Healthy Love and Money

著者： Ed Coambs - Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™
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  • Why did you spend so much money on… Couples have fights, disagreements, and misunderstandings about money all the time. This is normal, but is it healthy for your relationship? The solutions to money differences are not always as apparent as smart couples would think. Listen to incredible interviews with financial therapists, couples therapists, and financial planning experts to learn, heal, and grow your way through your most resentment-building financial differences. There is no need to experience financial misery with your happily ever after when you can foster financial intimacy. If you are smart, ambitious, love your partner, and don’t want money to be a barrier to connection, meaning, and purpose in your life, then pop in your ear buds or crank up your speakers in your family mobile and let’s get you moving towards healthy love and money. This podcast is for you if If you are a female breadwinner or married to one If you are a successful professional but still feel miserable about money If you can’t stop thinking about money, and check your bank account three times a day If you spend money and then worry what your partner will think If you got a large sum of money and it has caused more problems than good If you are planning to get married no matter which time it is If one or both of your parents was a mess with money If your siblings can’t stop asking for financial help If you have adult children you want out of your wallet If your a first generation professional and you feel out of place with your income If you want your partner to participate in the finances with you If you feel guilt, shame, anxiety, or fear about money If you don’t see your money topic, let us know and we will be sure to cover it. [Occasional Explicit Content]
    ©℗ 2024 Healthy Love & Money
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  • Sibling Estrangement and Managing Family Trauma with Fern Schumer Chapman

    Sibling Estrangement and Managing Family Trauma with Fern Schumer Chapman
    2024/09/19

    “In many ways, sibling estrangement is like mourning the living.”

    After witnessing firsthand the heartache of fractured sibling relationships, journalist Fern Schumer Chapman embarked on a journey to understand and heal family estrangement–in her own life and those of others.


    Our host Ed Coambs chats with Fern as she shares her deeply personal experiences and professional insights from her book, Brothers, Sisters, Strangers: Sibling Estrangement and the Road to Reconciliation. As the daughter of a Holocaust refugee, her story brings a unique and poignant perspective to this often misunderstood issue, shedding light on how trauma can ripple through generations.


    “Sibling estrangement is an expression of a family system.”


    Fern guides us through the different types of estrangement, from physical separation to emotionally distant relationships, and brings up the difficult question of whether reconciliation is even possible. Emotions run deep as they address the feelings of unlovability and failure that often accompany estrangement, and talk about the cultural barriers that prevent open discussion of these difficult topics.


    “If you shut down the relationship here and now, you’re not just affecting this relationship. You’re affecting this generation and possibly the next.”


    Aging and life transitions can also complicate sibling dynamics, often bringing hidden tensions to the surface during moments of crisis, such as parental illness or inheritance disputes. Ed and Fern analyze risk factors like narcissism, mental health challenges, and political differences that can strain sibling bonds.


    Fern asks us to never forget the value of strong foundational relationships, offering guidance and hope for those navigating the rocky terrain of sibling estrangement.


    Key Topics:

    • Why Fern Writes on Sibling Estrangement (02:51)
    • Defining “Family System” (05:05)
    • Sibling Estrangement Risk Factors (07:11)
    • Defining “Sibling Estrangement” (8:26)
    • Navigating the Estrangement-Reconciliation Cycle (17:22)
    • How Your Children’s Behavior May Trigger Your Own Fears and Insecurities (24:22)
    • Other Sibling Estrangement Risk Factors (26:11)



    Connect With Healthy Love and Money:

    1. Schedule your free 30-minute Discovery Call About Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™.
    2. Learn about your money and attachment style with this short Attachment Style Quiz.
    3. Buy the Double Award Winning Book: The Healthy Love and Money Way.
    4. Hit Follow on Your Favorite Podcast Player To Get the Latest Episodes.
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    36 分
  • The Power of Motivational Interviewing in Healthy Love and Money with Christine Miles

    The Power of Motivational Interviewing in Healthy Love and Money with Christine Miles
    2024/09/12

    “If somebody's emotionally activated, then we can't do the problem-solving and the logical thinking that we know is needed in the financial planning world.”

    Can a shift in conversation style transform lives? Our host Ed Coambs sits down with Christine Miles, a licensed clinical social worker, and expert in motivational interviewing (MI). Christine uncovers the incredible power of MI and how this groundbreaking technique helps people stuck or struggling to make pivotal changes. Ed and Christine discuss how MI isn’t just for therapy—it’s a versatile tool used in financial planning, real estate, addiction therapy, and healthcare. Christine shares the fascinating origins of MI, created by Stephen Rollnick and William Miller, and its foundational role in fostering effective and supportive communication.


    Have you ever wondered why some expert advice just doesn’t seem to stick? Christine explains the importance of understanding a client's readiness for change and how a supportive communication style can prevent resistance and disengagement. Christine emphasizes the need for promoting autonomy and how a non-confrontational approach can lead to better outcomes. By adopting MI principles such as acceptance, compassion, and curiosity, professionals can create environments that encourage meaningful and thoughtful decision-making.


