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Living Counter-Culturally: What If Every Christian Started Driving the Speed Limit?

Episode Summary: In this episode, I explore a seemingly simple but profound question: What would happen if every Christian in the United States started driving the speed limit? Together with my husband, we dive into how this everyday act of obedience could become a powerful testimony of our faith. Through personal experiences and biblical insight, we discuss how small acts of faithfulness can lead to meaningful conversations about our relationship with Christ and our role as witnesses in the world.

Key Points:

Introduction

• Overview of the podcast's mission: Seek, find, and live the abundant life Jesus promises by cutting through life's chaos
• Rachel introduces the central question about Christians and speed limits

The Biblical Rationale for Following Traffic Laws

• Speeding is breaking the law, and scripture calls Christians to obey "laws of the land" unless they lead to sin
• Discusses Romans 13 and why laws and authorities are ordained by God
• Driving the speed limit as an act of obedience to God

Christians as Counter-Cultural Witnesses

• Driving the speed limit would set Christians apart and raise curiosity
• The early church lived counter-culturally, prompting faith conversations
• Reflecting on N.T. Wright's thoughts on political witness

Integrity in Everyday Actions

• Poor driving with Christian symbols undermines faith's reputation
• Christians called to lead lives consistent with faith
• Connection between claiming Jesus and living His teachings

The Concept of Willful Sin

• Exploring disobedience in "minor" areas of life
• The "little voice" that reminds us when we're wrong
• Countering cultural norms that normalize sin

Cultural Impact and Witness

• Examining inconsistency in Christian behavior
• The disconnect between words and actions
• Call to consistency and examining hypocrisy

Practical Application: Slowing Down

• Speed limit as metaphor for trusting God's timing
• Slower pace creates space for spiritual practices
• "Jesus take the gas pedal" reflection

Supporting Verses:

Romans 13:1-7 ESV "Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God." Supports Christians' duty to follow established laws

1 Peter 2:13-17 ESV "Be subject for the Lord's sake to every human institution..." Reinforces biblical mandate to respect authority

Galatians 3:28 ESV "There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." Supports unity and equal treatment of all people

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• Topics Covered:

  • Christian witness in everyday life
  • Biblical submission to authority
  • Counter-cultural living
  • Christian integrity
  • Traffic laws and biblical obedience
  • Early church example
  • Personal testimony
  • Practical faith application

  
  

  Mentioned Resource: "Jesus and the Powers" by N.T. Wright - Christian political witness and early church example

Headline: Redefining Purity: Moving Beyond Sexual Purity

Episode Summary: In this episode, Rachel and her husband Cameron have an honest, grace-filled conversation about the topic of sexual purity and why it's important to redefine purity beyond just sexual behavior. They discuss the issues with "purity culture" and how it can be damaging, especially for those who have experienced sexual trauma. Rachel and Cameron share their personal experiences and perspectives on maintaining purity in dating and marriage, emphasizing the importance of having a pure heart before God rather than just following rules.

Key Points with Timestamps:

The Issues with Reducing Purity to Just Sexual Purity [0:04:03 - 0:06:21]

The problems with the "purity culture" narrative that equates purity solely with sexual behavior [0:04:03 - 0:04:43]

How this narrow view can be damaging, especially for those who have experienced sexual assault or trauma [0:04:43 - 0:05:23]

The importance of recognizing that purity is about so much more than just sexual activity [0:05:23 - 0:06:21]

Purity of the Heart Over Outward Physical Purity [0:06:21 - 0:10:00]

Why purity of the heart and a genuine relationship with God is more important than just physical/sexual purity [0:06:21 - 0:07:21]

How an excessive focus on rules and technical adherence can miss the point of true obedience [0:07:21 - 0:08:40]

The need to redefine purity as a holistic concept, not just sexual behavior [0:08:40 - 0:10:00]

Maintaining Purity Through Relationship with God, Not Willpower Alone [0:14:26 - 0:19:17]

How relying on willpower and discipline alone is not enough to sustain purity [0:14:26 - 0:15:47]

The importance of having a genuine relationship with God as the foundation for purity [0:15:47 - 0:17:25]

Examples of physically removing themselves from tempting situations [0:17:25 - 0:19:17]

The Danger of Lukewarm, Cultural Christianity [0:35:00 - 0:40:00]

How "cultural Christianity" can miss the mark of true discipleship [0:35:00 - 0:37:19]

The difference between being a true disciple versus a nominal Christian [0:37:19 - 0:40:00]

Reflecting on Motivations for Purity [0:44:00 - 0:46:00]

The importance of examining the deeper reasons behind one's desire for purity [0:44:00 - 0:45:15]

Using journaling prompts to uncover the true state of one's heart [0:45:15 - 0:46:00]

Mentioned Links:

Garden City by John Mark Comer
The Insanity of God by Nik Ripken

Supporting Verses:

"Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks." (Matthew 12:34, ESV)
This verse supports the idea that purity of the heart is foundational to true purity.

