Are you dating someone who’s aligned with your values—or just your current priorities?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with personal development coach and author Nick Brancato for a conversation that hit way too close to home—in the best way. We’re talking about dating post-divorce and how to actually determine if someone is truly compatible for the long haul (even if everything feels fine on the surface).

If you’ve been wondering whether your current relationship is really going anywhere—or if you're just settling because it's “comfortable”—this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Prioritize Us book: https://www.amazon.com/Prioritize-Us-Unlock-Lasting-Priority/dp/B0DLVNWTJD/

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

• Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

• Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/

What We Discuss:

• The difference between values and priorities—and why it matters

• The biggest red flags that don’t look like red flags

• How to stop making up stories in your head when your partner pulls away

• What to do when your love languages don’t align

• How to create rituals that build emotional intimacy in real life

• Why you shouldn’t fall in love with potential, and what to look for instead

Find more from Nick Brancato:

Website: https://nickbrancato.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/personaldevcoach/

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

What if the reason you haven’t nailed your niche yet isn’t because you’re unclear but because you’re overthinking it?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m breaking down the truth behind why so many divorced moms get stuck before they even start their coaching business. If you’ve been spiraling in research mode, collecting freebies, or second-guessing every idea in your Notes app, this one's for you. I’ll walk you through the exact steps I use inside ReNewU to help my clients go from “I have no clue what my niche is” to confidently putting themselves out there—even before everything is “perfect.”

Resources Mentioned:

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

What I Discuss:

• The real reason you don’t need more niche ideas

• How fear, imposter syndrome, and perfectionism create “niche paralysis”

• The 80% rule: Why your niche doesn’t have to be perfect to start

• The million-dollar coaching question I ask every new client

• How to do a brain dump to spot your niche

• Three powerful questions to validate your niche through your own story

• The danger of waiting for “the perfect idea” before launching your business

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

What if the reason you keep attracting the wrong partner…has nothing to do with them and everything to do with you?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with Sherry Gaba, licensed psychotherapist and relationship coach, to talk about why so many smart, successful women fall into the trap of toxic relationships—even after divorce. We get into love addiction, codependency, trauma bonds, and how your childhood patterns shape who you choose as a partner. And most importantly, we talk about what to do if you're ready to stop repeating the cycle.

If you’ve been wondering why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic partners, this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Take the FREE Co-Dependency Quiz: https://sherrygaba.com/quizzes-assessments/codependency-quiz/

• The Love Fix Podcast: https://thelovefix.com/listen/

• Love Smacked Book: https://sherrygaba.com/product/love-smacked-amazon/

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

What We Discuss:

• Why love addiction is so common after divorce

• The signs of codependency and how it shows up in relationships

• Why many women get stuck in toxic relationship cycles

• How childhood trauma influences your adult romantic life

• The difference between healthy attachment and enmeshment

• Practical steps to begin healing and reclaiming your sense of self

• Why your healing impacts the kind of partner you attract next

Find more from Sherry Gaba:

Website: https://sherrygaba.com/

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw