Did you see the recent claims by a Thompson Method IBCLC who guested on Pain Free Birth, claiming babies can't swallow air and tongue ties aren't the problem, the latch is? As an IBCLC the claims made in the social media posts were so upsetting -- mostly because thousands of Mamas follow this account and are hearing this misinformation that is being framed as "debunking misinformation". In today's episode of the Breastfeeding With Confidence Podcast, we discuss aerophagia, breastfeeding struggles, tongue tie, and navigating these challenges as a "crunchy" or "holistic" mom who questions modern healthcare practices. If you're a new mom struggling with breastfeeding, and you're doing everything "right" but it's still not working, you need to know there's a reason, and you deserve answers. Breastfeeding Resources: FREEBIE: 5 Mistakes that Sabotage Breastfeeding

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Trying to figure out babywearing and breastfeeding? Not sure why your baby seems to hate the carrier, or it feels like you need too many hands? Maybe you're not sure which carrier is best for breastfeeding or how to baby-wear safely. In this episode of the Breastfeeding with Confidence podcast, I'm joined by Jordan Morillo, a maternal health occupational therapist, certified baby-wearing consultant, and mom whose goal is to support all parents to feel empowered and uplifted during their parenting journey.

Jordan and Jaimie discuss safe babywearing, breastfeeding and babywearing, proper alignment and positioning in the baby carrier, which baby carriers are best (or if there's such a thing), and they both share their opinions on world-facing baby carriers. If you would like a fit-check or additional baby wearing guidance from Jordan, you can access her support resources here.

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Why are so many new moms quick to consent to circumcision—an elective surgical procedure—but deeply hesitant about something as therapeutic as a tongue tie release, even when it's sabotaging breastfeeding?

As an IBCLC, nurse, and mom of five, I’m sharing both personal stories and professional insight to challenge this growing double standard. If you’ve ever felt pressure, confusion, or guilt around these choices—this is the permission slip to think deeper.

Inside this episode:

• A compassionate but honest look at the circumcision vs. tongue tie debate

• What most people don’t understand about how oral ties impact milk transfer, maternal pain, and long-term development

• Why choosing not to release a tongue tie often leads to unnecessary formula supplementation

• A call to mamas to trust their intuition, question the status quo, and lead their families with clarity and courage

This isn’t about shame—it’s about empowerment. Let’s stop avoiding the hard conversations and start making decisions that actually support exclusive breastfeeding and lifelong wellness.

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🕒 Episode Breakdown:

• 00:00 | A personal note from Jamie – Why this episode hits close to home

• 00:16 | Welcome – Setting the tone for an honest, thought-provoking conversation

• 01:07 | Introducing the controversy – Circumcision vs. tongue tie release

• 02:38 | Breastfeeding struggles no one connects to tongue ties

• 06:00 | My personal story – What I chose for my sons, and what I’ve learned since

• 08:44 | Critical thinking in motherhood – Are we really making informed decisions?

• 10:22 | Encouragement and support – You’re not alone if this stirs something in you

• 12:19 | A teaser for next time + final thoughts

Wondering if you really need to get a tongue tie release for your baby? Lisa Paladino, RN, CNM, IBCLC from Tongue Tie Experts podcast & instagram shares her insight after over a decade working with tongue tied babies. In this episode we're going to answer questions like: "I think my baby has a tongue tie, what next?" and "Does my baby really need a release?" We also talk about why there is so much confusing information about tongue ties and breastfeeding. If you have additional questions or need personalized guidance navigating breastfeeding with your tongue tied baby, you can check out Lisa's resource here: Tongue Tie Experts Podcast

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Psst! If you're a healthcare provider needing to learn more about tongue ties in babies, check out Lisa's class here: Tongue Tie Class for Professionals