“Do not bring worthless offerings again, [Your] incense is repulsive to Me; [Your] New Moon and Sabbath [observances], the calling of assemblies— I cannot endure wickedness [your sin, your injustice, your wrongdoing] and [the squalor of] the festive assembly." (Isaiah 1:13, AMP)

This verse shows God's desire for our hearts over simply the action of obedience.

"If you love me, you will keep my commandments." (John 14:15, ESV)
This verse shows that obedience flows from a heart of love for God, not just a desire to follow rules.

Action Steps:
- Reflect on the reasons behind your desire for purity
- Evaluate the state of your relationship with God
- Consider areas where you may be relying on willpower over relationship with God

Topics Covered:
- Sexual purity
- Purity culture
- Relationship with God
- Lukewarm Christianity
- Discipleship

Episode Summary: In this episode, I open up about my experience as part of a blended family and the challenges I've faced within the church community. I share my discomfort with the term "broken family" and emphasize the potential for redemption and wholeness, even in non-traditional family structures. I call for the church to be more aware and accommodating of diverse family dynamics, providing space and validation for those who don't fit the traditional mold. As a traditional family, you may have certain privileges, and I encourage you to use your voice and seat at the table to ensure that everyone feels welcome and valued. For those in non-traditional families, know that you are seen, heard, and valid. I invite both traditional and non-traditional families to join the conversation and share their thoughts and experiences, as we work together to create a more inclusive and supportive environment within the church.

Key Points with Timestamps:

Blended Family Experience and Terminology 0:00:00 Rachel introduces the podcast and her background as part of a blended family. 0:03:00 Rachel discusses her discomfort with the term "broken family" and the importance of finding redemption and wholeness.

Challenges of Non-Traditional Families in the Church 0:06:00 Rachel shares the difficulty of feeling isolated and othered in church groups primarily for traditional families. 0:08:00 Rachel calls for the church to be more aware and accommodating of non-traditional families.

The Importance of Community and Fellowship 0:10:00 Rachel shares her positive experience with her church, Mile City, and its emphasis on inclusivity. 0:11:00 Rachel encourages traditional families to be more inclusive and welcoming of non-traditional families.

Privilege and Awareness in Traditional Families 0:13:00 Rachel addresses the concept of privilege within traditional families and the need to use that privilege to create inclusive spaces.

Encouragement for Non-Traditional Families 0:15:00 Rachel reassures non-traditional families that they are seen, heard, and valid within the church. 0:16:00 Rachel suggests the creation of groups for non-traditional families to foster community and support.

Call to Action for Both Traditional and Non-Traditional Families 0:17:00 Rachel invites feedback and ideas from both traditional and non-traditional families to improve inclusivity.

Mentioned Links: Rachel Grit's Website ⁠https://rachelgrit.com⁠/ Instagram: http:/instagram.com/rachelgrit

Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@rachel.grit

Youtube: http://youtube.com/@rachelgrit

Download the Cut the Noise guided journal here!

Supporting Verses:"For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another." (Romans 12:4-5, ESV) This verse supports the idea of the church as a diverse body, where each member has a unique role to play, and the importance of embracing that diversity.

Action Steps:

• 1. Reach out to others in your church community who are part of non-traditional families and have an open conversation about creating a support group or fellowship opportunity.

  2. As a member of a traditional family, make a conscious effort to include and validate non-traditional families in church conversations and activities. Ask questions, listen, and find ways to make them feel welcomed.

  3. If you are part of a non-traditional family, continue to engage with your church community and seek out opportunities to connect with others in similar situations. Your presence and participation can help foster greater inclusivity.

• Topics Covered: Blended Families Non-Traditional Families Church Inclusivity Family Dynamics Community and Fellowship

Bite-Sized Biblecast: Finding Rest in Jesus (Matthew 11:28-29)

Episode Summary: In this episode of the True Grit podcast, I share a "bite-sized Biblecast" focused on the powerful promise found in Matthew 11:28-29. I unpack the practical steps listeners can take to truly find the rest Jesus offers, including the 4-7-8 breathing technique, verbally surrendering to Christ, and aligning our will with God's. As we navigate the fast-paced, overwhelming demands of modern life, this episode provides encouragement and actionable guidance to help you experience the peace and rejuvenation that comes from resting in the Lord.

Key Points with Timestamps:

Introduction to the True Grit Podcast ⁠[0:00:00]⁠ Rachel Grit welcomes listeners and introduces the purpose of the podcast.

Explanation of the Bite-Sized Biblecast Format ⁠[0:00:17]⁠ Rachel explains the concept of the bite-sized Biblecast and its goal of providing short, encouraging scripture discussions.

Practical Application of Matthew 11:28-29 ⁠[0:03:40]⁠ Rachel shares her personal struggle with applying the concept of finding rest in Jesus and introduces the 4-7-8 breathing technique as a practical solution.

Additional Practical Steps to Find Rest in Jesus ⁠[0:04:16]⁠ Rachel suggests verbally surrendering to Jesus and praying for God to align one's will with His as additional steps to experience the rest Jesus offers.

Recap and Conclusion ⁠[0:16:16]⁠ Rachel summarizes the three practical steps and concludes with a prayer for God's rest, guidance, and protection.

