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  • Life's Fingerprint: Understanding Birth Order and Family Dynamics with Dr. Robert Hurst
    2025/01/21

    About Dr. Robert Hurst: Dr. Robert V.V. Hurst, originally from Hammond, Indiana, is a Harvard-educated orthodontist with over 50 years of experience. Practicing in Covington, Louisiana, he has used his office as a real-world laboratory to study the relationship between birth order and personality traits. This research led to his groundbreaking “Double Birth Order” theory, which uncovers individuals’ true birth order and explains their behaviors. A former instructor at Tufts and Louisiana State University, Dr. Hurst has published extensively and shares his findings in Life’s Fingerprint: How Birth Order Affects Your Path Throughout Life.


    In this episode, Brian and Dr. Robert Hurst discuss:

    • The influence of birth order on personality and relationships.
    • Double birth orders and their unique effects on individuals.
    • Birth order’s role in managing family caregiving dynamics.
    • Practical applications of birth order in parenting and careers.


    Key Takeaways:

    • Birth order is a nuanced framework shaped by factors like sibling spacing, parental dynamics, and blended families, all of which significantly influence personality development and relational patterns.
    • Double birth orders emerge when siblings are spaced four or more years apart, creating traits that mimic only children or entirely new family hierarchies, which can magnify or alter original birth order traits.
    • Understanding birth order can resolve conflicts in caregiving scenarios, as dynamics like a "three-only" sibling rising to leadership often create friction with traditional family hierarchies.
    • Applying birth order insights helps improve parenting strategies, fosters better workplace collaboration, and even informs romantic compatibility by revealing the relational patterns people are drawn to.


    "If you understand birth order, it's not just 1-2-3; it can be 17 or 18 different types. But once you understand it, it is a Rosetta Stone for understanding everybody in your life, and it'll make things so much easier." — Dr. Robert Hurst


    Order Dr. Hurst's book today for a personalized autograph and insights into your true birth order: https://www.mybirthorder.com/


    Connect with Dr. Robert Hurst:

    Email: lifesfingerprint43@gmail.com

    Website: https://www.mybirthorder.com/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LifesFingerprintYourBirthOrder

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rvvhurst/


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    34 分
  • From Stress to Rest: Transforming Your Relationship with Sleep with Elizabeth Armstrong
    2025/01/07

    About Elizabeth Armstrong: Elizabeth Armstrong is a Certified Adult Sleep Coach with Sleep Solutions Unlimited, bringing a wealth of experience from her diverse professional background. As a registered nurse, Ph.D. in psychology, and holder of a Master of Divinity, she combines these disciplines to offer a holistic approach to adult sleep solutions. Inspired by her own sleep challenges and those of others, Elizabeth focuses on helping middle-aged and older adults improve their sleep quality through personalized, non-medicated strategies. She is passionate about empowering her clients to achieve longer, deeper, and more restorative sleep.


    In this episode, Brian and Elizabeth Armstrong discuss:

    • The importance of sleep for overall health and well-being
    • Common challenges and misconceptions about sleep issues
    • Strategies for improving sleep and overcoming insomnia
    • Personalized approaches to addressing sleep problems


    Key Takeaways:

    • Sleep apnea, a serious condition involving insufficient oxygen during sleep, can be managed with alternatives like the "Inspire" device, a small implant that stimulates breathing and avoids the discomfort of traditional CPAP masks.
    • Many people struggle with sleep because of their negative self-image as "bad sleepers," but adopting tools like personalized mantras and meditation can help reframe this mindset and improve sleep quality over time.
    • While medications and alcohol may seem like quick fixes for sleep, they disrupt natural sleep cycles, causing long-term harm to both physical and mental health, making lifestyle changes a better approach.
    • A truly effective sleep environment includes not only external factors like darkness, silence, and the right temperature but also avoiding non-sleep activities like watching TV in the bedroom to maintain a clear association with rest.


