In this candid Q&A from the Bethesda tour stop, Danny and Brittney respond to questions on dating, identity, and how to build relationships that are both healthy and lasting. From practical wisdom on staying true to yourself in dating to the importance of aligning your life mission with your partner’s, this episode unpacks how to keep your love on from the very start. Whether you’re single, dating, or mentoring someone who is, you’ll gain insight on what it means to pursue connection with clarity, confidence, and community.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why self-awareness and confidence are critical before entering a relationship.

• How to discern if you're adjusting yourself to be what someone else wants.

• The importance of building relationships within the safety of community.

• Why shared life vision and mission matter more than chemistry alone.

• How early alignment can lead to long-term unity and growth.

Key Takeaways:

• Don’t change your ticket: Choose relationships where your life mission and calling are already aligned—you’re heading the same direction.

• Be confident in who you are: Healthy relationships start when both people know, like, and are developing who they are in Christ.

• Stay in community: Surround yourself with trusted people who can speak into your relationships and help you stay grounded.

• Chemistry fades—clarity lasts: Compatibility rooted in purpose and values is more sustainable than just emotional or physical connection.

Join the Conversation:

Have you ever changed your “ticket” to make a relationship work? What’s one area of your identity that you’re learning to love and protect? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and keep the conversation going.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

In this powerful continuation from Bethesda, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions from a live audience about conflict, connection, and covenant. Through raw and insightful stories—from car ride disconnection to navigating orphan mindsets and newlywed advice—they highlight the courage and humility it takes to lead in relationships. Whether you’re married, mentoring others, or healing from disconnection yourself, this episode will challenge you to protect connection, prioritize self-awareness, and embrace the path of growth and reconciliation.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How listening better than someone is talking changes the emotional climate of a relationship.

• Why hurt often masquerades as anger—and how to respond with compassion.

• What to do when someone is stuck in self-protection or an orphan mindset.

• Why curiosity and self-awareness are keys to thriving in marriage.

• How to use five simple words to communicate emotional truth and protect connection.

Key Takeaways:

• Listening is an act of protection: When you slow down and truly understand what someone is feeling, you create safety and open the door to healing.

• Self-justification is the enemy of connection: Owning your part, even when it’s uncomfortable, is the path to deeper trust.

• Curiosity transforms conflict: When you stop blaming and start getting curious—about yourself and others—you create space for growth.

• Connection must be protected at all costs: React to disconnection like your couch is on fire—drop everything and deal with it.

• Simple words bring powerful clarity: Words like “ouch,” “yikes,” and “ugh” help you name what’s happening inside and move toward reconnection.

Join the Conversation:

Which part of this episode challenged you most? Do you need to slow down and listen better, or have the courage to speak your truth in love? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and let us know how you're keeping your love on.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney take us to Vancouver, Washington, where they respond to powerful audience questions about family disconnection, political disagreements, and parenting through transition. Whether it's a daughter using "boundaries" to cut off relationship, a seventeen-year-old disrupting family game night, or a holiday skipped because of political differences, the heart of this episode is about restoring connection without compromising your values. With wisdom, laughter, and plenty of real talk, Danny and Brittney offer practical tools for loving your people without losing yourself.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The difference between boundaries and punishment in relationships.

• How fear drives disconnection—and how love casts it out.

• Why adult children sometimes distance themselves and how to rebuild trust.

• What to do when siblings in the same home become strangers.

• How to build a culture of respect in your home through shared family values.

Key Takeaways:

• Boundaries keep the door open for reconciliation. Punishment shuts it.

• When a child disconnects, start by asking: “Do I have a mess to clean up?”

• Family time is a culture you create, not an obligation you force.

• Your job isn’t to control your adult kids—it’s to become a trusted friend.

• Clarifying your family values (like a “Family Creed”) helps everyone know what’s expected and what matters most.

Join the Conversation:

Have you ever been on the receiving end of a "boundary" that felt more like rejection? Or maybe you're a parent learning to navigate new dynamics with adult children. We'd love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and tell us how you're learning to keep your love on.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell