Have you experienced a traumatic equestrian related event that you just can’t seem to move past?

Maybe you need to try tapping.

Sarah Louise Lilley, founder of Emotional Freedom with Sarah, is a Clinical EFT Practitioner who has helped riders around the world reconnect with their confidence after a traumatic event.

In this episode, we talk about:

• What EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) is and how it works

• Why it is such a powerful tool for equestrians

• How Sarah came across EFT and how it changed her life

You can find Sarah here!:

EmotionalFreedomwithSarah.com

instagram.com/sarahlouiselilley

Compliments, we all love to hear them right? But have you thought about how giving compliments that are related to someone’s appearance may make them feel uncomfortable?

Giving compliments that are directed at how someone looks may cause them to believe that their worth is based on how they look on the outside, especially for younger folks!

Instead of complimenting someone on their appearance, try complimenting on their character, personality, skills and achievements instead!

In this episode, I discuss:

• Why appearance-based compliments may be hurtful or uncomfortable

• How complimenting others can boost your own emotional wellness

• Ways that we can give compliments that will shift our focus from physical traits to inner qualities and characteristics

One thing that people don't talk about enough when it comes to exercising, is how it helps build resiliency and mental toughness. Yes, exercising is great for your physical health, but it also does wonders to change your mindset and to develop a stronger and tougher brain.

Being mentally tough can help you set yourself up for success, it can help you reframe negative thoughts and that can translate into all aspects of your life.

In this episode, I discuss:

• How working out helped me develop mental toughness
• Why having resiliency changed my life
• What is a way in which we can practice building mental toughness

Links:

www.haybalesandbarbells.com/memorial-day-sales

www.ridely.com

www.equestly.com

Social media is a great tool to connect people and to form communities, but it can also have negative effects on our mental and emotional wellness. From comparing our lives to others, to feeling inadequate about ourselves from viewing others’ accounts, these are just some things that social media can make us feel.

In this episode, I discuss:

• How social media can create both positive and negative experiences

• Ways to balance social media in your life

• How to not allow mindless scrolling to affect your mental wellness

P.S. My Core Training Program is available on the Ridely app! Get the App here!

Have you heard of toxic positivity? While this term is fairly new, this has actually existed since the start of humanity! While it’s great to have a positive attitude, sometimes it can be harmful especially when you start denying others actual feelings and emotions.

In this episode, I discuss:

• What toxic positivity is and how to identify it
• What are some things to say instead
• Why toxic positivity can be harmful in the horse world
• The importance of acknowledging what people are feeling

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P.S. I know I said I would upload an episode on financial wellness this week, but it will be pushed back to next week!! I promise!!

Let's take a break from all the heavy topics that we've been talking about and talk about something a little bit more light hearted!

I got a request from a follower asking me to talk about how I got my horse, Koda, so we will be talking about that today!

In this episode, I talk about:

• My horse buying experience
• How I came across my horse
• How we spent a year on building a foundation

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Let’s face it.. the horse world is not very inclusive and it is very easy to feel out of place and feel lost.

As your typical adult amateur, I have struggled with feeling this way for a very long time and I’m sure some of you have to!

In this episode, I talk about:

• My own experiences with feeling out of place in the horse world

• A quote that helped me feel more secure in where I was in life

• One thing that can help with feeling more included

I used to think that taking care of myself and my needs were a selfish thing. But then I realized that if I don’t take off myself and put myself first, I won’t be able to take care of everything else around me including my horse!

Self-care is not selfish. Prioritizing yourself and your needs is the only way to truly attain happiness and to live a well balanced life.

In this episode, I discuss:

• Why Self-care isn’t selfish
• What it means to take care of yourself
• 5 Steps to start practicing self-care