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  • The Illusion of Love: A Grieving Process
    2025/06/10

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    In this episode of 'Two Queens and a Joker,' Brenda and Sarah delve into the complexities of healing from narcissistic abuse. They discuss the grieving process associated with losing the illusion of love, the challenges of accountability in relationships affected by addiction, and the importance of choosing oneself and one's children over toxic dynamics. The conversation highlights the emotional turmoil of navigating grief, love bombing, and the struggle for self-identity after leaving a narcissistic partner.

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


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    27 分
  • Let's Stop Blaming Ourselves
    2025/06/03

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    In this episode, Brenda and Sara share their experiences with narcissistic abuse, focusing on the themes of self-blame, the struggle for self-validation, and the complexities of family dynamics. They discuss the emotional toll of living with a narcissist, the impact on their children, and the journey towards recovery and empowerment. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing manipulation and the need for support in healing from trauma. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of narcissistic abuse, exploring the facade that abusers often maintain in public, the cyclical nature of abuse, and the challenges faced by survivors in recognizing their self-worth. They discuss the hope for change in abusers, the difficulties of therapy for those with narcissistic traits, and the importance of listening to one's intuition. The conversation emphasizes the need for support and understanding among survivors, highlighting that they are not alone in their experiences.

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


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    37 分
  • Victim Blaming and the Complexity of Leaving
    2025/05/29

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    This conversation dives into the complexities of manipulation and control in relationships, particularly focusing on the emotional toll it takes on us. Sara and Brenda share personal experiences of self-blame, the impact of apologies, and the struggle to break free from toxic dynamics. Sara and Brenda reflect on choices made in the past, the importance of teaching children about respect and opinions, and the challenges of victim blaming. The discussion emphasizes the need for forgiveness and acceptance of one's past while recognizing the role of children in the healing process.

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


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    26 分
  • Finding Your New Normal After Trauma
    2025/05/20

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    In this episode of 'Two Queens and a Joker,' Brenda and Sarah discuss their experiences with narcissistic abuse and the long journey of healing. They explore the complexities of recovery, the importance of validation, and the challenges of recognizing narcissistic behavior. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-acceptance and finding a new normal after trauma, as well as navigating new relationships with caution and awareness. Ultimately, they aim to reassure listeners that they are not alone in their struggles and that healing is possible.

    narcissistic abuse, healing, validation, self-acceptance, new normal, relationships, trauma, recovery, mental health, support

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


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    25 分
  • You're Not Alone, You're Not Crazy
    2025/05/13

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    In this episode, Brenda and Sara share their experiences with narcissistic relationships, focusing on the impact of extended family, the roots of narcissism, and the challenges of parenting in such dynamics. They discuss the cognitive dissonance that often occurs in these relationships, the cycle of abuse and love bombing, and the importance of accountability, especially in the context of addiction. The conversation aims to provide support and understanding to those who have faced similar situations, emphasizing that listeners are not alone in their struggles.

    narcissism, narcissistic abuse, family dynamics, healing journey, accountability, cognitive dissonance, love bombing, addiction recovery, trauma bond, relationships

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


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    24 分
  • Understanding Narcissistic Rage - Why do their eyes get so dark??
    2025/05/08

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    In this episode of 'Two Queens and a Joker', Brenda and Sara delve into their experiences with narcissistic relationships, discussing the nuances of narcissistic rage, the impact on parenting, and the challenges faced by children of narcissistic parents. They explore the self-serving nature of narcissists, the fear and control dynamics in abusive relationships, and the importance of breaking the cycle of abuse for future generations.

    narcissism, narcissistic abuse, relationships, parenting, trauma, recovery, mental health, emotional abuse, self-care, healing

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


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    12 分
  • Am I Making This Sh*t Up??
    2025/05/04

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    In this episode, Brenda and Sarah share their experiences with narcissistic relationships, exploring the complexities of emotional abuse, self-doubt, and the impact of childhood on their perceptions. They discuss the manipulative behaviors of narcissists, the role of addiction, and the importance of recognizing one's own reality amidst gaslighting. The conversation emphasizes the journey of healing and the significance of friendship in overcoming trauma.


    narcissism, relationships, trauma bond, self-doubt, gaslighting, addiction, recovery, healing, emotional abuse, friendship

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


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    30 分