Quick! Is anyone here an author? Yes! And her book is finally here!

Our favourite psychologist, Dr Emily Musgrove, has published the most anticipated book of the year, Unstuck: A guide to finding your way forward to the life you want to live.

Feeling stuck, and the yearning for something to change, is a human experience. And in Unstuck, Dr Emily doesn’t just acknowledge this feeling, she walks with you through it.

We’re talking values, we’re talking an introduction to acceptance commitment therapy, and we’re talking self-compassion (among many, many other things).

At its core, this book is a model for how we might approach change.

It’s compulsory reading.

Unstuck is available now in all good bookstores, or you can order it online here - https://bit.ly/4bhmCp2.

If you want to watch this full video on YouTube, follow this link - https://bit.ly/4mvgSgE

🫖Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode

• Dr Emily - What Are Your Values? - https://apple.co/4dckMpy

📖 Things to read:

• Summer Day by Mary Oliver - https://bit.ly/3Hh1gNo

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The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.

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It’s a Monty type of day - and thank god, because this week we welcome the brilliant Monty Dimond into the studio.

In this episode, Monty opens up about the heartbreak of losing her mum—her person, her sense of home and safety. She speaks candidly about the tunnel vision of ambition, living with imposter syndrome, and how a debilitating chronic illness left her bed-bound for 90% of last year.

Hugh and Monty share an incredibly vulnerable chat about parenting neurodivergent children; sharing the intense challenges, boundless love and ways they can show compassion to themselves and others.

If you're not familiar with Monty yet, she's the founder and co-host of the Show and Tell platform, which includes the newly released podcast iChronic, Monty is a pillar of Australian media (including a co-hosting a national drive show with our very own Sheltzy).

Monty, we are in awe of you.

To watch this full video of YouTube, follow this link: https://bit.ly/3GVUYmf

🫖 Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode:

• Janelle Booker - Living with ADHD - https://bit.ly/42GsmEJ
• Hugh’s Open Letter to Parents of Neurodivergent People - https://apple.co/4l4kw0m
• Michael (Wippa) Wipfli - Light at the End of the Tunnel - https://bit.ly/3F6wy9d

🎧 Things to listen to:

• iChonric - https://bit.ly/4j1d3gb
• Show and Tell - https://bit.ly/3ZfWiGR

💻 Things to check out:

• Kristy Forbes’ Workshops - https://bit.ly/43eFxNK

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🩵To purchase our journal (or your novel) My Imperfect Life, click here - https://bit.ly/3Cx4tGP

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The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.

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What would it look like if we were more open to grief?

This week, as promised, we are joined by our resident psychologist Dr Emily Musgrove to talk through grief from a clinical perspective.

Grief is proof of life, and proof of love. And while it is an incredibly unique experience for each person, there is a universality to it as well.

Dr Em walks us through how grief impacts the brain on a neurological level, and unpacks its unpredictable, non-linear path.
Explaining the difference between grief and grieving, Em reminds us about the importance of turning towards the pain and how to learn to ride the waves of grief, rather than expecting them to disappear.

And on a practical level, Ryan asks about what you can actually do for someone in grief to show them love and support.

If you’d like to watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link: https://bit.ly/4jKdlco

If you would like to pre-order Em’s book Unstuck, click here: https://bit.ly/4bhmCp2

🫖 Other Imperfects episode’s mentioned in this episode

• Lauren Zonfrillo - Grief: The Shittest Greatest Gift - https://bit.ly/3GGXCMA
• Jamila Rizvi - Living with the effects of a brain tumour - https://bit.ly/4jK7CmV
• Gina Chick - Don’t Fight Life - https://apple.co/3UKpxQ8
• Clare Bowditch - Music, Panic Attacks & Body Image - https://apple.co/43iqzau

📖 Things to read

• The Grieving Brain - Mary-Frances O’Connor - https://bit.ly/4m55Mi3
• Self Compassion - Kristin Neff - https://bit.ly/4iQC25O
• Wherever You Go, There You Are - Jon Kabat-Zinn - https://bit.ly/3Z5LeMo
• Till Death Do Us Part - Lauren Zonfrillo - https://bit.ly/4m7Dy6z

💻 Things to check out

• Stroebe and Schut Dual-Process Model of Grief - https://bit.ly/4kbIeqc
• Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Stages of Grief - https://bit.ly/45tThVu
• Meghan Riordan Jarvis’ work - https://bit.ly/3RTyy7v

☎️ If you, or someone you know, is struggling with grief, Griefline 1300 845 745 is a great place to start

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The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.