Have you ever walked into a room and realized… you’re the only one?

The only woman.

The only parent.

The only person of color.

The only voice of your kind.

In this episode, I share what it’s really like to be the “only”—and how I’ve learned to turn that discomfort into a source of power.

I open up about an experience where I was the only female at a high-level mastermind retreat, how I handled the uncomfortable moments (like not being allowed to check in to a hotel with my daughter 😳), and what it truly means to show up fully, even when others misunderstand or criticize your path.

You'll hear:

✨ How I reframed being “the only one” from weakness to strength

💬 A shocking direct message I received—and how I chose to respond with grace

🌵 3 life lessons I learned from a desert cactus (yes, really)

💡 A step-by-step framework to create your own peer-led mastermind, no $50K required

🔥 The importance of scrappy action—and how YOU can build your own room if you’re not getting invited into one

Plus, I share an incredibly practical story of how my friend Stacy pulled together a high-level group of entrepreneurs to host a mastermind with Layla Hermozi—without needing a massive budget or big brand clout.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt like an outsider… and is ready to own it as their edge.

Let’s stop waiting to be invited. Let’s build the rooms we want to walk into.

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[00:00] Why being “the only” in a room can be your advantage

[01:00] Childhood lessons on standing out (and why it felt uncomfortable at first)

[04:30] The story behind being the only woman at a mastermind in the desert

[06:30] The direct message that tried to cut deep—and why it didn’t

[08:00] The hotel that rejected us and the emotional moment that followed

[11:30] Owning your difference and reclaiming your presence

[14:00] 3 powerful lessons from a desert cactus 🌵

[17:30] How to get into powerful rooms (even if you don’t have the budget)

[20:00] The 2 types of masterminds and what they require

[24:00] How YOU can start a high-value peer-to-peer mastermind today

[26:00] Final encouragement: you don’t need permission to create the room you want

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For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode571

You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.

I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.

If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!

Let’s talk about the unspoken epidemic hitting high achievers: perfectionism, scarcity thinking, and the belief that our worth is tied to hustle.

In this episode of the Jasmine Star Show, I sit down with powerhouse coach and recovering perfectionist Keren Eldad—and y’all, it’s the permission slip we didn’t know we needed.

Keren has coached world leaders, Olympians, and 8-figure entrepreneurs, and guess what they all battle? The fear of not being enough.

We unpack the adversarial mindset that equates pressure with performance—and explore how ease can be your edge.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for resting, obsessed over “getting it right,” or mistaken anxiety for ambition… this one’s for you.

Keren doesn’t just drop gems—she drops frameworks. Tune in to rewire your patterns and lead with clarity, not chaos.

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[00:02] Why most high achievers operate from scarcity (even if they don’t know it)

[00:55] “Do you view the world as abundant or adversarial?” – the question that changes everything

[04:11] Why letting go of perfectionism doesn’t mean losing your edge

[06:02] The dark side of hustle culture and how it nearly made Keren quit her own business

[07:35] Why most perfectionists don’t think they are (and how to spot it in yourself)

[09:57] The real reason we resist rest (and what to do about it)

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• Why High Achievers Burn Out (and How to Fix It)
• How to Build Your Self Trust to Make Better Business Decisions

Connect With Keren Eldad:

Keren Eldad is an executive coach, speaker, and author specializing in high achievers who look great on paper but feel like something’s missing. Her work has impacted world leaders, elite athletes, entrepreneurs, and C-suite executives. Known for her clarity and compassion, Keren helps overachievers drop the hustle and reclaim joy, success, and personal alignment. Her coaching program and upcoming book, Gilded, explore what happens when performance masks pain—and how to break free.

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For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode570

You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.

I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.

If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!

When they win, I win. When I win, they win.

That’s how I approach networking. It’s not about “getting in the room”—it’s about expanding the room so we can all win together.

In this episode of The Jasmine Star Show, I’m pulling back the curtain on how I’ve intentionally used Instagram to build real relationships with 8-figure founders—relationships that started with zero connections and zero expectations.

Here’s the deal: people are always asking me, “Jasmine, how did you get into that room? How did you build a network of powerful founders?” And today, I’m breaking it ALL down.

