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Can "keeping it real" actually lead to your downfall? On this episode of "Check Yourself with Harley," we dive into the complexities of authenticity and how the pursuit of being genuine can sometimes go terribly wrong. Inspired by an iconic Chappelle Show skit, we analyze three scenarios where "keeping it real" backfires spectacularly. We discuss the self-made man whose boardroom meltdown costs him dearly, and the jealous individual whose party antics leave him humiliated and isolated. These cautionary tales remind us of the critical need for self-reflection and understanding others before acting impulsively.

Moving from cautionary tales to practical wisdom, we explore the true essence of authenticity. Authenticity isn't about brutal honesty for the sake of criticism but rather about honest interactions rooted in love and concern. We delve into the importance of setting clear relationship expectations and knowing when to offer advice or simply listen. Additionally, we stress the need for delivering truth with care and respect, understanding that how our words are received is beyond our control. Tune in as we prepare to tackle handling honesty from others in next week's episode. As always, we value your thoughts and remind you that you are loved, enough, and never alone. Connect with us on Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat to keep the conversation going!

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Imagine feeling consumed by self-doubt and past trauma, only to discover a path to self-acceptance and healing. That's exactly what we explore in this episode as I share my personal journey through the ups and downs of battling bipolar disorder, grappling with broken relationships, and ultimately finding strength in faith and genuine connections. Through candid reflections, we'll tackle how self-destructive behaviors often mask deeper issues and the pivotal moments that catalyze transformation.

Have you ever experienced how a failed relationship can lead to both physical and emotional turmoil? I recount a period in my life where a drastic physical change couldn't fill the void of heartbreak, leading to a cycle of bitterness and emotional manipulation. It wasn't until a special person showed me genuine care that I began to realize the importance of seeking help and becoming a better person for my children. This episode underscores the power of accountability and love in the healing process, turning self-destruction into a journey of self-improvement.

Finding true happiness and self-worth isn’t easy, especially when dealing with mental health struggles. I delve into the profound impact of a children's book, "You Are Special" by Max Lucado, which led to a spiritual reawakening and a commitment to change. We'll discuss the importance of genuine friendships, forgiveness, and therapy in expressing and alleviating emotional pain. By sharing my personal experiences, I aim to ensure that no one feels alone in their struggles and to highlight the human need to share and heal from our hurts. Join me on this heartfelt journey to uncover the transformative power of faith and self-acceptance.

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Why do you have to look at your behavior? I asked myself that today, why do I have to forgive people who have given me half apologies or none at all? Why do I have to become a better person when everyone else is just a crappy person? Asking the wrong questions my friend.

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