Are you unknowingly sabotaging your own success?

In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris dive deep into the world of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and show you how your unconscious mind might be the biggest thing holding you back from the life you actually want.

They explain how your early childhood programming formed the beliefs that now run your life on autopilot—and how to finally take back control. Whether it's wealth, confidence, or relationships you're struggling with, this episode reveals the invisible patterns keeping you stuck... and how to break free.

If you’ve ever felt like you should be doing better by now—but can’t figure out why you’re not—this episode is a must-listen. You’ll walk away with clarity, actionable tools, and a renewed sense of control over your future.

Tune in and discover how to rewire your mind and redesign your life—starting today.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why your unconscious mind is running the show (and how to override it)
• The truth about beliefs and how they shape your results in life
• How NLP change patterns can rewire limiting beliefs in minutes
• Why success and failure are rooted in unconscious programming
• How to stop self-sabotaging your goals (without even realizing it)
• The link between early childhood and your current struggles

If you are interested in accelerating your professional success in your career or business and your wealth, we can help you. We do this by upgrading your unconscious programming, mindset and habits, so you can get the success you want (whatever that is for you).

To find out more about our valuable coaching program, email us at: coaching@patandchris.com

Also, check out our social media:
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In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged and Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris sit down with former MLS star and US National Team player Kelyn Rowe to reveal the untold side of MLS soccer. Sharing his experiences playing against Thierry Henri, David Beckham and Zlatan Ibrahimović, Kelyn also opens up about the sacrifices, mindset, failures, and brutal transitions that few athletes ever talk about.

From childhood obsession to pro athlete, from the highs of scoring for his country to getting cut from the team the next day, Kelyn shares the emotional rollercoaster of making it to the top — and then having to start over after retirement.

If you're stuck in your own career or life transition, you’ll discover what it really takes to build resilience, navigate setbacks, and redefine your identity after losing what once defined you.

Stay tuned until the end for hilarious behind-the-scenes stories, including how a controversial red card inspired Kelyn's own wine label!

This isn’t just a story about soccer — it’s a masterclass on mindset, identity, and personal growth.

Hit play. Absorb Kelyn's hard-earned lessons. And take the first step toward your own breakthrough.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The mindset difference between pros who succeed and those who don’t
• His emotional story of getting cut from the US National Team
• How failures, injuries, and setbacks shaped his career
• The identity crisis athletes face after retirement
• Why versatility and adaptability kept him playing for 12 seasons
• Life lessons on ego, work ethic, and finding your "why" after sports
• How a ridiculous red card turned into a successful wine business

If you are interested in accelerating your professional success in your career or business and your wealth, we can help you. We do this by upgrading your unconscious programming, mindset and habits, so you can get the success you want (whatever that is for you).

To find out more about our valuable coaching program, email us at: coaching@patandchris.com

Also, check out our social media:
www.youtube.com/@patandchris
www.instagram.com/patandchris
www.tiktok.com/@pat_and_chris

In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris share the 5 most important self-reflecting questions everybody should ask themselves right now — especially if you're feeling lost, unfulfilled, or stuck.

These aren’t surface-level journal prompts. These are deep, sometimes uncomfortable, truth bombs designed to shake you out of autopilot and spark serious life change.

If you’re tired of drifting, doubting, or delaying the life you actually want — this episode is your wake-up call.

Plus, we reveal a bonus question at the end that might just change your entire perspective on what it’s costing you not to change…

Hit play. Get honest. And start reshaping your future — today.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why staying on your current path might be the biggest risk of all
• How limiting beliefs and self-sabotage are silently keeping you stuck
• The hidden cost of procrastination and making excuses
• How you might have an anchor out, despite your boat being underway
• The scary difference between comfort and growth
• And the one question that reframes everything and fuels massive momentum

If you are interested in accelerating your professional success in your career or business and your wealth, we can help you. We do this by upgrading your unconscious programming, mindset and habits, so you can get the success you want (whatever that is for you).

To find out more about our valuable coaching program, email us at: coaching@patandchris.com

Also, check out our social media:
www.youtube.com/@patandchris
www.instagram.com/patandchris
www.tiktok.com/@pat_and_chris