00:00 – Intro
00:49 – Being privileged doesn’t make you immune
02:35 – if you find yourself in an environment in which you beg for validation
04:30 – Javayria about Code Switching
06:38 – Using power to include others
07:40 – Metacolonialism: when code-switching becomes permanent
12:32 – Extravert vs Intravert
16:15 – How I got manipulated to give someone £3,000 to be accepted
18:31 – Confidence vs Arrogance and why arrogance gets people ahead
20:02 – Blending and staying safe vs being yourself and filtering out people?
22:01 – What about Muslims working in structures that openly practice racism?
23:43 – What is considered as “normal” is changing: how IQ became obsolete
25:28 – People we seek validation from also seek validation, and create harmful spaces
27:00 - How to tell the difference between someone solid and someone who’s hot air?
29:55 - Three Cs: Compassion, Critical Thinking and Commitment.
32:43 - The most beautiful people are those who overcome the most difficult things in life
36:33 - How not to wake up when you’re 40 and realise you’ve wasted your life
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WHO ARE WE?
William is a Sociology Researcher at the University of Warwick working on Muslim experiences in Europe and North America.Javayria works in Higher Education and has a History degree from SOAS in South Asian History
REFERENCESBulhan, Hussein A. 2015. “Stages of Colonialism in Africa: From Occupation of Land to Occupation of Being,” Journal of Social and Political Psychology, 3(1): 239–56.Friedman, Sam, and Daniel Laurison. The Class Ceiling : Why it Pays to be Privileged, Bristol Policy Press, 2019.
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