Are you making moves in your business from power… or from fear? In this episode I dive deep into the subconscious patterns that drive your decisions, especially the ones that look “strategic” on the surface but are actually rooted in self-doubt, urgency, and survival.

From launches that feel heavy to pricing that doesn’t match your power, this episode breaks down what fear based action really looks like, why your nervous system might be resisting growth, and how to shift into a place of true subconscious safety and self leadership.

Get ready for aha moments, powerful reframes, and tangible NLP tools you can use today to step into your next level not by doing more, but by becoming the woman who leads from certainty, trust, and power.

Topics covered on How to Tell If You’re Making Business Moves from Fear or from Power:

• The difference between fear-driven and power-driven strategy
• What your subconscious is really protecting you from (and why)
• How nervous system dysregulation shows up in business
• 5 signs your decisions are coming from fear
• Rewiring tools from NLP and subconscious anchoring
• Building emotional safety around visibility, pricing, and consistency
• Becoming the woman who leads, instead of proving

"You can’t create power-driven results from a fear-driven identity. The subconscious has to feel safe with what you’re stepping into — or it will protect you from the very thing you want."- Rebecca Haydon

More about The Subconscious Expert:

Welcome to The Subconscious Expert, the podcast where your subconscious becomes your one-way ticket to the mind-blowing results you desire in your life and business!

I’m your host, Rebecca Haydon, The Subconscious Expert who went from being stuck in victim mode to a multi 6 figure business owner. Each week, I will be giving you the subconscious tools and techniques so you can become the woman who is living out her vision with a life and business that she is truly OBSESSED with.

I have said it before, and I will say it 100 times again: "Your business can't outgrow your mindset, and if you want to grow your business, it always starts with growing your subconscious." So let's dive into the subconscious breakthrough you so deeply deserve.

Let’s be honest, how many times have you told yourself, “I don’t want to be salesy” or “I don’t want to talk about my offer too much”?

You’re not alone and this episode is your permission slip to release the guilt that’s been secretly driving your sales. Because the truth is: your strategy isn’t the problem. Your subconscious conditioning is.

In this episode, I’m diving into the subconscious roots of why selling might feel like proving. Why high-ticket offers might bring up guilt. And why you’re subconsciously over-explaining, overgiving, or undercharging, even when you know your work changes lives.

We’re going deep into the nervous system responses, the “good girl” conditioning, and the internal rewiring that allows you to finally sell with certainty, self-leadership, and power.

If you’re ready to stop justifying and start leading, this episode is for you.

• The subconscious roots of sales guilt and why it feels safer to over-explain or shrink
• How childhood patterns and praise shaped your current visibility blocks
• The real reason your pricing, CTA, or offer still feels “sticky”
• Signs you’re selling from proving instead of power
• Journal prompts to shift from guilt to grounded confidence
• Identity work to rewire how you hold, share, and sell your work
• The subtle but powerful difference between hustle energy and embodied leadership

Connect with Rebecca Haydon:

• Apply to work with me
• The Subconscious Membership
• Come say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

Find the full show notes & more resources at https://rebeccahaydon.com/podcast

Mentioned in this episode:

Sell Like Her

The 3 Month Mini Mind for Entrepreneurs Ready to Sell with Power, Scale with Certainty and Make Their Business Feel Effortless. Find out more at http://www.rebeccahaydon.com/sell-like-her

Sell Like Her

The biggest subconscious shifts aren’t in what you do; they’re in how you see yourself. Back in 2021, when my business took off, people kept asking me what my secret was. How did I become so successful so quickly? Let me share what I told them back then.

I stopped chasing success and instead started embodying it. I didn't wait for proof. I BECAME proof. And I'm going to teach you how to do the same!

Join me in today's episode as we dive into the real reasons why you're not moving as fast as you know you're capable of—and spoiler alert, it’s not about needing more strategies or hours in the day. I’ll walk you through identifying the subconscious beliefs that are keeping you stuck, help you define the next-level version of yourself who already has it all, and we'll rewire your subconscious mind to step into that identity TODAY. So grab a mirror, buckle in, and let’s get to work!

Topics covered on Subconscious Shifts:

1. How can you identify the subconscious beliefs that are holding you back?
2. What does it mean to embody your success instead of chasing it?
3. How do you identify your next-level version of yourself and align your actions with her?
4. Journal prompts that will help you reflect on your subconscious beliefs and subconsciously shift into the next-level version of yourself.
5. What steps can you take to make a subconscious shift and step into the next-level version of yourself?

Connect with Rebecca Haydon:

• Apply to work with me
• The Subconscious Membership
• Come say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

Find the full show notes & more resources at https://rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/the-biggest-subconscious-shifts-arent-in-what-you-do-theyre-in-how-you-see-yourself

Mentioned in this episode:

Sell Like Her

The 3 Month Mini Mind for Entrepreneurs Ready to Sell with Power, Scale with Certainty and Make Their Business Feel Effortless. Find out more at http://www.rebeccahaydon.com/sell-like-her

Sell Like Her