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  • dating men who hate you, bush summer, and gen-z doesn't want kids
    2025/06/05

    This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn discuss full bush in a bikini summer, Justin Bieber’s comment on Hailey Bieber’s Vogue cover and publicly embarrassing her, Terry Real and tiktok feminism, and why Gen-Z isn’t having kids.

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  • i want you to know me but i don’t: the meta irony meme iceberg
    2025/05/29

    This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: Does anyone really know you? And are meta irony memes Gen-Z’s way of balancing the yearning to be known with our inability to take anything seriously?

    We’re talking: Who knows you the best?, who really knows you at all? How well do you want everyone in your life to know you?, internalized shame, people pleasing, the fear of being fully known, oversharing, over-explaining yourself, trying to be more digestible for other people, Ava Louise, lore, should you tell your significant other everything?, meta-irony, post-irony, Ethel cain’s Tumblr post about the irony epidemic, get-z’s lack of sincerity, the mummification of Kamala Harris’s campaign, the risk of being sincere, core values, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵

    Sources:

    Does Anyone Really Know You? 00:00:00 - 00:19:07

    The Ethics and Memeification of Your Lore 00:19:07 - 00:30:26

    How much Lore should you share with your partner? 00:30:26 - 00:46:54

    Gen-Z Meta Irony Memes and the sincerity crisis 00:46:54 - 01:22:40

    Is the inside joke a good thing? 01:22:40 - 01:35:19

    What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 01:35:19 - 01:54:02

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  • she’s Mother, mommy kinks, and the need for nurture
    2025/05/21

    This week on s0 wet s0 dryFiji and Autumn ask: Why is everyone calling everyone Mother on social media?

    We’re talking: Mother’s roots in black queer communities, ballroom and drag culture, misusing the word “Mother”, found and chosen family, the need for community in today’s political climate, the ethics of using AAVE polls, mommy kinks, Gen-Z’s need for nuture, Gen-Z’s need for mothering, listener stories, and more💦🌵

    Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1A5dFgl_yB6ZJGcJMKHR1DZQ0E255Xg8Omkpg01xfhZ4/edit?usp=sharing

    Tracing the origins of Mother in the black and transgender community: 00:00:00 - 00:11:33

    Everyone is calling everyone mother on social media 00:11:33 - 00:30:59

    Mommy kinks and the need for nurture 00:30:59 - 00:54:39

    What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 00:54:39 -01:12:46

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  • he's not just a man, he's my babygirl
    2025/05/15

    This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: What are babygirl men? Why do we want to nurture men? And are these terms emasculating?

    We’re talking: Famous babygirl men, submissive and breedable men, ideals for masculinity, breeding kinks, heroic masculinity, toxic masculinity, submissive kinks, boyfriends siimping, men in crisis, the toxic soft boy, pyschological patriarchy, emasculating men, Jeremy Strong as Kendall Roy in Succession, Timothee Chalamet, men in crisis, truly seeing men for who they are, polls, lister stories, and more💦🌵

    Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1OxuypWpu0Q8m9iNu0HWeJHaIYrR192Lpzoz7Bi8iC_w/edit?tab=t.0

    What is a baby girl man? 00:00:00 -00:29:38

    Kendell Roy: men we want to nurture 00:29:38 - 00:36:00

    Why do we want babygirl men? 00:36:00 - 00:56:51

    Is calling men “Babygirl” rooted in more patriarchy?/ Men in Crisis: What is positive masculinity without being emasculating? 00:56:51 - 01:22:06

    What is positive masculinity? 01:22:06 - 01:35:01

    What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about babygirl men 01:35:01 - 01:48:08

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  • Pop the Balloon, Lorde Summer, and Jojo Siwa
    2025/05/08

    This week on s0 wet s0 dry recap the month with some of the biggest pop culture stories: Pop the Balloon’s Netflix debut, Mel Robbin’s Let Them Theory, Lorde’s Washington Square Park performance of What Was That and her latest album Virgin, and Jojo Siwa’s scandal on Big Brother.

    Sources:

    What’s got us wet and dry this week 00:00:00 - 00:08:48

    Let them theory 00:08:48 - 00:23:59

    Pop the Balloon 00:23:59 - 00:39:23

    What Was That and Lorde Summer 00:39:23 - 00:50:40

    Jojo Siwa: Big Brother, queerness, and cheating 00:50:40 - 01:12:30

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  • Anora: a fairy tale princess or a warrior?
    2025/04/24

    This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn deep dive the movie Anora

    We’re talking: Is Anora a fairytale? Was Ani a deeply layered character? Was Sean Baker the right person to tell this story? Did Anora glamorize sex work? What was the significance of the last scene?, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵

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    Intro 00:00:00- 00:11:37

    Who is Sean Baker? 00:11:37 - 00:22:05

    Was Anora told through the male gaze? 00:22:05 - 00:39:41

    The ending scene 00:39:41 - 00:55:00

    Was this really a cinderella story? 00:55:00 - 01:07:20

    Sex work realism in Anora 01:07:20 - 01:23:03

    What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about Anora 01:23:03 - 01:36:22

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  • Is there a biphobia epidemic or are bisexuals reaching?
    2025/04/17

    This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: Is there a biphobia epidemic or are bisexuals reaching?

    We’re talking: Jasmine banks coming out as bi, biphobia in the lesbian community,

    Les4Les, lebian only spaces, internal projections, bisexual privlege, feeling insecure in your queer identity, queer titkok trends, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵

    Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/14MwANNJoqKKGX_-n8EL6CJPnXRawaema8Q-glzEYDrw/edit?usp=sharing

    Intro 00:00:00 - 00:09:17

    Contextualizing biphobia in 2025 00:09:17 - 00:41:53

    Les4Les and lesbian only spaces 00:41:53 - 01:18:42

    Bisexual privilege 01:18:42 - 01:25:43

    What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 01:25:43

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  • Revenge of the Bop: Slut Shaming, Bop Lore, and Sex Positivity Gone Wild
    2025/04/10

    This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: are bops misunderstood?

    We’re talking: Bop lore, being perceived as a slut, sharing bop lore with your partner, the madonna-whore complex, broken bitches, pimp mentality, internalizing slut shaming, slut shaming dress codes, nude epidemics, our slut lore, the slut walk, the sex positivity era, 2014 feminism, sex positive feminism, sex positivity gone too far, the bop house, sophie rain, what is bops don’t wanna be saved?, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵

    Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1UNV74US5veal9JASb_FOZsxrKkHLhOXVTlQBtsuIRYc/edit?usp=sharing


    Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:02

    What is a Bop? 00:02:02 - 00:09:43

    Bop Lore 00:09:43 - 00:22:16

    Sex Positivity vs Slut Shaming 00:22:16 - 00:58:39

    She don’t wanna be saved 00:58:39 - 01:09:00

    Revenge of the Bop: the bop house, coming of age and turning hurt to hustle 01:09:00 - 01:25:54

    What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 01:25:54 - 01:41:27

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    1 時間 41 分