In this episode of The Gray Space, we dive into the reality of navigating shifting seasons in life and faith. What happens when God moves you out of a season you thought you were called to—like leaving a corporate career or stepping away from a marketplace role you believed was your purpose? We talk about the grief that comes with letting go of old seasons, the tension between your plans and God’s redirection, and learning to trust Him in the unknown - even when we want to say 'no'...

Join us as we share personal experiences of transitioning from the marketplace, finding clarity in purpose, and embracing the truth that our identity isn’t tied to what we do but to who we are in Christ. Whether you’re grieving a season that didn’t go as planned or wrestling with trusting God in new and unfamiliar territory, tune in to this episode as we learn to lean into His goodness, even when the path doesn’t look like you expected.

Thanks for joining us as we navigate life together, leaning into grace and truth every step of the way. Let’s grow, heal, and walk closer with the Lord—together.

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Are Extroverts Too Intense? Are Introverts Misunderstood?

In this episode of the Pursuit of Me, we’re exploring the dynamics of Extroverts, Introverts, and Ambiverts and how these personality types shape our interactions, relationships, and work environments. Life is fluid, and so is our expression of these traits—your personality can shift depending on your environment or the season of life you're in. But what happens when personalities collide or complement each other?

We dive into the challenges and opportunities of hiring based on personality traits, examining whether certain personalities naturally thrive or struggle in specific roles. Discover how adaptability and understanding others can create success in any workplace. Plus, we explore how these differences show up in relationships, particularly with a spouse. Learn how to navigate being opposites and building stronger bonds while facing life’s various settings together.

The Pursuit of Me podcast is a space for conversations about healthy communication and the world around us. Hosted by communicators, foodies, and travelers, Taryn Tatarinowicz and Julie Thomas.

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Victim Mentality: The most dangerous mindset that prevents growth

In this episode of The Pursuit of Me, we’re tackling one of the most dangerous mindsets that holds people back: victim mentality. You know, that “life is just happening to me” feeling. While some things are truly out of your control, holding onto this mindset can keep you stuck. We’ll explore how shifting your focus from blaming the universe to taking small, intentional actions can completely change your outcomes. It’s all about building awareness, finding solutions, and asking yourself, “Do I actually want out of this suffering—or do I just like the attention it brings?”

We’re also calling out the martyr complex (you know, when someone sacrifices everything and then reminds you of it). Whether it’s a parent guilt-tripping their kids or a friend keeping score, this behavior creates conditional love that nobody thrives in. Plus, we’re diving into how echo chambers—whether it’s your social circle or an online group—can keep you stuck in a victim mindset. Tune in for practical tips, real talk, and some empowering tools to take control of your life and rewrite your story.

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Ready to take control of your time and focus? If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of the world or struggling to say no, you’re not alone! We’ll unpack why unhealthy boundaries are often created—whether it’s the way you grew up, a sense of obligation, or those tricky blurred lines in relationships. Plus, we’ll explore how those childhood dynamics with parents can shift over time and how to navigate them as an adult.

We’ll also share practical tips for communicating boundaries without guilt. Learn how to say no (without being a “bad person”), how to strategically respond to requests, and how to identify your personal capacity during different seasons of life.

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Two Reasons Why It’s Difficult To Have Hard Conversations

Rejection
If you’ve faced enough moments where your emotions or ideas were dismissed, a pattern of anticipating rejection can develop. This often leads to avoiding necessary conversations altogether, creating anxiety and reinforcing a cycle of avoidance. Whether it’s overthinking what to say, second-guessing if it’s worth the effort, or reliving past dismissals, the fear of being shut down influences how we communicate—or choose not to. From personal relationships to workplace dynamics, rejection shapes our ability to open up and resolve issues effectively.

Fear
Whether it’s fear of the word “no” or the potential fallout of a tough conversation, this emotion stops us in our tracks. Fear can stem from past experiences, uncertainty about the outcome, or anticipating a difficult response from someone lacking emotional intelligence. Avoiding these discussions might seem easier in the moment, but it can lead to unresolved problems and missed opportunities for growth. Tune in as we unpack these barriers, share relatable examples, and offer practical ways to navigate these challenges with confidence.

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Podcast Description for "Am I Prejudice?"

Let’s be honest—biases aren’t always loud or obvious. In this episode of The Pursuit of Me, we’re unpacking the subtle ones that influence our thoughts and choices without us even realizing it. From affinity bias and ageism to beauty bias and the halo and horn effect, we’re breaking down how these subtle prejudices can shape our relationships, careers, and interactions. The good news? Once you recognize them, you can start to shift your perspective.

Discover what these biases are and learn practical ways to foster more meaningful and balanced connections in all areas of your life.

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How To Know If You’ve Outgrown A Relationship

In this episode of The Pursuit of Me, we’re diving deep into those moments when you start to question if your relationship is still right for you. Have you ever felt drained after spending time with someone because your values no longer align? Or like the relationship is holding you back from becoming the best version of yourself? We get it—it’s tough. From shifting priorities to feeling unsupported in your growth, we’re breaking down the five biggest signs that it might be time to move on.

This is a heart-to-heart about recognizing when trust has been broken, why honest conversations matter so much, and how to spot the disconnect that happens when you’ve outgrown a relationship. If you’re feeling stuck, unsure, or just need some clarity, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about what it means to prioritize your growth and create space for relationships that truly uplift and inspire you.

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Join us in this episode as we share personal stories of growing up bilingual and juggling cultures.

We explore what it truly means to understand people from diverse backgrounds and how we can adapt to make connections more meaningful. From how we code-switch to the many ways we express ourselves in language.

We talk about reading between the lines—adjusting communication styles and becoming self-aware enough to bridge cultural gaps and offer support. It’s about recognizing the power of adaptability and empathy in connecting with others in ways that go beyond just words.

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