Join sex therapists Jose Gonzalez and Brad Hinman as they dissect the portrayal of therapy and relationships in the TV show "Private Practice". This episode delves into the fictional portrayal of therapists' boundaries, client choices, and the complexities of sex and relationships. The hosts offer insights on handling sensitive topics like marriage woes, sexual dysfunctions, and more, while reflecting on how real therapy would navigate these scenarios. Whether you're curious about the realities of therapy or enjoy TV drama, this episode offers both insight and entertainment.

Timestamps

0:30 Reacting to Private Practice's Depiction of Therapy

1:49 Therapist's Unusual Investment in Client's Divorce Decision

5:53 Navigating Marital Challenges and Communication Barriers

9:05 Understanding Sexual Dysfunction and the Need for More Information

11:01 Therapists, Divorce, and Miscommunication

14:50 Exploring Vaginismus and the Quest for Intimacy

24:07 Challenges and Misconceptions in Treating Sexual Dysfunction

27:36 Exploring Connections Between Food, Sex, and Relationship Dynamics

35:33 Medical Dilemmas and Interpersonal Conflicts in a Clinical Setting

44:40 Medical Ethics and Confidentiality Challenges in Patient Relationships

49:01 Complex Relationships and Unresolved Grief

54:10 Therapists' Dilemma: Supporting Clients Through Poor Choices

58:49 Exploring Complexities of Sex and Relationships in Marriages

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In this engaging episode of the Wet Dreams podcast, Dr. Brad Hinman and Jose Gonzalez introduce STEP 1 of an innovative eight-step model designed to assist in overcoming pornography and sex addiction. We discuss the importance of creating distance from addictive behaviors as a crucial initial step and explore this approach in depth.

We provide useful insights into the world of sex addiction therapy, revolving around pivotal actions such as establishing accountability, identifying triggers, and implementing effective coping mechanisms. Emphasizing key factors like neural pathways and autopilot behaviors, we stress the urgency of creating mental and physical distance from pornography. Our discussion also covers the potential benefits and limitations of accountability software and partners, highlighting the need for individuals to take personal responsibility in their recovery journey.

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0:29 Introducing an Eight-Step Model for Overcoming Pornography Addiction

3:02 Creating Distance and Accountability in Pornography Addiction Recovery

10:41 The Role of Accountability Partners in Managing Sexual Compulsions

18:43 Overcoming Porn Addiction Through Accountability and Trigger Identification

21:27 Understanding Triggers and Habits in Pornography Consumption

25:59 Understanding Porn Use as a Coping Mechanism

32:41 Developing Coping Skills to Match Triggers and Times

33:06 Strategies for Overcoming Porn Addiction Through Enjoyable Activities

39:08 Breaking the Dysfunctional Relationship with Porn

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In Episode 16 of the "Wet Dreamz Podcast," hosts Jose Gonzalez and Brad Hinman explore the complexities of relationships during pregnancy from the male perspective. They emphasize the importance of communication and intentional relationship nurturing throughout the pregnancy journey, cautioning against complacency during more stable periods like the second trimester.

The episode highlights the pressures men face while trying to conceive, the emotional strain during the third trimester, and significant adjustments required postpartum. The hosts advocate for open discussions on typically silenced topics like miscarriages and child loss, stressing their impact on relationships. By encouraging listener engagement through polls and social media, they aim to foster a supportive community and shared understanding. This episode serves as an insightful guide for couples navigating the emotional and relational challenges of pregnancy.

Timestamps:

00:00 Exploring men's challenges post-baby, relationships, recovery.

07:02 Women bear more fertility burden than men.

10:00 Focus on love; sex follows naturally.

13:58 First trimester challenges: nausea, uncertainty, low energy.

15:41 Pregnancy stresses relationships; intimacy fears arise.

20:14 Support her; nurture relationship; understand both perspectives.

23:01 Open communication about feelings and needs.

27:39 Increase date nights, improve energy, address complacency.

28:47 Unspoken needs can lead to problematic behavior.

34:23 Third trimester causes breathing, eating challenges.

37:39 Discuss fears to alleviate relationship concerns.

38:35 Taking care of oneself ensures usefulness, support.

43:04 Male needs overshadowed; solution is communication.

46:31 Communication helps express feelings after childbirth.

50:07 Podcast: Informative, entertainment only; not professional advice.

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