Stacey Bell-Lynn and counselor to the LA Chargers, Tondra Gregory, discuss the unique challenges faced by NFL couples, including high divorce rates, identity crises, and the importance of communication in sustaining a viable marriage. Tondra and Stacey introduce the Gregory’s book, 'The Marriage Game Plan,' which uses sports analogies to provide strategies for marital success. This book is for all marriages, but there is a 70% divorce rate after retirement in the NFL, so Tondra and George wrote a book about ways to keep a good marriage. They are chaplain and counselor to the LA Chargers.

The conversation highlights the role of chaplains in supporting players and their families, emphasizing the need for mental toughness and adaptability in relationships. In this conversation, Tondra shares insights about the role of chaplains in the NFL, emphasizing the importance of building trust and relationships with players and their families. She discusses her journey of faith, highlighting how their not desired move to New York City ultimately led to significant opportunities in ministry. Tondra also provides valuable keys to maintaining a healthy marriage, focusing on understanding roles, flexibility, and addressing personal triggers. She reflects on the importance of community among NFL wives, highlighting how the lives of NFL wives can require a lot of stamina from moving often, raising kids by yourself for half the year, transitions when your player or coach is home again, etc.

The Marriage Game Plan is available for pre-order on Amazon, etc.

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takeaways

The Marriage Game Plan focuses on marital success strategies.

70% of NFL couples divorce after retirement.

Identity issues can arise for both players and their spouses.

Tough conversations should be planned

It's important to address issues before they escalate.

Both partners can experience an identity crisis after retirement.

Communication is key to navigating relationship changes.

Sacrifice is a fundamental aspect of marriage.

Chaplains play a crucial role in supporting NFL families.

Mental toughness is essential for women in the NFL.

Marriage requires understanding and flexibility between partners.

Recognizing and addressing personal triggers is crucial for relationship health.

Community among NFL wives fosters support and understanding.

Friendships formed in the NFL can last beyond the league.

Trusting God during difficult times is essential for faith.

Being genuine in relationships helps build trust.

Identity Challenges for NFL Couples

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In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Stacey Lynn interviews Tamela Davis, wife of NFL player DeMario Davis with the New Orleans Saints. They discuss Tamela's journey as an NFL wife, her Southern roots, the challenges of homeschooling six children, their daughter, Carly- Faith’s journey with cancer and their advocacy for childhood cancer awareness. Tamela shares insights about their F Word foundation that serves children, the importance of family dining, and how faith plays a crucial role in their lives. The conversation also touches on the NFL sisterhood and the support it provides to women in the league.

Tamela Davis Social Media: If you want to learn more about Cancer Awareness, the Carly-Faith foundation, and the Davis’ foundation The F Word.

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takeaways

Tamela reflects on the unexpected longevity of DeMario's NFL career.

The importance of Southern values in shaping their family.

Homeschooling has been a fulfilling choice for their six children.

Tamela shares the emotional journey of their daughter Charlie's cancer diagnosis.

The Devoted Dreamers Foundation focuses on empowering inner-city youth.

Tamela Tailgate Treats was born from her love of cooking and family.

Family dining is essential for bonding and communication.

Faith is a cornerstone of their family life and decision-making.

The NFL lifestyle comes with unique challenges that are often overlooked.

The NFL sisterhood provides invaluable support and community.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Tamela Davis and NFL Journey

03:00 Southern Roots and Family Values

05:52 Homeschooling Six Kids

08:55 Cancer Awareness and Charlie Faith's Journey

11:59 Devoted Dreamers Foundation and Community Impact

14:54 Tamela Tailgate Treats: A Culinary Passion

17:57 The Importance of Family Dining and Etiquette

20:55 Faith as a Foundation

23:57 Navigating NFL Life and Challenges

26:48 The NFL Sisterhood and Support

29:51 Conclusion and Future Endeavors

In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Dr. Camille Phillips shares her journey as an NFL wife of Adrian Phillips (a free agent this year/Safety), a mom, and she is a pediatrician. She discusses the challenges and joys of balancing family life with her medical career, the importance of community support, and her advocacy for women's health issues, particularly in the context of motherhood. Camille also highlights the significance of her and Adrian’s The L.A.K.E. foundation , which aims to give back to the community. Camille reflects on the strong bonds formed within the NFL sisterhood. In this engaging conversation, Dr. Camille Phillips shares her experiences as a wife of an NFL player, discussing the challenges of advocating for oneself in healthcare, especially brown and black women, the importance of friendships that transcend geographical boundaries, and the emotional toll of being part of the NFL community. She reflects on the joys of family time, the struggle of identity beyond football, and the significance of mental health in navigating life after the game. The discussion highlights the strong bonds formed within the NFL sisterhood and the support they provide to one another.

Takeaways: *Camille enjoys having her husband home after years of moving.

She recently passed her pediatric board exam after a long journey.

Taking time off from medicine can be beneficial for family life.

Women should support each other in their career choices.

Camille serves as a medical resource for other NFL wives.

She had a scary moment on the field when Adrian got hurt.

The Lake Foundation focuses on community service and education.

The NFL wives community fosters strong friendships and support.

Camille advocates for mental health awareness and postpartum issues.

Listening to one's body is crucial in healthcare. Advocating for yourself in healthcare is crucial.

Friendships can thrive despite geographical distances.

Long-distance relationships can be challenging in the NFL.

NFL families face unique emotional struggles.

Watching loved ones play can be emotionally taxing.

Cherishing family time is invaluable.

Transitioning from football can impact identity.

Mental health is essential for former athletes.

Self-discovery is a journey after sports.

The NFL sisterhood offers vital support and solidarity.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Camille Phillips and NFL Life

06:30 Support and Criticism in the Medical Community

11:38 The Lake Foundation: Giving Back to the Community

18:13 Advocating for Postpartum Health

24:09 Navigating Long-Distance Relationships in the NFL

30:25 Mental Health Matters: Finding Worth Beyond the Game

35:38 The NFL Sisterhood: Support and Solidarity

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