Welcome to this fourth episode of the podcast series dedicated to relationships with Shannon O’Hara, Susanna Mittermaier and Jürgen Funk!

After multiple failed relationships, Susanna and Jürgen thought they were done…

Until they realized they had to change and ask for something different. Relationships can be such a charged delusional area. People experience very common male and female challenges : the female struggles with being very controlling and the male struggles with giving themselves up and filling the female’s needs. So how do you grow the relationship?

Here a a few practical tools that can help you:

• Don’t project the future about the relationship, ask a question : What’s possible with this person?
• Be in allowance of the other, expand out and know if it’s time to do something on your own. You have to know what works for you.
• What if it’s not your job to take care of the other person, and you could just let go of control and allow them to say if they require anything?
• Judgments never take you anywhere. Is this what you want to create in the relationship?
• Destroy and uncreate your relationship every day (by that we mean destroying anything that you have decided about the relationship that might be limiting it) so that you see what else is possible today that wasn't the day before.

Have fun creating your relationship, what else is possible you haven't considered?

Key takeaways:

• It’s not your job to make the person change, be happy or carry them on your shoulders.
• What is your relationship for? You know if it’s the right person for you if it creates more for both to be together.
• In this society, to have to be a couple, you have to be significant and serious. But what if relationships could all be fun and play?

Resources:

• Susanna Mittermaier: https://www.susannamittermaier.com/en/
• Jürgen Funk: https://www.jurgenfunk.com/english
• Gary M. Douglas, Founder of Access Consciousness: https://garymdouglas.com

Welcome to the Talk To The Entities Specialty Spotlight on Walk Ins. This concept is weird and one of the most difficult to grasp, but if you let this information land somewhere in your universe, it will create some really dynamic changes and freedom.

In Access Consciousness & Talk to the Entities, we use the term ‘Walk Ins’ to denote when one being occupies a body and another being walks into that body.

The previous or primary occupant (being) can stay or go, but if there is no awareness of the new being that walked in we start to get multiple personality issues.

Walk Ins can be cleared just like any other entity and we teach this in the Talk to the Entities Beginning classes, The Walk Ins class and the Access Foundation Class.

Key takeaways:

• Walk Ins can occur multiple times throughout a body’s lifetime.
• A new being can walk in when the current occupant decides they don’t want the body anymore or that they would like to die. This puts a ‘body available’ sign out into the universe and another being will come to occupy the body.
• If you know someone who had some sort of accident like a head injury, car crash, surgery or drug overdose. A situation where the body lost consciousness, even for just a moment and then that person seemed like a totally different person. This can be due to having a new being walk in. They don’t just seem like a new, different person, they are.
• Not remembering your past or a portion of your past may be an indication that you walked into the body after those events occurred.
• One body can have multiple walk-ins through its lifetime.
• If a body has a Walk In and the Walk In is not acknowledged one can appear to have multiple personalities and hear multiple voices

Resources:

• TTTE Round table on Walk Ins: https://talktotheentities.com/shop/specialty-classes/walk-ins/
• Talk to the Entities Beginning events: https://talktotheentities.com/events/
• The Access Consciousness Foundation: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/foundation
  https://shannon-ohara.com/access-consciousness/foundation/
• Talk to the Entities Book: https://talktotheentities.com/shop/books/talk-to-the-entities-book/

Welcome to this third episode of the podcast series dedicated to relationships with Shannon O’Hara and Max Zoulek!

What is the current foundation of your relationship? If you want to have a great relationship that works, you have to have the 5 elements of intimacy, discovered by Gary M. Douglas.

They are:

• Honor: It is how you treat you and others with regard.
• Vulnerability: it is never seen as a strength, but it’s a key and a tool for a flourishing relationship. You have no walls or barriers and you’re like an open wound.
• Allowance: It is letting things be as they are without any judgement.
• Gratitude: It’s the place where you are being grateful for you and others.
• Trust: It's knowing what the other person will do, not concluding what they will do.

These elements are all interconnected and you can’t have them with anyone else if you don’t have them with you.

If you would like to know more about these 5 elements of intimacy, consider joining Relationship 101: The Tussle of Creation (Not Conclusion) with Shannon and Max on April 29th!

Key takeaways:

• How do you take care of you and others in your closest relationships?
• You can’t have intimacy if you have expectations in the relationship.
• Where are you on your list of priorities? Are you at the top? What choice can you make today that would include you?
• Gratitude is the antidote to judgement. What are you grateful for?

Resources:

• Gary M. Douglas, Founder of Access Consciousness: https://garymdouglas.com
• The Access Consciousness Clearing Statement: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/theclearingstatement
• Castello Di Casalborgone in Italy: https://castellodicasalborgone.com
• Relationship 101: The Tussle of Creation (Not Conclusion) with Shannon O’Hara and Max Zoulek: https://shannon-ohara.com/events/relationship-101-tussle-of-creation/
• Access Me: https://access.me/

The Access Consciousness Foundation class:

https://www.accessconsciousness.com/foundation

https://shannon-ohara.com/access-consciousness/foundation/