In this conversation, Niv Fishbein explores the transformation of identity through social media and the perceptions that arise from it. He reflects on how others view him as a 'Torah influencer' despite his own understanding of his efforts being minimal. The discussion delves into the expectations that come with being perceived as an influencer, the concept of 'faking it till you make it,' and the idea of dressing for the role one aspires to embody. Ultimately, Niv encourages listeners to challenge themselves to present a better version of themselves to the world, which may lead to personal growth and responsibility.

Takeaways

Identity can shift based on how others perceive us. Social media creates a curated version of ourselves. People often wear masks, showing only what they want others to see. You don't need to be an expert to be perceived as one. Expectations can shape our behavior and self-image. Faking confidence can lead to real confidence over time. Dressing for the role can influence how we act. Challenging ourselves to present a better image can lead to growth.

Keywords

identity transformation, social media influence, perception vs reality, expectations, Judaism, personal growth, self-image, authenticity, confidence, responsibility

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Shabbat and Business Balance 02:53 The Concept of Bitachon and Shabbat 05:47 Miracles and Trust in Divine Providence 12:01 Making Shabbat a Time for Trust and Relaxation

Summary

In this conversation, Niv Fishbein discusses the significance of Shabbat in relation to business and personal life. He addresses a question about how to balance running multiple businesses while observing Shabbat. Niv emphasizes the importance of bitachon (trust) in Hashem, explaining that Shabbat is a time to let go of work-related stress and trust in divine providence for sustenance. He shares personal anecdotes and insights on how Shabbat can be a miraculous time when one fully relies on Hashem.

Takeaways

Shabbat is a time to catch up and relax. Bitachon is essential for trusting in Hashem's provision. Miracles can happen when you let go of control. Shabbat allows for a complete mental break from work. Trusting Hashem means making it His problem. The concept of Shabbat is rooted in divine trust. One should not stress about work on Shabbat. Shabbat is a time for family and spiritual connection. Understanding Shabbat can change one's perspective on work. The key to success is recognizing Hashem's role in sustenance.

In this episode, Niv Fishbein reflects on his journey of self-discovery and the concept of midlife crises. He humorously addresses the misconceptions surrounding midlife crises, suggesting that they can be a catalyst for positive change and self-reflection. Niv encourages listeners to take daily inventories of their lives, emphasizing the importance of honesty and personal growth. He concludes with a blessing for everyone to embrace their own midlife crises as opportunities for improvement and fulfillment.

Takeaways

I started this journey probably a year and a half ago. It's funny to think about midlife crises. A midlife crisis is actually awesome. Everyone should find time to take a spiritual inventory. If you had a positive midlife crisis every single day, it would be beneficial. Take an actual inventory of what you did that year. What if there isn't more time? A midlife crisis could actually be really good. How do I become better?

Yid With A Lid interviews the Lubavitch Emissary in Zambia, Africa, for his first interview of the podcast.

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Summary:

In this episode, YidWithALid delves into the complex and often uncomfortable topic of Mashiach, exploring the misconceptions, fears, and the true essence of what Mashiach represents in Jewish faith. He discusses the active role individuals must take in awaiting Mashiach, the fear of the unknown, and the contrast between the temporary pleasures of heaven and the ultimate purpose of existence. Fishbein emphasizes that Mashiach is not just about the end of days but about the elevation of our souls and bodies, and the desire for truth in a world filled with uncertainty. Takeaways

Most Orthodox people don't truly want Mashiach.

Awaiting Mashiach requires active participation, not just acknowledgment.

Fear of the unknown is a significant barrier to accepting Mashiach.

Heaven is not the ultimate goal; Mashiach is.

The purpose of creation is to bring God's light into the world.

Mashiach represents the elevation of our souls over our bodies.

The end of days signifies the end of darkness and the beginning of light.

Mashiach is about experiencing the truth of our existence.

We should desire Mashiach for the essence of our being, not just for benefits.

The time of Mashiach is when God's essence shines through us.

Keywords

Mashiach, Jewish faith, spirituality, Lubavitcher Rebbe, resurrection, afterlife, purpose of life, fear of the unknown, truth, existence