In this episode, we’re talking about something a lot of women struggle with but rarely say out loud. What does it really take to believe in yourself, even when self-doubt creeps in? And how do you step into your space with confidence when you’re not quite feeling it?

To help unpack all of this, I’m joined by Wendy Marie, founder of More Equality and creator of Tech Together AI. Wendy brings her warmth, honesty, and humour to a conversation that is part pep talk, part practical guide. She shares her journey from senior leadership at Salesforce to becoming a solo mum and entrepreneur, and why she’s now helping women claim their worth without apology.

We talk about how to show up in rooms where you might not feel ready, how to introduce yourself with impact, and how even tiny mindset shifts can help you change the way people experience you. Wendy explains why you don’t have to feel confident to come across as confident and how others often see our brilliance long before we do.

This episode is full of laughter, honest reflections, and the kind of reminders we all need when we're feeling a bit stuck. If you've ever found yourself whispering rather than owning your voice, this one’s for you.

Tune in for a fresh take on confidence, personal branding, and why sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is just show up and say, “Yes, I am f***ing amazing.”

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Is it a crisis… or could it actually be an awakening?

In this week’s episode of Mums on Cloud Nine, we’re joined by transformational coach and breathwork facilitator Naomi Buff, who brings honesty, humour, and healing to the subject of midlife shifts. Whether you're rethinking your career, rebuilding after a divorce, wrestling with perimenopause, or just wondering "Is this all there is?", this conversation is a permission slip to pause, breathe, and reset.

Naomi shares her personal journey of losing everything: her marriage, her business, her sense of self, all at 40. She explains how that breakdown became a breakthrough. We talk about the emotional rollercoaster of midlife, the power of breath to regulate your nervous system, and why so many women feel like they’re constantly reinventing themselves, even before they hit the so-called “crisis” years.

This isn’t about clichés or quick fixes. It’s about reconnecting with who you really are, letting go of the stories that no longer serve you, and embracing the next version of yourself. That might mean a new job, a new rhythm, or simply learning to breathe again.

We also explore:

• What a “midlife awakening” actually looks and feels like

• Why grief, rage, and reinvention often go hand in hand

• How to release emotional energy instead of storing it up

• The role of boundaries, breath, and belief in navigating change

• Why it's okay to fall apart if you’re willing to rebuild with intention

Naomi also breaks down the different types of breathwork, how it can be used to release trauma, and why you don’t need an hour-long session to feel its benefits. Even a few minutes a day can help reset your state and reclaim your power.

Mums on Cloud Nine is your go-to destination for inspiring content that empowers women to build a life and career they love. Each week, we share expert advice, personal stories, and practical tips across a range of topics, from health and mindset to money and career growth.

Exams can turn even the calmest household into a battleground of stress, stubbornness, and last-minute panic. If helping your child revise makes you want to hide in the garden shed, this episode is for you. Gurpreet Kaur, founder of GC Tutors and a qualified teacher with a heart for building kids’ confidence, joins Heather, Lyn and Kelly-Jace to unpack what really works when exams are looming.

She shares down-to-earth advice for parents whose children struggle with low marks, anxiety or special educational needs. You’ll hear when it’s worth bringing in a tutor (and how early support can make a huge difference), why modern maths methods often baffle grown-ups, and how an outside expert can get through to kids who won’t listen to mum or dad.

Gurpreet talks candidly about the signs of test anxiety, how to spot it at home or in the classroom, and simple ways to calm nerves so your child can show what they know. She also lifts the lid on Ofsted ratings, whether parents should trust them blindly, and how to weigh up local schools beyond the inspection labels.

For a fresh twist, the conversation touches on whether tools like ChatGPT help or hinder children’s learning and how older students are using AI creatively for revision.

Full of relatable moments and gentle encouragement, this episode is a pep talk for parents and a reminder that no child should face exam stress alone. Grab your headphones, breathe out, and find out how to bring calm back to study time for your kids and for you.

Highlights

• When to consider getting a tutor and how it can fill gaps before they grow

• How changing teaching methods confuse parents and make homework battles worse

• Practical ways to tell if low scores are due to anxiety, not ability

• Calming strategies for different personality types, from energetic kids to quiet worriers

• Gurpreet’s honest view on Ofsted reports and how much weight to give them

• The surprising ways older kids use AI for revision and why it’s not always a magic fix

• How tutoring helps children with special educational needs thrive with personalised support

• Reassurance for parents: you don’t have to be a perfect teacher to help your child succeed