    Ed and Christine explore the emotional complexities in financial decision-making and how moral beliefs and the autonomic nervous system play a role. Christine illustrates how MI can help navigate these emotional responses, making space for logical problem-solving and better financial planning. Take a moment after the episode to reflect on your own journey toward financial intimacy, and don't forget to share this insightful conversation with others who might benefit.


    Key Topics:

    • Welcome, Christine Miles! (00:00)
    • The Origins and Principles of Motivational Interviewing (04:50)
    • Directive vs. Motivational Communications Styles (06:46)
    • Emotions in Financial Planning (11:15)
    • The Importance of Trust in Financial Advising (36:14)
    • The Stages of Change in Motivational Interviewing (40:54)
    • Further Benefits of Motivational Interviewing (43:51)



    Resources:

    • MICenterForChange.com



    Connect With Healthy Love and Money:

    1. Schedule your free 30-minute Discovery Call About Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™.
    2. Learn about your money and attachment style with this short Attachment Style Quiz.
    3. Buy the Double Award Winning Book: The Healthy Love and Money Way.
    4. Hit Follow on Your Favorite Podcast Player To Get the Latest Episodes.
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    48 分
  • The Emotional Side of Financial Growth with Elle and Reagan Pugh

    The Emotional Side of Financial Growth with Elle and Reagan Pugh
    2024/09/05

    “When you can have someone who's not your partner point out to you what’s [actually] going on, man, you get to wake up, and it's really more fun when you’re awake.” -Reagan

    What if our deepest emotional patterns are secretly sabotaging our financial stability? Join our host Ed Coambs for a poignant conversation with his clients Reagan and Elle Pugh, a dynamic couple dedicated to navigating the complexities of personal and relational development.

    They unravel their journey of self-discovery and relationship enhancement through the transformative power of the Enneagram, illuminating how understanding these patterns has reshaped their approach to life and finances. Their candid discussions provide valuable insights into overcoming ingrained behaviors and fostering transparent, growth-oriented financial conversations.

    To truly achieve financial intimacy, couples must navigate the emotional undercurrents that often accompany money matters. Reagan and Elle’s experience offers a masterclass in transforming these sensitive conversations into opportunities for growth and connection.


    By working with Ed and his therapy-informed approaches, and fostering open communication, Reagan and Elle illustrate how to make financial discussions both enjoyable and productive. Don’t miss this episode of Healthy Love and Money which explores the profound impact of financial collaboration and the strides towards creating a shared vision of abundance.



    Key Topics:

    • Elle and Reagan’s Journey with Money and Personal Growth (00:00)
    • The Role of Therapy and the Enneagram in Their Relationship (04:25)
    • Reagan’s Book “Too Emotional” and Its Journey (06:01)
    • Financial Struggles and Overcoming Debt (16:01)
    • The Importance of a Guide in the Financial Journey (21:17)
    • Emotions and Financial Decisions (22:26)
    • The Role of Play and Celebration in Financial Health (41:04)
    • Final Thoughts on Financial Intimacy (46:04)



    Resources:

    • BeyondYourType.co
    • TooEmotionalBook.com



    Connect With Healthy Love and Money:

    1. Schedule your free 30-minute Discovery Call About Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™.
    2. Learn about your money and attachment style with this short Attachment Style Quiz.
    3. Buy the Double Award Winning Book: The Healthy Love and Money Way.
    4. Hit Follow on Your Favorite Podcast Player To Get the Latest Episodes.
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    49 分

あらすじ・解説

Why did you spend so much money on… Couples have fights, disagreements, and misunderstandings about money all the time. This is normal, but is it healthy for your relationship? The solutions to money differences are not always as apparent as smart couples would think. Listen to incredible interviews with financial therapists, couples therapists, and financial planning experts to learn, heal, and grow your way through your most resentment-building financial differences. There is no need to experience financial misery with your happily ever after when you can foster financial intimacy. If you are smart, ambitious, love your partner, and don’t want money to be a barrier to connection, meaning, and purpose in your life, then pop in your ear buds or crank up your speakers in your family mobile and let’s get you moving towards healthy love and money. This podcast is for you if If you are a female breadwinner or married to one If you are a successful professional but still feel miserable about money If you can’t stop thinking about money, and check your bank account three times a day If you spend money and then worry what your partner will think If you got a large sum of money and it has caused more problems than good If you are planning to get married no matter which time it is If one or both of your parents was a mess with money If your siblings can’t stop asking for financial help If you have adult children you want out of your wallet If your a first generation professional and you feel out of place with your income If you want your partner to participate in the finances with you If you feel guilt, shame, anxiety, or fear about money If you don’t see your money topic, let us know and we will be sure to cover it. [Occasional Explicit Content]
©℗ 2024 Healthy Love & Money
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