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If you're considering a nipple shield, you might have seen the flow view nipple shield and thought, "That seems cool!" In this episode of the Breastfeeding With Confidence Podcast, Jaimie Zaki, IBCLC breaks down the good and the bad about this new-to-market nipple shield & sets the record straight. If you're having latching issues, worries about milk supply, and worries about your baby getting enough milk, you need PROFESSIONAL GUIDANCE, not a marketing gimmick. Grab your Nipple Shield Guide Here using code PODCAST10 for 10% off

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Is your baby spitting up way more since you stopped using the nipple shield? Here’s what’s really going on…

If you’ve been using a nipple shield and are now trying to wean off—but suddenly your baby is spitting up like crazy—you are NOT alone. And no, it doesn’t mean your milk is “too much” or that your body is broken.

In this episode of Breastfeeding with Confidence, Jaimie Zaki tackles one of the most confusing moments in a breastfeeding journey: weaning off the nipple shield… and dealing with the unexpected fallout. 😩

From real-life experience to evidence-backed insights, Jaimie shares:

• Why increased spit-up is common after removing the nipple shield

• What’s really happening with flow, latch, and milk regulation

• How to spot a latch issue (even if things look fine)

• Holistic and practical ways to support your baby

• Simple latch fixes + positioning tips to ease the transition

• How to wean off the shield gently—without unnecessary stress

Plus, you'll hear about the exact tools Jaimie used to help her baby & clients' babies transition easily:

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This episode is a must-listen for any mama feeling stuck, second-guessing, or overwhelmed. You don’t have to stay in nipple shield limbo forever—and you don’t have to figure it out alone.

Timestamps: 00:00 – Jaimie’s real-life nipple shield story 01:09 – The challenge no one warns you about 02:28 – How nipple shields change milk flow + digestion 04:22 – Increased spit-up? Here’s why it’s happening 05:57 – What to do today to help your baby adjust 06:43 – Grab Jaimie’s tried-and-true support tools 07:46 – You’re not failing—you’re finding your rhythm

Is your baby refusing to latch, screaming every time you try to feed her, and you're sick of the battle? You're not alone. Let's learn what to do when your baby refuses to nurse, hates breastfeeding, or won't latch.

Jaimie Z. IBCLC answers a listener's urgent question: "Why does my baby pull off the breast and cry during feedings?" She unpacks what’s really happening when a baby seems frustrated, and shares practical, compassionate strategies to get feeding back on track.

You'll learn how to recognize early feeding cues before baby becomes upset, calming techniques like the "magic baby hold," and how adjusting your feeding positions can make a world of difference. Jaimie also tackles factors like reflux, fast or slow milk flow, and how a baby’s nervous system regulation impacts latching success.

Whether you're wondering "why won't my baby latch?" or feeling overwhelmed because it seems like your baby hates breastfeeding, this episode offers empowering tools and hope.

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Episode Highlights: 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 01:13 Breastfeeding Q&A: Baby Pulling Off and Crying 02:02 Understanding Baby's Communication and Feeding Cues 04:13 Techniques to Calm and Latch Your Baby 06:00 Addressing Reflux and Milk Flow Issues 07:54 Proactive Feeding and Nervous System Regulation 09:22 Conclusion and Additional Resources

Do you need to make shift in sleep with your baby? Does "cry it out" and "sleep training" seem like your only option, but go against everything your instincts are telling you? You're not alone! Struggling with infant sleep is common, but it helps to know what's normal, what's a sign of a problem, and learn strategies that WORK while preserving your mental health, baby's mental health, protecting your bond AND protecting breastfeeding. Taylor McKay from CozyLittleSleepers joins us to shed light on how she went from traditional sleep training methods with her first baby to using a baby led sleep approach with her second. She shares a holistic viewpoint on sleep routines, society's messaging around sleep, maternal instinct, and we get into the myth of "12 hours by 12 weeks" and the impacts on breastfeeding and sleep. If you're looking for support with infant sleep, reach out to Taylor here. If you're looking for breastfeeding support & guidance, connect with Jaimie here