In this heart-centered episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes invites listeners into a conversation about what it really means to surrender to God's plan—especially when life feels like it's moving on without you. Dae shares how true peace and relaxation aren’t found in escape—but in the presence of God.

If you’ve ever wrestled with the fear of missing out, questioned God’s timing, or struggled to rest when your life feels like a constant cycle of doing and giving, this episode is for you.

Inside this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why surrendering to God isn’t passive—it’s a daily act of trust and obedience.

• How God’s provisions often don’t come the way we expect, but they’re always enough.

• That rest in motherhood isn’t about doing less, but about being more aware of His presence.

• The beauty of responding to God’s giving with a heart grounded in scripture, not scarcity.

• Why saying “no” to the world’s pace can unlock a deeper spiritual fulfillment.

✨ This episode will encourage you to reflect, release, and receive what God is offering in your current season—even if it doesn’t look like what you imagined.

In this refreshing episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dr. Allison Harris Welcher joins the conversation to share her honest journey of motherhood, ambition, and authenticity. As a mom of two young boys and a leader in education, Dr. Welcher reflects on the tension between being present at home and pursuing her professional purpose—and how she’s learned to thrive in both.

This episode is for the mom who’s asking: “Can I still go after my dreams and be a good mom?”—the answer is yes, with intention and grace.

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💡 You’ll be encouraged to:

• Define who you want to be, not just what you do.

• Find joy in the journey, even when it feels slow or unseen.

• Celebrate your small wins as sacred moments of progress.

• Practice rest and stillness as spiritual disciplines, not just luxuries.

• Lean into the duality of motherhood and personal growth without guilt.

In this deeply reflective episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes unpacks what it means to seek truth in a world overflowing with opinions, advice, and information overload. Through the lens of Eve’s story in Genesis, this episode explores how the desire for knowledge outside of God’s will can lead to confusion, overwhelm, and even misalignment with our true calling—especially in motherhood.

If you’ve ever Googled yourself into a spiral, downloaded one too many parenting PDFs, or found yourself paralyzed trying to “do the right thing,” this episode will meet you right where you are. Dae shares how motherhood has been her classroom of humility, surrender, and daily dependence on the Holy Spirit.

🕊️ You’ll walk away with:

• A reminder that not all knowledge is wisdom—some of it distracts us from God’s truth.

• Biblical encouragement to filter your desires through God’s word before acting.

• Permission to release analysis paralysis and lean into Spirit-led decision-making.

• Encouragement for stay-at-home moms wrestling with the tension between independence and identity.

• A practical challenge to stop asking everyone else, and start asking God first.

✨ Whether you're in a season of transition, confusion, or just craving peace in your decisions, this episode offers Holy Spirit clarity for the questions you're tired of googling.

In this powerful conversation, Dae Hayes is joined by special guest Elan Page, a mom who is navigating the world of homeschooling with grace, grit, and God’s guidance. This episode is for the mom wondering, “Can I homeschool my child and still chase my dreams?” or “How do I prioritize self-care while being present in my parenting?”

Elan gets real about the financial and emotional realities of homeschooling, and how to make education a collaborative decision between parents. You'll hear about the importance of community, honoring each child’s God-given gifts, and the reminder that motherhood doesn’t mean the end of your individuality—it’s often the beginning of discovering it.

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💡 Key Takeaways:

• Homeschooling is a calling and a choice, and it works best when both parents are in partnership.

• Your identity matters—exploring your passions is not selfish, it’s sacred.

• Every child is an assignment from God, with their own unique learning path.

• Self-care is spiritual—you can’t pour from an empty vessel.

• Community matters. You don’t have to homeschool (or mother) alone.

In this heartfelt episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes shares a deeply personal reflection inspired by the worship song "Canvas and Clay"—a powerful reminder that nothing in our motherhood journey is wasted. Whether you're navigating sleepless nights, identity shifts, or mental exhaustion, this conversation reminds you that God is still shaping you.

Through the imagery of pottery, Dae explores the beauty of being formed on the Potter’s wheel, even when the process feels messy or incomplete. Just like clay, we are crushed, reformed, and refined. But through it all, God’s hands never leave us.

💛 You’ll be reminded that:

• God uses every season—even the hard ones—for His glory and your good.

• Your identity as a mom is not the end of your story, it’s part of your becoming.

• Surrendering control makes space for God’s creative work in you.

• Spiritual consistency is cultivated in the crushing, not the comfort.

Whether you’re deep in the trenches or just trying to catch your breath, this episode offers biblical encouragement for weary hearts and hope for moms who feel like unfinished work.

What to Expect:

In this conversation, Host Jarkeshia McGahee, a resilient widow, mother, and woman of faith discusses the intersection of mental health and faith. JAM emphasizes the importance of checking in on oneself and others. She shares personal experiences of navigating grief, loss, and the unpredictability of life, while highlighting how God’s purpose prevails despite our plans. The discussion encourages vulnerability, community support, and the significance of surrendering to God’s plan for our lives.

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Highlights:

• Life often doesn't go as planned, but God has a purpose for us.

• Grief and loss can be navigated with faith and community support.

• It's important to ask for help and be vulnerable with others.

• Finding your voice is essential for fulfilling your purpose.

• Self-inventory is necessary for personal growth and mental health.

• Sharing your testimony can inspire and help others.

Chapters

02:16 When Life Doesn't Go According to Plan

06:21 God's Plans show His Glory

08:40 Are You Really Prepared to Receive Your Own Plans?

10:08 Trials are Used to Create Testimonies

11:30 Real Feelings in Grief & What to Do With Them

15:39 Reverse CHOP Tips

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What to Expect:

In this conversation, the speakers discuss the challenges and joys of motherhood, particularly in the context of loss and trauma. They emphasize the importance of community, faith, and personal growth while navigating the complexities of parenting. The discussion also highlights the significance of storytelling and writing as tools for healing and empowerment among mothers.

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Summary

In this episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes shares her journey as a mother and entrepreneur, emphasizing the importance of mental health alongside motherhood. She discusses her experiences with obedience, the sovereignty of God, and the challenges of navigating expectations in her faith journey. Dae reflects on the significance of trusting God's plan, even in the face of rejection and unmet expectations, and encourages listeners to deepen their relationship with God through these experiences.

What to Expect:

• God uses everything that we bring to him at the altar.
• Trusting God's plan is as important as trusting His power.
• Rejection can be a form of reward in God's eyes.
• God wants all the glory in our achievements.
• Navigating motherhood and entrepreneurship can be challenging.
• Deepening your relationship with God is a continuous journey.

Highlights

01:14 Launching the Create Bless Repeat Summit

03:53 Understanding God's Sovereignty and Obedience

09:12 Navigating Spiritual Warfare and Expectations

13:23 Trusting God's Plan Over Personal Ambition

15:41 Finding Meaning in Rejection and Suffering