    "Everyone is a potentially good sleeper, regardless of the decade they’re in. Yes, things change—life situations, stress levels—they go up and down. But the self-concept of "I am, I can sleep, I have the potential to be a good sleeper" is critical to ingrain…we work a lot with that." — Elizabeth Armstrong

    Connect with Elizabeth Armstrong:

    Website: https://sleepsolutionsunlimited.com/

    Book A Complimentary Sleep Evaluation With Elizabeth:

    https://sleepsolutionsunlimitedelizabeth.as.me/


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    27 分
  • Building the Perfect Sleep Sanctuary for Kids and Families with JoAnna Inks
    2024/12/24

    About JoAnna Inks: JoAnna Inks is a Certified Pediatric Sleep Coach and the CEO of Sleep Solutions Unlimited, specializing in helping families teach their babies and children to sleep independently and consistently. Certified by renowned sleep expert Dana Obleman, JoAnna has spent over 14 years transforming sleepless nights into restful ones for thousands of families. In addition to her sleep expertise, she is a Certified Lactation Consultant and Pediatric Feeding Coach, offering a holistic approach to addressing children’s sleep and feeding needs. JoAnna’s mission is to empower parents with customized solutions so the entire family can enjoy the rest they deserve.


    In this episode, Brian and JoAnna Inks discuss:

    • Managing children’s sleep routines and family balance
    • Teaching children independent sleep skills
    • Creating an optimal sleep environment
    • Debunking pediatric sleep training myths


    Key Takeaways:

    • Sleep pressure, the natural buildup of a child’s need for sleep, is crucial for falling asleep independently, and activities like feeding or rocking just before sleep can disrupt this process and lead to nighttime wakefulness.
    • A child’s sleep environment should be a "sleep sanctuary," featuring complete darkness, an ideal temperature range of 68-72°F, and the removal of toys or distractions to establish clear sleep associations.
    • Consistency is key, with routines that aim for 11-12 hours of uninterrupted nighttime sleep, which helps children manage emotions better and supports overall development.
    • Tailored sleep plans, designed with a family’s unique preferences and a child’s specific needs, often succeed where rigid methods or generic advice fail, making sleep training approachable and sustainable.


    "A well-rested child is much more flexible than an exhausted child. So, get the foundation, get that child well-rested, and then I feel like you can have flexibility. It doesn't have to be just one way." — JoAnna Inks


    Get your free copy of 3 Tips To Help Your Baby Sleep Better Tonight!

    https://41a4-joanna.systeme.io/45c6cf65-f3b3e68d-3287c812


    Connect with JoAnna Inks:

    Website: https://sleepsolutionsunlimited.com/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joannainks/


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    26 分
  • Jennifer Ginty: The Moody Monster and the Journey to Emotional Healing
    2024/12/10

    About Jennifer Ginty: Jennifer Ginty is a single mother, entrepreneur, and mental health advocate living with Complex PTSD and Major Depressive Disorder stemming from childhood trauma. She is the founder of My Moody Monster, a therapeutic tool helping children express emotions safely and fostering family communication. Through her podcast, When Not Yet Becomes Right Now, and her YouTube series, Jennifer shares her healing journey and practical coping strategies to inspire and support others. Her work emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, resilience, and prioritizing emotional well-being.


    In this episode, Brian and Jennifer Ginty discuss:

    • The lifelong impacts of unresolved childhood trauma
    • Tools and strategies for emotional regulation and healing
    • The challenges of balancing personal well-being with caregiving responsibilities
    • Support systems and innovative solutions for mental health and emotional struggles


    Key Takeaways:

    • Childhood trauma often continues to affect individuals long after they leave the abusive environment, with children frequently facing disbelief and inadequate emotional support, leaving them stuck in a cycle of unresolved pain.
    • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) offers effective techniques for managing PTSD and emotional regulation, focusing on skills like mindfulness and "checking the facts" to help individuals process emotions more constructively.
    • Jennifer shared how her creation, the Moody Monster, has become a powerful tool for children and adults to safely express and manage their emotions, particularly benefiting non-verbal children and those with autism.
    • Caregivers must prioritize their own emotional health and self-care to avoid burnout and provide better support to those who depend on them, especially when balancing overwhelming responsibilities and stress.