But I’m not giving you theory. I’m giving you the actual steps I used. Plus, I’m sharing two real-life examples of women I met on Instagram who are now part of my mastermind and personal network.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• The exact 4-step framework I use to build authentic relationships online (Follow. Study. Engage. Invite.)
• How I built a connection with Shay Bacani, a powerhouse in the beauty and wellness funding space
• Why story-driven engagement and real connection is more powerful than cold DMs
• How to shift from being a fan to being a peer (this part is gold)

Whether you’re scaling to eight figures, seeking strategic partnerships, or just trying to connect with like-minded founders—you’ll walk away from this episode with a clear, simple roadmap to start building your dream network… one DM at a time.

And yes, I even read my actual DMs to Shay. (Spoiler alert: there’s nothing fancy—just intentional connection.)

It’s time to build a network that matches your ambition.

Let’s get to work.

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[00:01] Why abundance and connection matter more than “getting in the room”

[00:56] Why stories—not just strategies—connect us the most

[01:20] A sneak peek into Jasmine’s current focus: business acquisition and advisory work

[02:58] How Instagram's algorithm helped Jasmine find her people (shoutout to IG!)

[03:52] Real-life example: How Jasmine discovered and connected with Shay Makani

[04:46] How Jasmine used Story replies, thoughtful engagement, and DMs to build trust

[05:40] The exact DMs Jasmine used to move from follower to Zoom call with an 8-figure founder

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• How to Create More Meaningful Relationships in Business

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For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode569

Building authentic relationships in business doesn’t have to feel awkward or overwhelming. In this episode, I’m sharing the 3-part framework I use to create intentional connections that have led to deeper friendships, dream podcast interviews, and real business growth.

You’ll learn how to: ✨ Use location to build meaningful in-person moments ✨ Create a simple follow-up system with tools like Notion ✨ Send personalized outreach that leaves a lasting impression

Whether you're craving deeper peer connections or trying to get in the room with people you admire, this episode gives you a roadmap to make it happen—authentically. Grab your coffee and let’s dive in!

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[00:01] Why I’m building friendships differently in 2025 and the mindset shift behind it

[00:59] The first thing I track in new relationships and how it helped land podcast guests like Cassey Ho

[03:48] How knowing someone’s city led to surprise-and-delight moments (and why it matters)

[05:52] Creating a simple but powerful system for follow-up using Notion

[07:15] Using outreach and podcast interviews to build authentic relationships (with real examples)

[09:37] Why your love language matters in business and how to personalize your connection strategy

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• The BEST Networking Secrets to Grow Your Business with Jen Gottlieb
• How Networking and Personal Growth Can Transform Your Career Path with Ena Hull
• Mind Pumped: The Entrepreneurial Truth About Value, Vision, and Monetization with Adam Schafer

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For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode568

When I first saw Cassey Ho’s YouTube videos, her energy and authenticity instantly stood out. So when she joined the podcast, I knew we were going deeper than just workouts.

In this episode, Cassey shares the raw truth behind online harassment, the YouTube policy change it sparked, and how her sensitivity became a powerful strength in business and life.

Cassey and I talked about:

• 🔥 What it’s like to feel everything so deeply—and how it shapes decision-making as a CEO
• 💔 How she weathered a massive wave of online hate (yes, it involved bananas…)
• 🧠 The intersection of logic and emotion—and why both are needed to build something meaningful
• ✨ Why vulnerability is not a liability but a secret weapon
• 🧵 The “cloud hoodie” as the entrepreneur uniform (and why comfort + confidence is a vibe)

Cassey shows us that being emotional isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom. Her story is a reminder that deep feelings and big hearts can drive powerful leadership and creativity.

If you’ve ever wondered if you’re too much or questioned your worth, this episode is for you.

There’s no one right path to success—and this convo celebrates them all.

Wherever you are in your journey, you’re not alone. Press play and feel seen, heard, and supported. 💕

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[01:30] Why Cassey’s emotional sensitivity is actually her entrepreneurial strength

[21:55] The moment Cassey spoke up publicly at YouTube’s Creator Summit (and why it changed policy)

[23:19] How Cassey handled online harassment and turned it into purpose-driven change

[24:13] The aftermath of confronting hate: how Cassey’s bravery led to a safer platform

[59:10] Jasmine reflects on Cassey's transparency and emotional leadership as an inspiration for other entrepreneurs

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• Growing in Life + Business: What I'm Learning in the Messy Middle
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Connect With Cassey Ho:

Cassey Ho is a trailblazing entrepreneur, fitness instructor, and designer best known as the founder of Blogilates, one of the most popular female fitness channels on YouTube. She also founded Popflex Active, a fashion-forward athleisure brand focused on empowering women to feel strong, confident, and comfortable in their skin. With over 15 million social media followers and multiple viral moments (some joyful, some challenging), Cassey is redefining what it means to lead with heart in the online world.

