journey in Broadcasting

10:02 Balancing Family and Career

16:36 The Evolving Role of NFL Wives and Girlfriends

21:54 Legacy of Number 47

23:17 Navigating College Football Challenges

25:54 International Football Adventures

28:06 The Journey of Shay and Lee

30:31 Transitioning from Player to Commentator

34:27 The NFL Sisterhood

39:13 The Importance of Team Dynamics

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In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Stacey Bell interviews Melissa Gonzalez Blough, a Colombian-American athlete and Olympic medalist. She is married to David Blough, former QB for the Detroit Lions and other teams, and now the Assistant QB Coach for the Washington Commanders. They discuss Melissa's journey in athletics, her transition to motherhood, and the support she receives from her family and the NFL community. Melissa shares insights on balancing her career and family life, the challenges of being an NFL wife, and the importance of community among the wives of NFL players. The conversation highlights her humility and dedication to her family, as well as her reflections on her athletic achievements and future aspirations.

Takeaways

• Melissa retired from athletics to focus on motherhood.

• The support from family is crucial in high-pressure sports careers.

• Dual citizenship allowed Melissa to compete for Colombia.

• NFL life presents unique challenges for wives and families.

• Community among NFL wives provides essential support.

• Melissa's humility reflects her upbringing and values.

• The importance of quality time in relationships during the NFL season.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Melissa Gonzalez Blough

02:51 Olympic Journey and Family Support

05:54 Transition to Motherhood and Retirement from Athletics

09:04 Athletic Family Background and Dual Citizenship

11:57 Training Regimen and Balancing Life as an Athlete

14:51 Navigating NFL Life as a Wife and Support System

17:59 Community and Support Among NFL Wives

21:02 Differences Between Being a Player's Wife and a Coach's Wife

24:03 Reflections on Achievements and Humility

27:00 Conclusion

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In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Gemmi Schottenheimer shares her journey as the new First Lady of the Dallas Cowboys, as her husband, Brian Schottenheimer is made head coach of the Cowboys. Stacey and Gemmi discuss the challenges and joys of stepping into this prominent role. Gemmi emphasizes the importance of relationships within the football community, They talk about navigating career changes, and handling public scrutiny. She reflects on her family's legacy in football as Brian’s father was Marty Schottenheimer, a revered Coach in the NFL. Gemmi shares the emotional journey of Brian achieving a long-awaited career milestone.

Gemmi appreciates all of the support from loved ones as they embark on this new chapter. The conversation highlights the balance between personal and professional life, the impact of public perception, and the excitement of new opportunities.

Takeaways

• Gemmi Schottenheimer discusses the adjustment to her new role as First Lady of the Dallas Cowboys.

• She emphasizes the importance of relationships in the football community.

• Gemmi reflects on the challenges of moving and family dynamics during career changes.

• She shares her perspective on handling public scrutiny and negativity.

• The conversation touches on the legacy of the Schottenheimer family in football.

• Gemmi expresses gratitude for the support of friends and family during this transition.

• She highlights the significance of being a united front in relationships.

• Gemmi discusses the importance of honoring the role of a head coach's wife.

• The episode explores the emotional journey of achieving a long-awaited career milestone.

• Gemmi shares plans for celebrating their new chapter as a family.

Chapters

00:00Stepping into the Spotlight

03:03Building Relationships in Football

06:10Navigating Career Changes and Family Dynamics

09:01Embracing New Opportunities

11:55Handling Public Scrutiny

14:54Legacy and Family Connections

17:59Celebrating Achievements and Future Plans

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In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Stacey Bell interviews Samar Okung, wife of retired NFL player Russell Okung. They discuss Samar's journey through motherhood, her hiatus from social media, and the lifestyle changes she and her family have embraced, including homeschooling and a focus on health and wellness. Samar shares her views on vaccinations, the family's investment in Bitcoin, and the unique experiences of being part of the NFL sisterhood. The conversation also touches on the importance of community, the influence of social media, and practical tips for traveling with children.

takeaways

• Samar took a 40-day social media hiatus that transformed her perspective.

• The family decided to live without a TV to foster creativity and connection.

• Homeschooling allows for personalized education and value-based learning.

• Samar believes in researching medical choices rather than following a one-size-fits-all approach.

• Investing in Bitcoin was a strategic decision for financial freedom.

• The NFL experience brought diverse friendships and a sense of community.

• Traveling with kids can be manageable with the right strategies.

• Grounding techniques help reset children's circadian rhythms when traveling.

• Family support is crucial when traveling with young children.

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In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Stacey Bell-Lynn and Yolonda (Yo) Merritt discuss the unique journey of Yolonda's husband, David Merritt, Defensive Backs Coach for the Chiefs, the importance of continuity in coaching, and the excitement surrounding the Kansas City Chiefs as they head to another Super Bowl.

They also touch on family dynamics, the challenges of managing Super Bowl logistics, and the impact of Taylor Swift's relationship with Travis Kelce on the NFL. In this engaging conversation, Stacey Bell and Yo Merritt explore the unique experiences of NFL wives, touching on personal anecdotes, the significance of family and community, and the challenges of maintaining normalcy in a high-profile lifestyle. They discuss memorable moments, such as Taylor Swift's interactions with Yo and David’s daughter, the importance of Super Bowl celebrations, and the supportive network of women in the NFL. The conversation highlights the balance between personal aspirations and family commitments, emphasizing the value of being present in the moment and fostering connections within the NFL sisterhood. And of course, all the excitement leading up to the SuperBowl next week.