Mentioned Links:

• Free Download: ⁠Guided Journal to Find, Identify, and Eliminate Sources of Noise and Chaos in Your Life⁠

• NIH article on 4 7 8 breathing

Supporting Verses:

All verses are in ESV unless otherwise noted.

Matthew 11:28-29 "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

Action Steps:

1. Try the 4-7-8 breathing exercise to calm the mind and reduce stress.2. Verbally surrender to Christ, giving Him control over your life.3. Pray for God to align your will with His own.

Topics Covered:

- Finding rest in Jesus- Practical application of biblical principles- Reducing stress and anxiety- Surrendering to God's will- Aligning one's desires with God's desires

- 4 7 8 breathing

- Breathwork for anxiety

Related Posts and Episodes:

⁠Episode 2 | How Comparison is Killing Your Faith (& How to Fix It!)⁠

The True Grit Podcast | Episode 2 | How Comparison is Killing Your Faith (& How to Fix It!)

Episode Summary: In this episode of the True Grit podcast, I delve into the insidious and pervasive issue of comparison, particularly in the realm of faith. I share my own struggles with comparison and how it can damage our authentic connection with God. I challenge listeners to identify the sources of influence in their faith and focus on what helps them personally connect with the Lord, rather than falling into the trap of comparing themselves to unrealistic standards.

Key Points with Timestamps: Introduction and Podcast Purpose 0:00:00 - I introduce the True Grit podcast and its mission to help listeners seek, find, and live an abundant life with Jesus. Challenges in Recording the Episode 0:01:52 - I open up about the technical difficulties and lack of focus I faced in recording this episode due to being up since 11:30 PM. Impact of Social Media on Comparison 0:03:17 - I discuss how social media has exacerbated the issue of comparison, particularly with idealized content from influencers and unrealistic beauty standards. Historical and Biblical Context of Comparison 0:07:38 - I trace the origins of comparison back to the story of Eve and the original sin in the Garden of Eden, highlighting its pervasive nature in human life. Comparison in Faith 0:10:17 - I shift the focus to comparison in the realm of faith, noting the many "shoulds" that can influence our personal faith journey. The Role of Social Media in Faith Comparison 0:16:48 - I acknowledge the positive aspects of social media while warning about its negative impact on faith, leading to comparison and unrealistic standards. The Importance of Authentic Connection 0:22:17 - I emphasize the need for authentic connections in both personal relationships and with God, and how comparison can be toxic to these connections. Practical Steps to Eliminate Comparison 0:28:08 - I challenge listeners to identify the sources of influence in their faith, compare them to scripture, and focus on what helps them personally connect with God.

Mentioned Links: Download the ⁠free guided journal ⁠I created to help you find, identify, and make a plan to eliminate sources of noise and chaos in your life. It'll only take one hour and will give you the tools to deepen your connection with God while reclaiming a bit of your sanity.

Supporting Verses: "I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing." (John 15:5 ESV) - This verse supports the importance of maintaining an authentic, connected relationship with God, as opposed to comparison which can damage that connection.

Social Media Links: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel.grit/⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@rachel.grit⁠

Action Steps:

1. Reflect on the sources of influence and inspiration that are informing your faith.

2. Identify what helps you personally connect with God and focus on that, rather than comparing yourself to others.

3. Download the free guided journal ⁠One Hour to Cut the Noise⁠ from Rachel Grit's website to help with this process.

Topics Covered:

• Comparison in faith

• Christian faith

• Social media and its impact on Christians

• Authentic connection with God

• Personal growth as a Jesus follower

How to Grow Your Faith with Low Effort

Episode Summary: This episode challenges the idea that growth of faith requires a lot of effort. It explores the concept of "low-effort" faith and how small steps can lead to big changes.

Key Points with Timestamps:

• The Dangers of Comparison: Social media and curated online presentations of faith can create unrealistic expectations (0:42)
• Finding What Works for You: Ditch the "shoulds" and discover practices that resonate with your brain and lifestyle (2:12)
• Taking Small Steps: Incremental progress is key to avoiding overwhelm and staying consistent (4:12)
• Atomic Habits: The book "Atomic Habits" offers a framework for building sustainable habits (5:12)

Low-Effort Ways to Engage with Faith:

• Baby Steps to Growth: Low-effort practices are a stepping stone to more in-depth engagement (10:23)
• Starting Your Day with Scripture: The YouVersion Bible app offers a daily verse (11:23)
• The Power of Tiny Habits: Breaking down goals into minuscule, achievable steps (14:23)
• Taking Action: Identify a "teeny tiny" step you can take to move forward in your faith (16:12)

What's Next?

• Download the One Hour to Quiet the Noise guided journal (it's free!)
• Implement the "tiny step" you identified during the episode.
• Share your experience and next steps with Rachel via email rachel@rachelgrit.com)

Additional Resources:

• Rachel's Website: http://rachelgrit.com/
• Rachel's Email: rachel@rachelgrit.com
• Rachel on Instagram: @rachelgrit
• Rachel on TikTok: @rachel.grit (or search for Rachel Grit)
• YouVersion Bible App: https://www.youversion.com/
• Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40121378-atomic-habits