You say you’re fine. But you’re barely sleeping. Barely eating. Barely holding it together. This episode is for the man performing strength on the outside while falling apart inside. Adam Nisenson, LMFT and The Betrayal Shrink, calls out the silent suffering that so many betrayed men live with, and gives you full permission to drop the mask.

“Pretending you’re fine might protect your ego, but it doesn’t heal your trauma.”

In this no-fluff, straight-to-the-heart episode, you’ll hear:

• Why pretending you’re okay is a trauma response, not a sign of resilience
• The hidden costs of emotional suppression on your body and mind
• Signs that you’re masking your pain instead of dealing with it
• Why real strength means saying, “I’m not okay”, and letting that be enough

“You don’t have to apologize for being hurt. You have full permission to not be okay. That’s not weakness, that’s self-respect.”

This podcast is short, raw, and real. You won’t find fluffy affirmations or surface-level advice here. Just truth, clarity, and permission to begin again, honestly.

Follow the show, share it with a brother who needs it, and remember: you’re not broken, you’re rebuilding.

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When partner betrayal hits, it doesn’t just break your heart, it crushes your ego. This episode explores how infidelity shatters a man’s self-image, confidence, and sense of identity. Adam challenges outdated beliefs around strength, masculinity, and asking for help, and shows you how ego defenses like numbing, overcompensating, or trying to "win your partner back" can keep you stuck. Learn how to work with, not against your ego and begin rebuilding a healthy sense of masculine self-worth rooted in truth, vulnerability, and self-respect.

Think you’re losing your mind after betrayal? You’re not. You’re dealing with trauma. In this episode, Adam breaks down how betrayal trauma hijacks your nervous system, distorts your thoughts, and overwhelms your emotions. From PTSD symptoms to racing thoughts, numbness, and hyper-vigilance, this episode gives you language for what you’re experiencing and reminds you that your pain is valid. You’re not weak. You’re not broken. You’re in survival mode. And it’s time to start healing from the inside out.

You never forget the moment you discover your partner’s betrayal. It’s called D-Day for a reason, because it feels like everything explodes. In this powerful episode, Adam walks you through what happens in the first few hours and days after partner betrayal. From shock and trauma responses to the overwhelming urge to get answers, he provides guidance on how to survive the emotional earthquake without making life-altering decisions you might regret. If you’re still in the fog, this episode will ground you with clarity, compassion, and next steps.

Welcome to our first episode, where Adam Nisenson, LMFT, CSAT, The Betrayal Shrink, opens the door to an often-ignored conversation, what it’s like to be a man who’s been cheated on. With raw honesty and clinical insight, Adam shares his personal story of betrayal and explains why partner infidelity hits men differently. This episode dismantles the myth that men don’t feel deeply or don’t suffer from emotional trauma. It’s not about blame, it’s about truth, healing, and breaking the silence. If you’ve been carrying your pain alone, this is where your recovery begins.