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Dismissive avoidants are often seen as confident or aloof in relationships—but underneath that exterior, many silently struggle with deep feelings of insecurity. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or emotionally shut down in love, this episode is for you.

Join Thais Gibson as she unpacks the hidden insecurities of the dismissive avoidant attachment style and shares empowering tools to break free from shame, self-doubt, and emotional repression. Learn how to build self-acceptance, communicate your needs, and reconnect authentically—without losing your independence.

• Why dismissive avoidants often feel "not good at relationships"

• How unmet expectations trigger shame and emotional withdrawal

• The internal dialogue that fuels insecurity—and how to rewire it

• The link between emotional modeling and relationship confidence

• How to speak up about your needs (without feeling weak or clingy)

Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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Ever found yourself deep in a relationship, only to realize it was never aligned with what you truly needed? Dating with insecure attachment can make it easy to miss the warning signs—and even easier to justify them.

In this powerful episode, Thais Gibson walks you through 8 essential red flags to look for in the early stages of dating. Whether you're anxiously attached, fearful avoidant, or somewhere in between, these insights will help you break out of painful patterns and make empowered choices in love.

• Why “respect” is a foundational non-negotiable—and how to spot subtle disrespect early

• The root reason couples build resentment (and how to avoid it)

• How to tell the difference between privacy and secrecy

• What lack of individuation looks like and why it threatens long-term compatibility

• Why unhealed baggage from past relationships often leads to future pain

• The psychological signs of controlling behavior that may be easy to overlook

Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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Do you find yourself longing for someone who doesn’t feel the same way—or even someone you’ve never spoken to? The pain of unrequited love can feel all-consuming, but it holds a powerful message from your subconscious.

In this heartfelt episode, Thais Gibson helps you decode the true meaning behind infatuation and emotional longing when it isn’t returned. You’ll discover how fantasy forms when core needs go unmet—and how to turn the energy of heartbreak into self-empowerment, healing, and integration.

• Why your brain turns to fantasy when your emotional needs aren’t met

• The connection between unrequited love and unmet childhood needs

• How to identify the repressed traits you’re projecting onto others

• A simple framework to uncover and meet your own needs in the present

• How to move from emotional longing to real-life connection and confidence

Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

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