Ever feel guilty for spending money, even when it’s on something meaningful? Like that family vacation you saved up for but still second-guessed? We’re calling out the inner critic that loves to say, “You should save more. You shouldn’t buy that.” There’s no one-size-fits-all budget, and it’s time to stop shaming yourself into one. Discover the hidden money rules you’ve picked up over the years and how they mess with your financial peace. You’ll learn how to spot those unhelpful “shoulds,” reframe them with intention, and start making money choices that actually feel good and align with your real priorities.

Key moments:

(03:24) How social conditioning, family, and media shape your beliefs about money and spending

(08:06) Feeling bad about money, even when you're doing everything right, is more common than you think

(09:01) Decision paralysis often comes from the fear of making the “wrong” money move

(12:45) A simple exercise to help you rewrite your internal money script more intentionally

(15:32) Ask what a purchase gives you, not if it’s “right,” to align spending with your goals

Link mentioned in this episode:

• Monarch Money

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Merging lives often means merging finances, but how do you do it without stepping on toes? Jake Courtney, CFP®, CSLP®, from the SLP Wealth team, joins us to unpack common questions couples face when managing money together. From deciding whether to combine accounts to setting up smart bank structures that support your goals, we cover the practical steps and money conversations that can strengthen your relationship, how to set boundaries without starting fights, and which tools make budgeting as a couple way less painful.

Key moments:

(02:51) How Jake and Meagan approach money differently in their own relationships

(11:30) Using Monarch together can spark helpful conversations, even without merging actual bank accounts

(18:37) The hybrid model lets you combine finances without fully joining every dollar

(23:09) Automating finances reduces stress and makes joint money management much easier

(26:45) Set simple spending boundaries to avoid conflict and encourage open communication

Links mentioned in this episode:

• Monarch Money

• YNAB

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When it comes to money, it's easy to get ahead of yourself. Sometimes that means prioritizing the wrong goal at the wrong time. We're playing a game of “This or That” — should you save or invest first? Pay off debt or grow your wealth? Contribute to an HSA or a Roth IRA? While the right answer always depends on your situation, we'll talk through how to think about your priorities, what foundational steps shouldn’t be skipped, and where flexibility makes sense. Learn how to think more clearly about what should come first, and why.

Key moments:

(04:29) Emergency savings may be boring, but it’s your first defense against taking on debt
(10:44) Investing while having high-interest debt is counterintuitive to building wealth
(17:05) Should you put more money into your 401(k) or max out a Roth IRA?
(23:14) What about adding to your 401(k) contributions vs. investing in a taxable brokerage account?
(28:58) College savings with a 529 is smart, but it might not always be the top priority

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