In the Shadows: Exploring Unconventional Lifestyles with Sahara

In this episode of 'In the Shadows,' Curt Derby sits down with Sahara, a woman who candidly shares her unconventional lifestyle, including her experiences with multiple lovers, threesomes (and foursomes), and an offer to include an animal.

She also discusses her head injury's impact on her ability to process emotions, and her intriguing hobbies like catfishing scammers. With frank discussions about adult themes and personal explorations, this episode dives deep into topics not commonly covered by mainstream media.

Join us for an insightful conversation that challenges societal norms and celebrates individual freedom and happiness.

00:00 Content Warning and Introduction

00:49 Meet Sahara: A Journey into Sexual Exploration

01:40 The World of Adult Friend Finder

02:43 Tinder Troubles and Code Words

06:21 Friends with Benefits and Sexual Preferences

14:58 Swinging and Pineapple Tattoos

27:37 Travel Adventures and Safety Concerns

43:46 Head Injury and Emotional Changes

48:25 Quickies: Fun and Fast Questions

54:05 Teenage Hormones and Vegas

55:00 The Importance of First Times

56:37 Managing Multiple Partners

57:57 Age Differences in Relationships

01:00:05 Interracial and Unique Experiences

01:02:29 Unusual Sexual Encounters

01:03:46 Favorite Sexual Experiences

01:27:57 Catfishing the Catfishers

01:38:41 Speed Round Questions

01:46:35 Final Thoughts on Criticism and Consent

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The Joys and Challenges of Parenting: Insights with Jared and Ashley Floyd

In this episode of 'In the Shadows,' Curt Derby is joined by Jared and Ashley Floyd to discuss the multifaceted experience of parenting. They delve into the joy of raising children, the challenges they face, and the profound personal growth that comes from being a parent. Sharing their own experiences, such as managing a large family of eight children, the Floyds offer practical advice and personal anecdotes on effective parenting strategies. The conversation covers important topics like the significance of empathy, maintaining control without authoritarianism, and the impact of environment on child-rearing. They also provide tips for new parents, including the importance of consistent schedules, the value of reading to children, and the need to keep children off cell phones as long as possible. The episode concludes with a fun speed round of questions, providing viewers with a comprehensive yet personal look at the joys, responsibilities, and complexities of parenting.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

01:05 The Joy of Parenting

01:39 Meet the Floyd Family

02:35 Parenting Challenges and Rewards

05:02 Deciding to Have Kids

10:32 Cultural Differences in Parenting

17:50 Financial Aspects of Raising a Large Family

27:17 Nature vs. Nurture in Parenting

41:46 The Importance of Early Years

53:01 Building Trust and Apologizing

53:35 Handling Parenting Mistakes

54:07 Balancing Imperfection and Protection

55:08 Encouraging Curiosity and Admitting Ignorance

56:10 Understanding and Supporting Different Personalities

56:43 The Impact of Parental Behavior

58:17 The Selflessness Debate in Parenting

01:03:36 Scariest Parenting Moments

01:08:49 Parenting Tips and Strategies

01:27:06 Speed Round: Quickfire Questions

01:31:16 Final Thoughts and Recommendations

https://everybodyshappy.com/Protesting Donald Trump & Elon Musk, Ending the Department of Education, Laying Off Federal Employees, Occupy Wall Street, Crazy Ideas, and MORE!Elon Musk, Donald Trump, and DOGE: A Call for Change – How We the People Can Get Things Done!In this episode, Curt Derby addresses the current political landscape with Donald Trump in his second term and the recently established Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE). He discusses the effectiveness of protests like the recent 5051 movement, comparing them to the Occupy Wall Street movement.Curt points out that while protests raise awareness, they rarely lead to change. He urges Democrats and other political factions to adopt a new mindset and approach, emphasizing the power of 'We the People' to directly fund and support desired governmental functions like the Department of Education. By leveraging social media and grassroots efforts, Curt believes significant change is possible without relying solely on politicians.00:00 Introduction and Overview00:38 Current Political Climate01:05 The Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE)01:57 Public Reaction and Protests02:45 Historical Context: Occupy Wall Street04:25 The Power of Protest and the Need for Change04:58 A Call to Action for Democrats05:15 A Message to Republicans05:45 The Role of Social Media and Grassroots Movements06:23 Empowerment and Self-Reliance13:39 Conclusion and Further Resources

Visit our websiteFrom Trauma to Triumph: Amanda's Journey Through Beauty Pageants and HealingIn this episode, Curt Derby hosts a compelling discussion with Amanda Smith McCombs as part of the 'In the Shadow' series. Amanda shares her life story, starting from her experiences with various forms of abuse during her teenage years to her transformative journey through beauty pageants. Despite facing emotional and physical trauma, including a bout with shingles and the sudden loss of her mother, Amanda has found solace and community through beauty pageants. This episode explores the importance of self-care, the impact of community, and the power of saying yes to new opportunities.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:56 Meet Amanda Smith McCombs02:03 The Journey to Mrs. Daybreak04:09 Responsibilities and Community Service14:38 Personal Challenges and Triumphs31:51 A Glimpse into Amanda's Past52:21 Revealing Past Traumas53:25 Piano Memories and Family Moments54:38 Pageant Experiences and Friendships56:08 Art Projects and Creative Endeavors01:01:38 Podcast Insights and Personal Growth01:10:28 Book Recommendations and Literary Discussions01:25:50 Speed Round Fun01:30:55 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

