In this episode of the Young Dad podcast, host Jey Young speaks with Chris Lewis, co-founder of Fathering Together, about the importance of active engagement in fatherhood. They discuss the journey of creating a supportive community for dads, the significance of vulnerability, and how to redefine fatherhood in modern society. Chris shares insights on building strong relationships with daughters, navigating difficult conversations, and the fleeting nature of time spent with children. The conversation emphasizes the need for dads to connect, learn from each other, and be present in their children's lives.

Takeaways

Fathering Together started from a blog and grew into a community.

Engagement in fatherhood is crucial from the very beginning.

Dads should be involved in their children's interests, even if they differ from their own.

Vulnerability is key to building strong relationships and communities.

Time spent with children is fleeting; cherish every moment.

Dads need to listen more than they fix in conversations with their kids.

There is no one right way to be a father; every dad's journey is unique.

Building a supportive community helps dads navigate challenges together.

Early engagement lays the foundation for strong relationships with children.

Dads should advocate for each other and lift each other up.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood and Community Engagement

08:54 Growth and Expansion of Fathering Together

17:01 Engagement and Connection in Fatherhood

25:39 The Importance of Early Conversations with Children

31:16 Embracing Vulnerability in Fatherhood

38:40 Redefining Fatherhood in Modern Times

43:39 Humorous Moments in Parenting

49:05 Advice for New Dads

Connect with Chris⁠http://www.fatheringtogether.com⁠⁠http://www.dadofdivas.com⁠

Dads with Daughters Group - ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/150750868960229⁠

Dads With Sons Group - ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/1230654337134672⁠

⁠https://www.facebook.com/dadofdivas⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/fatheringtogether⁠

⁠https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/

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In this episode, host Jay Young engages with Sasha, author of 'Victims of Virtue', to explore the complexities of victim mentality, personal responsibility, and the societal narratives surrounding masculinity and gender ideology. They discuss Sasha's personal journey through trauma, the impact of school policies on self-defense, and the consequences of medical interventions for minors. The conversation emphasizes the importance of accountability and the dangers of a victimhood mentality in today's society. In this conversation, Sasha and Jey Young discuss critical issues surrounding parental rights, gender affirming care, abortion, adoption, and the societal implications of these topics. They explore the complexities of parental love, the impact of censorship, and the challenges of mental health in today's society. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility and accountability in navigating these contentious issues.

Takeaways

The conversation addresses sensitive topics that may be uncomfortable for some listeners.

Sasha's book critiques the pervasive victim mentality in modern culture.

Personal responsibility is crucial for overcoming adversity and trauma.

Victimhood can be a choice that limits personal power and control.

School policies often discourage self-defense, reinforcing victimhood.

Toxic masculinity is often misunderstood and conflated with normal male behavior.

Children lack the cognitive ability to understand long-term consequences of their choices.

Medical interventions for minors raise ethical concerns regarding informed consent.

The narrative of interchangeable genders contributes to societal misunderstandings.

Healthy masculinity should be distinguished from harmful behaviors. Parents have limited control over children's access to gender affirming care.

The conversation around abortion often overlooks the option of adoption.

Many parents regret their decisions regarding abortion years later.

The depth of parental love is often underestimated until one becomes a parent.

Censorship plays a significant role in shaping societal narratives.

Victim mentality can hinder personal accountability and growth.

Mental health issues are often misdiagnosed due to self-diagnosis trends.

The impact of COVID-19 on children's social skills is yet to be fully understood.

There is a significant gap between children in foster care and families wanting to adopt.

Societal pressures can lead to poor decision-making regarding family and parenting.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Conversation

02:58 Sasha's Journey and Victim Mentality

05:31 The Impact of Victimhood on Society

08:22 Personal Responsibility and Healing

11:16 Children, Bullying, and Self-Defense

14:09 Toxic Masculinity vs. Masculinity

16:55 The Role of Gender in Society

19:47 The Consequences of Victim Mentality

22:32 Legislation and Societal Changes

30:38 Debating Curriculum Changes and Historical Focus

31:58 Censorship and Control in Education

32:52 Child Trafficking and Media Silence

33:44 Public Response to Violence and Safety

37:46 Children's Autonomy and Medical Interventions

45:52 Abortion Rights and Parental Control

54:08 Adoption vs. Abortion: A Moral Dilemma

59:08 The Complexity of Motherhood and Regret

01:02:45 Selflessness in Parenting and Societal Expectations

01:04:47 Transformation Through Faith and Personal Responsibility

01:07:52 The Impact of Ideologies on Society

01:12:03 Victim Mentality and Accountability

01:14:54 Gender Identity and Societal Norms

01:18:23 Narcissism and Mental Health Challenges

01:21:36 The Effects of COVID-19 on Child Development

01:26:00 Hope for the Future and Societal Change

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"We are never truly lost."

"It's never too late to find that purpose."

"Start small, even in your backyard."

In this episode of the Young Dad Podcast, host Jay Young speaks with Mike Martin about his transformative journey of healing and self-discovery through nature. After facing significant life challenges, including a difficult divorce, Mike turned to the wilderness for solace and clarity. He shares insights on wilderness meditation, the importance of disconnecting from the fast-paced world, and how observing nature can lead to profound personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the power of fear, purpose, and the necessity of creating a personal system for maintaining inner peace.

Takeaways

Nature can be a powerful source of healing.

Fear can be transformed into a lesson for growth.

Our struggles often prepare us to help others.

Meditation can be practiced anywhere, especially outdoors.

Observing nature teaches us valuable life lessons.

Disconnecting from the fast-paced world is essential for mental health.

Starting small can lead to significant changes in life.

Consistency and self-rewarding are key to personal growth.

Creating a personal system helps maintain peace and purpose.

We have the power to control our thoughts and emotions.

Chapters

00:00 Finding Inner Peace Through Nature

02:47 The Journey of Self-Discovery

05:23 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Purpose

08:41 The Power of Storytelling and Personal Growth

11:30 Wilderness Meditation: A New Perspective

14:18 Transformative Experiences in Nature

17:14 The Importance of Silence and Observation

19:37 Lessons from Nature: Grounding and Connection

22:41 Disconnecting from the Chaos of Modern Life

26:59 The Power of Saying No

27:42 Connecting with Nature for Inner Peace

29:43 Starting Small: The Journey to Reconnect

30:50 Building Consistency and Celebrating Small Wins

33:17 Finding Purpose Through Outdoor Mindfulness

35:23 Creating a Personal System for Well-Being

37:27 Understanding the Simplicity of the Male Mind

39:20 The Importance of Daily Practices and Habits

40:52 Guided Meditation for Clarity and Control

44:29 The Power of Forgiveness and Letting Go

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