Charlotte, a Holistic Transformation Coach bravely shares her story from addiction to crystal meth to becoming drug free with no rehab, and just a determination to live a better life and to connect to who she truly was.

This is SUCH a powerful story and so much vulnerability, as well as looking at our childhood homes, the dynamics with our parents and how that can massively impact our self-worth, self-esteem and lead us into unhealthy patterns that do not serve us.

Key highlights of the conversation:

- Charlotte ending an engagement and walking away from a long-term relationship and bouncing straight into a toxic relationship with an addict.

- The rapid spiral into self-sabotage and drugs when we feel lost and repress feeling our feelings.

- The dramatic shift from being a woman who thought drugs were dirty and never touched them, to being a crystal meth addict, becoming homeless and living in a crack den.

- We dig into her family history looking at generational trauma, and how traumas in our parent’s lives can have a knock-on effect into our patterns in relationships and love.

- How child version of Charlotte was confident until age 8 when there were issues at home, and she kept getting her intuition of their being problems with her parents invalidated by them, which shook her sense of self and left her feeling ungrounded. This led into a pattern of craving love and connection and being in back to back relationships from 15 to gain validation.

- How a conversation with a friend when he pointed out that she was a pushover, made her realise she’d been a people pleaser for life and start setting healthy boundaries and saying no more, and working out what she truly wanted.

It is an episode not to be missed!

Charlotte's Contact details:

- Instagram: @Iamcharlottejackson

- Podcast: Game Changer, with Charlotte Jackson

I am so excited for you to hear this very special conversation with (in my opinion) the OG Confidence Coach. I was so blown away by Jo's book Flying for Beginners that I started using some of the techniques within it on my own coaching clients who battle very loud inner critics and low self-esteem, as it's so bloody powerful!

Jo is the UK's leading Confidence Coach and expert in human behaviour, Author and Podcaster. She is the perfect mix of wise, warm and relatable.

In this episode Jo shares her confidence story from low self-esteem after a difficult childhood to finding true confidence and authentic happiness after being jolted out of her people pleasing ways in 2011. In one week Jo was diagnosed with cancer and lost a good friend to suicide, shortly after she left her marriage. This collection of events led her on a self-discovery journey and to setting up her successful Coaching Business, writing her book and finding true love with her now husband.

I hope you enjoy listening to this as much as I enjoyed recording it.

Contact:

- Website: www.jo-emerson.com

- Instagram: @jo_emerson_

- Book, Flying for beginners. Available on Amazon.

Join us for a special episode where for the first time...drum roll....we have male guests!

Meet Matt Knibb, Dad of two, Head of PE at a school for those with additional needs and Mental Health first aid trainer and Brad Smith, Dad of one, solution based hypnotherapist, the hosts of Mental Health Takeaway podcast. A podcast that discuss men's mental health in a light hearted manner.

After being invited on to their podcast and having such insightful conversations, I thought it would be great to have an authentic conversation delving into confidence, mental health and let's be real...their life stories!

Key moments of the episode:

- Matt and Brad discuss what led to them launching this podcast and focusing on men's mental health. Discussing the vital things that we can learn from these conversations and how women can support the men in their life who are struggling with their mental health.

- Both men share their childhood confidence journeys into adulthood and reflect on key moments of struggle and lessons.

- Both share their life confidence pivotal moments and how those moments shaped their growth.

- We all realised that one of our life pivotal confidence moments were our divorces and walking away from marriages that didn't work, we discussed how hitting rock can set you up on a new more authentic path.

- We discussed pillars of self-esteem and how life sometimes impacts all of your pillars at once, losing a job, a relationship ending etc and when this happens it can be extremely ungrounding and stressful.

- Both Matt and Brad share some really valuable advice for those on a confidence journey with some golden nuggets of wisdom.

Contact Matt and Brad:

Instagram: @mental_health_takeways

In this episode, we sit down with Hayley Brown, a passionate sign language interpreter, to explore her unique career journey and the life experiences that have shaped her along the way. Hayley opens up about challenges like single parenting, overcoming relationship struggles, and the influence of personal tragedies on her passion for communication.

Below are some key highlights from our conversation:

1. Single Parenting & Vulnerability

Hayley shares the raw realities of being a solo parent and how it impacts a woman's ability to embrace vulnerability. She explains how single mothers often lack the space to express their feelings freely, needing remain strong for their children.

2. The Impact of Losing Her Mum to Alcoholism

Hayley’s mother passed away when Hayley was 25 after battling alcoholism and loneliness. This tragic loss instilled fears around loneliness and influenced Hayley’s beliefs around being alone.

3. Dyslexia and the Drive for Communication Accessibility

Growing up with dyslexia and witnessing her mother’s struggle to communicate openly about her battles inspired Hayley to champion communication accessibility for all. Her work as a sign language interpreter is deeply rooted in her belief that everyone deserves to be heard and understood.

4. Overcoming Confidence Blocks in Relationships

In her personal life, Hayley has faced confidence blocks due to a lack of healthy relationship dynamics being modelled during her childhood. These experiences led to trauma-bonded relationships, but through self-growth, Hayley has shifted toward healthier relationship patterns.