📧 Join my Newsletter for a weekly cocktail of insider business strategy, personal reflections, and the journey of being a thought leader. 📧

For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode567

You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.

I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.

If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!

Have you ever second-guessed a big investment in your growth? Like a $50,000 coaching program that makes your palms sweat?

In this episode, I’m sharing how I decide when to invest (even when it’s scary), what to do if it falls short, and how to turn any room into the right room.

You’ll hear real texts, voice memos, and pep talks—including one that might be exactly what you need to hear today.

If you've ever wondered, "Is this worth it?"—press play. Let’s talk about investing with intention, even when it feels uncomfortable.

Click play to hear all of this and:

[01:58] What I told a friend who was on the fence about investing—and why her response might change the way you approach your next opportunity.

[03:32] How I turn underwhelming coaching groups into priceless masterminds by curating my own “pod” within them.

[04:14] The mindset shift that saves you from regret—even when things fall short.

[05:12] Why I used to think I had to hit a certain revenue milestone before spending on myself—and what finally changed my mind.

[07:00] Why the “right time” to invest is a myth—and how to reframe your hesitations as opportunities.

🎧 Listen to the full episode, Business Education and Coaching: How Much to Invest and How to Turn Around a “Bad Investment”, >>HERE<<

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For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode566

What would you say to your younger self?

In this raw and vulnerable episode, I’m sharing the letter I wrote during a leadership mastermind exercise—a truth I never planned to make public.

It’s a reflection on the pain that fuels our purpose, the “chip” we carry, and a powerful reminder of Solomon’s Paradox: we often give better advice to others than to ourselves.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever wondered if the hard parts of their story were worth it. (Spoiler: they were.)

Let’s dive into the truth of the journey—no metrics, no masks.

Click play to hear all of this and:

[00:00] Why Writing a Letter to Your Younger Self Can Be Transformative

[01:45] What’s Your Chip? The Pain That Fuels Purpose

[04:12] Vulnerability in High-Performing Rooms

[05:45] Understanding Solomon’s Paradox in Entrepreneurship

[06:50] Why This Podcast Exists: Documenting the Journey

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• Growing in Life + Business: What I'm Learning in the Messy Middle

📧 Join my Newsletter for a weekly cocktail of insider business strategy, personal reflections, and the journey of being a thought leader: https://jasminestar.com/newsletter 📧

For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode565

What happens when you’re invited to a dinner where you can’t say your last name… or what you do? I thought it was a scam—until I met Jon Levy: NYT bestselling author, behavioral scientist, and mastermind behind a wildly powerful community experience.

In this episode, Jon and I chat about why traditional networking is broken, the science of trust and connection, how to build authentic relationships (even without money or a big platform), and what people really remember about you.

If you've ever felt awkward networking or wondered how to build influence without being fake, this one’s for you. 💥

Click >>PLAY<< to hear all of this and:

[04:47] What is The Influencer Dinner — and how it redefines networking

[10:44] The IKEA Effect: Why effort = emotional connection

[14:38] Is belonging actually more important than food or water?

[20:34] Your friendships shape your habits — the science behind it

[25:28] Why your superpower might not scale (and what does)

[31:43] Don’t have a big platform? Host something simple and novel

[47:57] Build trust by asking for small favors — and grow from there

[56:03] Jon’s final message: The world needs your invitation

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• How to Create More Meaningful Relationships in Business
• How to Host Successful Events and Build Meaningful Connections

Connect With Jon Levy:

Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist, TED speaker, and author of You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence. He’s best known for curating The Influencers Dinner, where attendees cook together but can’t reveal their last names or professions. His work explores how connection, belonging, and trust drive behavior, relationships, and success.

Website: www.jonlevy.com

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jonlevy

Book: You’re Invited

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For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode564

You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.

I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.

If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!