    "When you practice being able to live with your emotions in that moment, you start to develop coping skills that can help you work through that moment." — Jennifer Ginty


    Connect with Jennifer Ginty:

    Website: https://mymoodymonster.com/

    Show: When "Not Yet" Becomes "Right Now": https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-not-yet-becomes-right-now/id1767481477

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyfPBbjF8fYefOB6I8j007A

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-ginty/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mymoodymonster

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymoodymonster


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    21 分
  • Lauren Fonvielle: Managing Stress and Pain with Emotional Freedom Techniques
    2024/11/26

    About Lauren Fonvielle: Lauren Fonvielle is an Integrative Energy Practitioner and Coach specializing in EFT/Tapping to help entrepreneurs reduce anxiety, stress, and limiting beliefs. With a background in business coaching, Lauren now combines energy healing modalities like Reiki, Sound Healing, and Meditation to guide clients through transformative experiences that promote inner peace and personal growth. Drawing from her own journey of healing from chronic pain and anxiety, she helps women, especially entrepreneurs, break free from emotional and physical barriers to achieve balance in both their personal and professional lives.


    In this episode, Brian and Lauren Fonvielle discuss:

    • Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) for stress and anxiety management
    • Linking emotional well-being to physical health and pain relief
    • Practical and accessible ways to incorporate EFT into daily life
    • Real-life transformations through EFT practices


    Key Takeaways:

    • Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), also called tapping, is a simple yet transformative practice of tapping on acupressure points while acknowledging emotions, shown to lower stress hormones like cortisol by up to 43%.
    • Tapping helps manage chronic conditions like fibromyalgia by addressing the emotional roots of pain and breaking the cycle of fear, anxiety, and physical discomfort that exacerbates symptoms.
    • By integrating EFT into daily routines, whether proactively as part of a wellness practice or reactively during high-stress moments, individuals can experience immediate and cumulative relief.
    • Through tapping, individuals often uncover and process buried emotions tied to past experiences, which not only alleviates physical pain but also resolves emotional barriers, leading to profound personal growth.


    "We do things to avoid the feelings, and this is a practice that really helps you acknowledge those feelings so that you can move through them, instead of just stuffing them down and trying to avoid them." — Lauren Fonvielle

    Connect with Lauren Fonvielle:

    Website: https://www.mindshiftwithlauren.com/

    Email: lauren@laurenfonvielle.com

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurenfonvielle/


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    24 分
  • Jane Dye: Navigating Grief, Health, and Family Demands with Compassion and Self-Love
    2024/11/12

    About Jane Dye: Jane Dye, RN, CCHC, is a Certified Transformational Health Coach and founder of Precedo Inc., where she combines her extensive background in nursing with holistic wellness coaching. With years of experience in hospital-based roles and as a former director of medical training, Jane shifted her focus to Precedo to help clients achieve greater energy, vitality, and life balance through personalized health strategies. She emphasizes sustainable diet and lifestyle practices, using an embodied coaching style to foster lasting transformations. Based in Charleston, South Carolina, Jane is passionate about guiding clients toward vibrant health and overall well-being.


    In this episode, Brian and Jane Dye discuss:

    • Managing stress and health in the midst of family and caregiving responsibilities
    • The impact of grief on mental, emotional, and physical well-being
    • Strategies for cultivating resilience and self-care amid life’s demands
    • How to implement practical, incremental health habits for lasting change


    Key Takeaways:

    • Conscious breathing exercises, involving slow inhales and exhales, can help manage acute stress by engaging the body’s parasympathetic "rest-and-digest" system, which reduces stress hormones and stabilizes the heart rate.
    • The most effective habit changes often start with small, achievable actions that have the highest potential impact, allowing for meaningful progress without overwhelming demands.
    • Grieving requires patience and compassion, as each person must navigate creating a “new normal” rather than attempting to return to a pre-loss state, with support from friends, family, or professional resources.
    • Building healthful habits, such as staying hydrated and incorporating mindful movement, can offer stability and strength during challenging times, especially when paired with a mindset of adding positive choices rather than focusing solely on restricting negative ones.