5. Facing Criticism and Finding Her Voice Online

For years, Hayley struggled with criticism, particularly accusations of being “attention-seeking.” This blocked her at times, from pursuing a presence on social media and starting her own podcast. In this episode, she shares how she overcame these internal obstacles and found the confidence to put herself out there.

6. Walking 24 Hours for Charity

Hayley pushed herself to her limits by walking for 24 hours to raise funds for a deaf charity, documenting the entire experience. During this vulnerable time, a fellow interpreter accused her of “stealing the deaf limelight,” leading to discussions around projection, envy, and the negativity often found in online spaces.

7. Why Negative Comments Stick More than Positive Ones

A powerful moment in the episode was our conversation on how negative feedback often leaves a more lasting impression than positive feedback.

8. Pivotal Life Confidence Moments

Finally, Hayley reflects on the key moments in her life that helped shape her confidence and resilience, including how these experiences contributed to her career as a sign language interpreter.

Tune in to hear Hayley’s moving story, her insights on relationships, communication, and self-growth, and how she’s turned her personal challenges into professional strength.

Contact Hayley Brown:

Instagram: @hayleybrown_andco

Podcast instagram: inadequatemothers

Episode Title: Confidence, Nutrition, and Embracing Change with Laura Bryan

In this episode, we sit down with Laura Bryan, Nutritional Therapist and mindset coach, to explore her inspiring confidence journey. From struggling with body image and disordered eating as a teenager, to finding her passion for nutrition and learning to love food, Laura shares the pivotal moments that shaped her transformation.

We discuss:

• Laura’s early struggles with body image, seeking validation through weight loss, and the challenges of adolescence.

• Her turning point at university, where she discovered nutrition, fell in love with cooking, and shifted from calorie counting to eating for pleasure.

• The importance of self-image and achievement as pillars of self-esteem in her youth.

• Our shared experiences of pregnancy, navigating body changes, and learning self-acceptance.

• The confidence challenges of starting a business and staying aligned with personal values in defining success.

• Laura’s key moments of growth, including reading The Secret, breaking free from a lack mindset, and how her studies led to a deeper understanding of food’s impact on mental health.

Join us for an empowering conversation on confidence, embracing change, and redefining what it means to live successfully on your own terms.

Contact Laura:

INSTAGRAM: @mind_nourishing

Grab a glass of wine or a cuppa this is an episode not to be missed! With many laughs, real life experiences and tips for those navigating modern dating, love and relationships.

Jo Tucker and Heledd Fflur two of my favourite guests, come back to the podcast to share their thoughts, feelings and experiences of dating and love, and how to keep your self-esteem in a healthy place whilst navigating it.

Episode highlights:

- We all share what we think is the biggest issue with modern dating currently

- We share our green flags and red flags when dating

- What is the ick? why do we get it and what is our personal experience of 'getting the ick'

- Each of us share a confidence tip to use in dating and relationships to stay in your power and keeping your self-esteem in check

Contact:

Heledd Fflur: Instagram @heleddfflur

Jo Tucker: Instagram @baldmothertucker

Meet Gemma Jones, a Personal Trainer and Fitness Coach from Bristol and life long friend of mine! On this episode we delve into many topics:

- Gemma talks about how she went from hating sport at school, to discovering her love of fitness and becoming a Personal Trainer.

- Female friendships and how we have found more authentic friendships since embarking on a self-development journey

- Confidence themes that have been more difficult, with Gemma sharing her block around posting on social media for her Business and showing up as herself, fears around saying the wrong thing, being judged, and lacking confidence.

- The fear of 'being seen' on social media and how it can feel vulnerable.

- Perceptions of 'coaches'

- Gemma talked about losing her Dad, friend and Grandad in close succession and how that was ungrounding and the worst time of her life. We discussed grief and the impact it can have on your confidence, impacting our sense of self.

- How Gemma's level of empathy has meant she's become a successful PT, providing a safe space for her clients.

- Limiting beliefs we can create around fitness and sport that as women we have been fed growing up about what we can and cannot do.

- Gemma's shares some confidence tips for those on a Confidence journey.

Instagram:

@_gemwellbeing

Sarah is the Founder of Come Network With Me, an award-winning networking experience for passionate and ambitious female founders of impactful online service businesses. She's a proud advocate and cheerleader for women, supporting and empowering small business owners to become trailblazing legendary leaders.

Episode highlights:

- We discuss how passion is an essential element of running a Business

- Sarah shares her confidence story from her childhood where she would people please and pretend to feel exactly the same as her friends, something she changed as she got older.

- We discussed how this was largely a female issue and we hoped that girls could learn to use their voice from a younger age.

- Sarah shared having a wobble in Confidence when running a Business, and we discussed how Imposter Syndrome is common

- Confidence pivotal moments: Sarah becoming a marathon runner after spending a life time feeling like she wasn't a runner. She also touched on leaving a long term relationship and how that brave decision was the spring board to lots of positive change.