00:00 – Intro

00:49 – Being privileged doesn’t make you immune

02:35 – if you find yourself in an environment in which you beg for validation

04:30 – Javayria about Code Switching

06:38 – Using power to include others

07:40 – Metacolonialism: when code-switching becomes permanent

12:32 – Extravert vs Intravert

16:15 – How I got manipulated to give someone £3,000 to be accepted

18:31 – Confidence vs Arrogance and why arrogance gets people ahead

20:02 – Blending and staying safe vs being yourself and filtering out people?

22:01 – What about Muslims working in structures that openly practice racism?

23:43 – What is considered as “normal” is changing: how IQ became obsolete

25:28 – People we seek validation from also seek validation, and create harmful spaces

27:00 - How to tell the difference between someone solid and someone who’s hot air?

29:55 - Three Cs: Compassion, Critical Thinking and Commitment.

32:43 - The most beautiful people are those who overcome the most difficult things in life

36:33 - How not to wake up when you’re 40 and realise you’ve wasted your life

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WHO ARE WE?

William is a Sociology Researcher at the University of Warwick working on Muslim experiences in Europe and North America.Javayria works in Higher Education and has a History degree from SOAS in South Asian History

REFERENCESBulhan, Hussein A. 2015. “Stages of Colonialism in Africa: From Occupation of Land to Occupation of Being,” Journal of Social and Political Psychology, 3(1): 239–56.Friedman, Sam, and Daniel Laurison. The Class Ceiling : Why it Pays to be Privileged, Bristol Policy Press, 2019.

00:00 – Intro

02:07 – How we were taught Islam

16:27 – Why people leave the religion

17:22 – Why people are two-faced?

23:43 – What are the causes of mislearning?

- South Asian Culture?- Salafism?- British Culture?

30:14 – What if Islam was taught chronologically?

35:47 - RecapSubscribe to my newsletter for Live conversations and events near you: https://william-barylo.kit.com/b11fac1fdc WHO ARE WE?

William is a Sociology Researcher at the University of Warwick working on Muslim experiences in Europe and North America.Javayria works in Higher Education and has a History degree from SOAS in South Asian HistoryREFERENCES

Hadith about the cathttps://sunnah.com/bukhari:2365

Moving in and Out of Islam, edited by Karin van Nieuwkerk, University of Texas Press 2018https://utpress.utexas.edu/books/van-nieuwkerk-moving-in-and-out-of-islam

Young, Muslim and Criminal by Mohammed Qasim, Bristol University Press, 2018https://policy.bristoluniversitypress.co.uk/young-muslim-and-criminal

MBS about how the funding of mosques and madrassas was seen by the US as a defense against the Russians and Iran during the Cold Warhttps://www.washingtonpost.com/world/national-security/saudi-prince-denies-kushner-is-in-his-pocket/2018/03/22/701a9c9e-2e22-11e8-8688-e053ba58f1e4_story.html

https://moderndiplomacy.eu/2018/04/19/the-saudi-export-of-ultra-conservatism-in-the-era-of-mbs-an-update/

https://www.newsclick.in/saudi-crown-prince-america-asked-us-spread-ideology-isis

00:00 – The harm we observe

05:00 – Learning the context

06:39 – Language is key to connecting with a place

09:39 – The best people to meet

10:48 – The importance of slowing down to create content

13:43 – Quality travel content is about quality bonds

14:34 – The best places to stay: with people

20:24 – Best ways of respecting people and places, shooting respectful documentaries

23:14 – the importance of not ignoring feedback

27:17 – Give and share: sadaqa is not only money

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REFERENCES

Your new favourite travel website https://www.sacredfootsteps.org/

Muslims in the West: Embodying the Change – Zaytuna Collegehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfrCbsJDf-Y

Young Muslim Change-Makers: Grassroots Charities Rethinking Modern Societies. London: Routledge, 2017https://www.routledge.com/Young-Muslim-Change-Makers-Grassroots-Charities-Rethinking-Modern-Societies/Barylo/p/book/9781138054158