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Feeling overwhelmed and need a break to regroup? You're not alone. Join me on this emotionally charged episode of "Check Yourself with Harley" as I open up about my personal battles with feeling isolated and the struggle for self-awareness. From insights drawn from a recent church sermon on loneliness to the poignant realization that many of us feel lonely even with faith and connections, we dive deep into the complexities of human relationships and the importance of honest conversations. You'll find comfort in knowing you're not the only one navigating these waters.

Ever felt like an outcast for seeking deeper connections? Listen as I share my own journey of transitioning from superficial friendships to embracing authenticity, even if it means feeling isolated at times. I recount how a challenging conversation with my ex became a pivotal moment for self-reflection and growth, underscoring the importance of accepting truths regardless of their source. This raw and candid discussion will inspire you to look inward and confront your own uncomfortable truths, leading to meaningful personal change.

To wrap up, we delve into the emotional challenges of self-reflection and the crucial role of mutual support in relationships. Learn how letting go of bitterness and embracing criticism can be transformative, as I share personal anecdotes that highlight the importance of being grounded in your true self. Finally, I spread love and encouragement, reminding you that despite life's ups and downs, you are loved, enough, and never alone. Stay positive, keep spreading the love, and let's navigate this journey together.

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Can "keeping it real" actually lead to your downfall? On this episode of "Check Yourself with Harley," we dive into the complexities of authenticity and how the pursuit of being genuine can sometimes go terribly wrong. Inspired by an iconic Chappelle Show skit, we analyze three scenarios where "keeping it real" backfires spectacularly. We discuss the self-made man whose boardroom meltdown costs him dearly, and the jealous individual whose party antics leave him humiliated and isolated. These cautionary tales remind us of the critical need for self-reflection and understanding others before acting impulsively.

Moving from cautionary tales to practical wisdom, we explore the true essence of authenticity. Authenticity isn't about brutal honesty for the sake of criticism but rather about honest interactions rooted in love and concern. We delve into the importance of setting clear relationship expectations and knowing when to offer advice or simply listen. Additionally, we stress the need for delivering truth with care and respect, understanding that how our words are received is beyond our control. Tune in as we prepare to tackle handling honesty from others in next week's episode. As always, we value your thoughts and remind you that you are loved, enough, and never alone. Connect with us on Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat to keep the conversation going!

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Imagine feeling consumed by self-doubt and past trauma, only to discover a path to self-acceptance and healing. That's exactly what we explore in this episode as I share my personal journey through the ups and downs of battling bipolar disorder, grappling with broken relationships, and ultimately finding strength in faith and genuine connections. Through candid reflections, we'll tackle how self-destructive behaviors often mask deeper issues and the pivotal moments that catalyze transformation.

Have you ever experienced how a failed relationship can lead to both physical and emotional turmoil? I recount a period in my life where a drastic physical change couldn't fill the void of heartbreak, leading to a cycle of bitterness and emotional manipulation. It wasn't until a special person showed me genuine care that I began to realize the importance of seeking help and becoming a better person for my children. This episode underscores the power of accountability and love in the healing process, turning self-destruction into a journey of self-improvement.

Finding true happiness and self-worth isn’t easy, especially when dealing with mental health struggles. I delve into the profound impact of a children's book, "You Are Special" by Max Lucado, which led to a spiritual reawakening and a commitment to change. We'll discuss the importance of genuine friendships, forgiveness, and therapy in expressing and alleviating emotional pain. By sharing my personal experiences, I aim to ensure that no one feels alone in their struggles and to highlight the human need to share and heal from our hurts. Join me on this heartfelt journey to uncover the transformative power of faith and self-acceptance.

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Why do you have to look at your behavior? I asked myself that today, why do I have to forgive people who have given me half apologies or none at all? Why do I have to become a better person when everyone else is just a crappy person? Asking the wrong questions my friend.

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Welcome to Check Yoself with Harley

I am so excited to have you guys on this journey with me. Here is a snippet of what is to come. This project means everything to me, and I have poured my heart and soul into it. I hope this helps you guys as much as it has transformed my own life. This show is for those of us who are tired of doing the same thing, those of us who have struggled and can’t seem to get ahead, the ones who want to be happier, who want to find joy, and who want to fulfill their dreams. The world is a big place, and I have learned that we can’t change others; we only have control of one thing: ourselves. It starts with us!

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