    "The key to any change is honestly to figure out the smallest possible thing that could have the greatest impact." — Jane Dye

    Resources Mentioned:

    Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor: https://www.amazon.com/Breath-New-Science-Lost-Art/dp/0735213615


    Connect with Jane Dye:

    Website: https://janekdye.com/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jane-k-dye-rn-cchc-95421631/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/janekdyeRN

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janekdye_/

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/janekdye/


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    34 分
  • Chris Miles: Breaking Free from Traditional Financial Traps
    2024/10/29

    About Chris Miles: Chris Miles is the "Cash Flow Expert" and the anti-financial advisor, dedicated to teaching entrepreneurs and high-income employees how to achieve financial prosperity today. After four years as a financial planner, Chris realized traditional investment strategies often fall short, leading him to focus on alternative investments that generate real cash flow. As the founder of Money Ripples, he has helped hundreds of clients discover an average of $34,000 a year by identifying money leaks and implementing innovative investment strategies. With a proven track record and features in major publications like CNN Money and US News, Chris empowers individuals to take control of their finances and create lasting wealth.


    In this episode, Brian and Chris Miles discuss:

    • Managing finances while caring for family
    • Breaking away from traditional financial advice
    • Real-life financial setbacks and recoveries
    • Navigating today’s economy and retirement plans


    Key Takeaways:

    • Relying solely on 401(k)s, savings, and paying off debt could leave you with insufficient retirement funds, as evidenced by Chris's father's struggles despite following these exact principles.
    • Building passive income through investments such as real estate and hard money lending creates reliable financial freedom, allowing you to retire earlier and withstand market downturns​.
    • Avoid locking money into inaccessible places like mortgages and retirement accounts; keeping your assets liquid ensures you can access funds during emergencies or downturns, like the 2008 crisis​.
    • Instead of focusing on accumulating wealth, track monthly cash flow and aim for continuous income streams that keep generating profits, even during difficult times​.


    "If you want your own financial freedom to go up, you need to get your money out of prison." — Chris Miles


    Connect with Chris Miles:

    Website: https://moneyripples.com/

    Show: Money Ripples Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/money-ripples-podcast/id895555599

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@moneyrippleswithchrismiles

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chriscmiles/

    Twitter: https://x.com/moneyripples

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moneyripples/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moneyripples

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moneyripples/


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    23 分
  • Krista Melanson: How Culinary Adventures Strengthen Relationships
    2024/10/15

    About Krista Melanson: Krista "The Relationship Chef" Melanson is a Cordon Bleu-trained chef and relationship coach who blends her passion for food with helping couples build deeper connections. Inspired by her culinary background and personal experiences, she launched "The Relationship Chef" to guide committed couples in using the love language of food to strengthen their relationships. Krista's unique approach to relationship coaching has helped people rediscover love, support, and passion in their partnerships through shared culinary experiences.


    In this episode, Brian and Krista Melanson discuss:

    • Creative ways to nurture relationships amidst daily life pressures
    • Cooking as a tool for building stronger relationships
    • Making time for meaningful connections in busy lives
    • Creativity and spontaneity in fostering emotional intimacy


    Key Takeaways:

    • Curated cooking experiences are designed to help couples reconnect by completing shared tasks, learning new culinary skills, and engaging in meaningful conversation, fostering stronger emotional bonds.
    • At-home date nights focused on preparing more complex meals allow couples to spend quality time together in a relaxed environment, free from the distractions of restaurants or outside activities.
    • Each meal plan is tailored to suit individual preferences, allergies, and food sensitivities, while also encouraging couples to step out of their comfort zones and try new foods to expand their palates.
    • Success stories demonstrate that couples, even those who spend a lot of time together, can strengthen their emotional connection and refresh their relationship by engaging in the shared experience of cooking at home.


    "A healthy and happy parent in a healthy and happier relationship is a better parent." — Krista Melanson


    Connect with Krista Melanson:

    Website: https://krista-marie.com/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/krista-melanson-b5606967/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kristadating/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_relationshipchef


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    19 分