Check out our websiteInside the Conflict: A First-Hand Account of Life in IsraelIn this episode of 'The Perfect Society: In the Shadows,' host Curt Derby interviews Elizabeth Emery Shemesh, who shares her harrowing experience living in Israel during the October 7th, 2023, Hamas attack. Elizabeth recounts the traumatic events, provides an in-depth look at the geopolitical and historical context of the Israel-Palestine conflict, and discusses the impact on her family and the broader Israeli community. The episode sheds light on the complexities of the situation, the misinformation often propagated in the media, and offers a unique first-hand perspective not commonly seen. Whether you're looking to understand the intricacies of Middle Eastern politics or seeking to hear a deeply personal narrative of resilience and hope, this episode is a must-watch.00:00 Content Warning and Introduction00:22 Grim Discovery and Initial Reactions00:45 Welcome to The Perfect Society01:13 Guest Introduction: Elizabeth Emery Shemesh01:26 In the Shadows Series: Uncovered Topics01:57 Journey to the United States02:31 October 7th Attack on Israel04:18 Geopolitical Landscape of Israel and Palestine05:59 Hamas and Hezbollah: Understanding the Threats07:04 Complexities of the West Bank10:47 Historical Context: Israel and Palestine25:41 Zionism and the Formation of Israel37:43 Ongoing Conflicts and Future Prospects47:53 Iran's Missile Barrage and Israel's Response48:47 Life in Southern Israel Amidst Conflict49:50 Personal Decisions During Times of War50:42 The Resilience of Israelis52:30 US-Israel Relations and Foreign Policy56:02 The Role of the UN and International Perceptions01:19:55 The Settlement Controversy01:30:37 Future Prospects for Peace in the Middle East01:35:49 The Events of October 7th, 202301:37:37 Preparing for the Unexpected01:38:09 The Iron Dome and Its Role01:39:06 Close Calls and Immediate Threats01:39:44 Horrors of the Attack01:45:20 Escaping to Safety01:45:51 Life in Cyprus01:52:50 Returning to Normalcy02:10:38 Reflections and Hopes for Peace02:11:30 Speed Round Fun

https://everybodyshappy.com/Are You a Frog in Boiling Water?Understanding Freedom in SocietyJoin author Curt Derby as he delves into the concept of freedom and force in society, drawing an analogy from the infamous frog in boiling water experiment. Referencing his book, "Everybody's Happy, Everybody Wins: How to Build a Perfect Society", Curt challenges viewers to examine their own relationship with liberty and the subtle ways force infiltrates our lives. This episode presents alternatives to the current political system and the importance of true freedom for all. Download the book, "Everybody's Happy, Everybody Wins: How to Build a Perfect Society" for free on https://everybodyshappy.com/ Or watch the unabridged "Full Audio Book" right here on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNq8c5_YnQg&t=1037sYou can also enjoy the audiobook on Spotify, Audible, or iTunes (links available on https://everybodyshappy.com/). You will love the deeper insights into building a perfect society.00:00 Introduction to Freedom00:27 The Frog Analogy01:37 Freedom vs. Force03:17 The Illusion of a Free Country04:09 Political Tug of War06:30 Comfort with Force07:45 Alternatives to Force08:50 Conclusion and Call to Action

In this episode, we explore the concept of creating a perfect society where everyone wins.

The discussion revolves around eliminating societal issues such as war, systemic racism, and starvation while achieving justice, prosperity, and peace for all.

This vision, as presented in the book 'Everybody's Happy, Everybody Wins, How to Build a Perfect Society,' outlines practical steps to transform society within a few short years.

The episode delves into current societal challenges, bipartisan fears, and offers solutions that cater to political beliefs across the spectrum. Learn how we can build a utopian future for all generations.

00:00 Introduction: Envisioning a Perfect World

02:25 Current State of Society: A Reality Check

04:08 The Blueprint for Change: Building a Perfect Society

05:07 Benefits for Democrats: Achieving Social Justice

06:00 Benefits for Republicans: Ensuring Freedom and Prosperity

07:05 Conclusion: A Blueprint for a Better Future

https://everybodyshappy.com/The Endless Political Tug of War: Trump's Triumph and Democrat Despair

In this episode, we delve into the recent political landscape where Donald Trump's executive actions have brought joy to his supporters while Democrats face dismay. We explore the historical cycle of power shifts between Republicans and Democrats, and the resulting emotional rollercoaster. The video also discusses the author's vision for a society where political conflict is eliminated, as detailed in their book 'Everybody's Happy, Everybody Wins: How to Build a Perfect Society.'

00:00 Trump's Triumphs and Republican Euphoria

00:43 Democratic Despair and Political Polarization

01:15 Historical Power Shifts and Future Predictions

04:32 The Emotional Toll of Political Hatred

07:51 Imagining a One-Party Utopia

10:02 The Never-Ending Political Tug of War

12:18 A Vision for a Perfect Society

13:10 Conclusion and Call to Action