Takeaways

The Chiefs are aiming for a historic third consecutive Super Bowl appearance.

David Merritt has had a long and varied coaching career across multiple teams.

Continuity in coaching can lead to long-term success and stability for families.

Kansas City is a great place to raise a family, often overlooked by outsiders.

The Merritt family has a diverse range of interests and careers among their children.

Transitioning to college football can be eased by starting early in the year.

Super Bowl logistics can be overwhelming, especially with family involved.

Taylor Swift's presence has significantly impacted the NFL's media coverage.

The Merritt family enjoys a close-knit relationship despite the challenges of football life. The special connection through personal gestures like pop tarts.

Taylor Swift's desire for normalcy amidst her fame and fitting in at Chief’s celebrations.

Super Bowl parties serve as a celebration of the season.

Coaching careers often require family sacrifices.

The Off the Field Women's Association promotes sisterhood.

Future aspirations may shift after children graduate.

Being present in the moment is essential for happiness.

The NFL sisterhood provides vital support and connection.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Superwives of the NFL

02:57 The Journey of David Merritt: From Player to Coach

05:58 The Importance of Continuity in Coaching

08:55 Life in Kansas City: A Hidden Gem

11:47 Family Dynamics: Balancing Football and Personal Life

14:48 Super Bowl Excitement: Preparing for the Big Game

21:13 The Pop Tart Connection

22:58 Experiencing Taylor Swift's Normalcy

24:49 Super Bowl Celebrations and Traditions

25:59The Significance of Pendants

28:23Coaching Journeys and Family Dynamics

30:49Super Bowl Logistics and Family Involvement

32:25The Off the Field Women's Association

33:34Future Aspirations and Family Stability

36:17The NFL Sisterhood and Its Importance

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Stacey Bell-Lynn and counselor to the LA Chargers, Tondra Gregory, discuss the unique challenges faced by NFL couples, including high divorce rates, identity crises, and the importance of communication in sustaining a viable marriage. Tondra and Stacey introduce the Gregory’s book, 'The Marriage Game Plan,' which uses sports analogies to provide strategies for marital success. This book is for all marriages, but there is a 70% divorce rate after retirement in the NFL, so Tondra and George wrote a book about ways to keep a good marriage. They are chaplain and counselor to the LA Chargers.

The conversation highlights the role of chaplains in supporting players and their families, emphasizing the need for mental toughness and adaptability in relationships. In this conversation, Tondra shares insights about the role of chaplains in the NFL, emphasizing the importance of building trust and relationships with players and their families. She discusses her journey of faith, highlighting how their not desired move to New York City ultimately led to significant opportunities in ministry. Tondra also provides valuable keys to maintaining a healthy marriage, focusing on understanding roles, flexibility, and addressing personal triggers. She reflects on the importance of community among NFL wives, highlighting how the lives of NFL wives can require a lot of stamina from moving often, raising kids by yourself for half the year, transitions when your player or coach is home again, etc.

The Marriage Game Plan is available for pre-order on Amazon, etc.

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takeaways

The Marriage Game Plan focuses on marital success strategies.

70% of NFL couples divorce after retirement.

Identity issues can arise for both players and their spouses.

Tough conversations should be planned

It's important to address issues before they escalate.

Both partners can experience an identity crisis after retirement.

Communication is key to navigating relationship changes.

Sacrifice is a fundamental aspect of marriage.

Chaplains play a crucial role in supporting NFL families.

Mental toughness is essential for women in the NFL.

Marriage requires understanding and flexibility between partners.

Recognizing and addressing personal triggers is crucial for relationship health.

Community among NFL wives fosters support and understanding.

Friendships formed in the NFL can last beyond the league.

Trusting God during difficult times is essential for faith.

Being genuine in relationships helps build trust.

Identity Challenges for NFL Couples

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In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Stacey Lynn interviews Tamela Davis, wife of NFL player DeMario Davis with the New Orleans Saints. They discuss Tamela's journey as an NFL wife, her Southern roots, the challenges of homeschooling six children, their daughter, Carly- Faith’s journey with cancer and their advocacy for childhood cancer awareness. Tamela shares insights about their F Word foundation that serves children, the importance of family dining, and how faith plays a crucial role in their lives. The conversation also touches on the NFL sisterhood and the support it provides to women in the league.

Tamela Davis Social Media: If you want to learn more about Cancer Awareness, the Carly-Faith foundation, and the Davis’ foundation The F Word.

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takeaways

Tamela reflects on the unexpected longevity of DeMario's NFL career.

The importance of Southern values in shaping their family.

Homeschooling has been a fulfilling choice for their six children.

Tamela shares the emotional journey of their daughter Charlie's cancer diagnosis.

The Devoted Dreamers Foundation focuses on empowering inner-city youth.

Tamela Tailgate Treats was born from her love of cooking and family.

Family dining is essential for bonding and communication.

Faith is a cornerstone of their family life and decision-making.

The NFL lifestyle comes with unique challenges that are often overlooked.

The NFL sisterhood provides invaluable support and community.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Tamela Davis and NFL Journey

03:00 Southern Roots and Family Values

05:52 Homeschooling Six Kids

08:55 Cancer Awareness and Charlie Faith's Journey

11:59 Devoted Dreamers Foundation and Community Impact

14:54 Tamela Tailgate Treats: A Culinary Passion

17:57 The Importance of Family Dining and Etiquette

20:55 Faith as a Foundation

23:57 Navigating NFL Life and Challenges

26:48 The NFL Sisterhood and Support

29:51 Conclusion and Future Endeavors