Rachel is on vacation this week. She’ll be back on the mic next week. 💔 Divorce can feel like the end of everything, but it doesn’t have to be. In this powerful episode of the “Divorce Devil Podcast,” host I sit down with Jody Bruns, founder of the Divorce Lending Association and a pioneer in divorce mortgage planning. With over 35 years of experience in finance and real estate, Jody has helped thousands of professionals and families navigate the complexities of divorce with clarity, strategy, and compassion. 🚀

Jody’s personal journey through divorce inspired her mission to educate others, create innovative solutions, and empower families to make smart financial decisions during one of life’s toughest transitions. She’s trained nearly 10,000 professionals and written a national certification for divorce mortgage planning, transforming how divorcing couples handle real estate and finances.

🏡 Key Takeaways from This Episode:

• Why keeping the family home may hurt more than it helps.

• How emotions could derail your financial stability (and how to avoid it).

• The biggest myths about real estate during divorce—and why they could cost you.

• Why “legal options” don’t always align with “mortgage options.”

• How divorce planning can set you up for success, not stress.

Jody also shares real-life stories of people who turned their post-divorce lives around by embracing strategy over emotion. Learn how one mom avoided becoming “house poor” and how another client avoided costly mistakes by understanding the relationship between divorce agreements and mortgage qualifications.

📘 About Jody Bruns:

Jody is the author of "A House Divided" and an expert in family law, tax planning, and finance. She’s dedicated to helping people see divorce not as the end, but as an opportunity for a brighter, more secure future.

🔥 Why This Episode Is a Must-Listen for Divorcing People Over 40:

Whether you’re keeping the house, selling it, or unsure of the next step, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you navigate the financial realities of divorce. Stop relying on Google for answers that may be wrong—get the insider knowledge you need to move forward with confidence.

💡 Pro Tip: Don’t let emotions cloud your judgment. Treat your divorce like a business decision to protect your future.

📣 Join the Conversation!

What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced (or are facing) in your divorce journey? Drop your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear your story and help you move forward. 👇

🔔 Don’t forget to LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode of the “Divorce Devil Podcast.” Your recovery starts here! 💪

#DivorceRecovery, #DivorcePlanning #RealEstate #DivorceSupport #HealingAfterDivorce

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🎙️ Divorce Devil Podcast – Episode 220! Hosted by David and Rachel, this episode dives deep into the raw truths of divorce recovery for people over 40. Yesterday, Rachel turned 51, and it made her reflect on the journey of rebuilding life after divorce.

✨ Why We Do This:

This podcast is a safe space where we unpack the complexities of healing, growth, and rediscovering purpose after divorce. Whether it's navigating new chapters, reflecting on core memories, or learning from past mistakes, we’re here to remind you that you’re not alone.

Key Takeaways....

• Birthdays and milestones as markers of growth 📅

• The emotional rollercoaster of post-divorce life 🎢

• Why reflection is key: "What did I learn this year?" 🤔

• How the podcast helps us heal while helping others 🎙️

• Breaking societal expectations of men "not having feelings" 💔💪

• Finding hope and purpose through shared stories 🌟

Divorce is tough, but healing is possible. Whether you're navigating the early days of separation, dealing with co-parenting challenges, or trying to rediscover yourself, this episode offers insights, stories, and laughs to remind you that it’s okay to feel, to cry, and to grow.

🔥 Why Listen?

After 220 episodes, we’ve learned that healing is a journey, not a destination. Sometimes, it’s messy. Sometimes, it’s funny. But always, it’s real. Together with my co-host and guests, we’ll show you that even in the darkest times, there’s hope.

💬 Join the Conversation:

We’d love to hear from you! What’s been your biggest challenge or breakthrough during your divorce recovery? Drop a comment below and let’s build a community of support and understanding. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to help others find this message of hope.

👉 New episodes every week! Subscribe now and start healing with us.

#DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #HealingAfterDivorce #LifeAfterDivorce #EmotionalHealing #SelfGrowth

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Divorce recovery can feel like navigating a minefield, especially for men over 40. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, your hosts Rachel and David dive into the 7 Deadly Sins of divorce recovery and how to avoid stalling in them. 🚧

From emotional turmoil to financial pitfalls, we explore the most common mistakes people make post-divorce—and, most importantly, how to heal and thrive. 🌟 Whether you're dealing with a co-parenting nightmare, struggling with your identity, or feeling isolated, this episode has you covered.

🔥 Here’s what we’ll cover:

1. Letting Emotions Drive Decisions: Why reacting out of anger can cost you in court—and with your kids. 💢

2. Social Isolation: The dangers of retreating into your basement (and how to re-enter the world). 🙈

3. Neglecting Professional Support: Why therapy isn’t just for “losers” and how it can help you win. 🛋️

4. Mishandling Finances: Avoiding financial nightmares, from hidden credit cards to tax surprises. 💸

5. Ignoring Identity Issues: Rebuilding your sense of self after being a husband for so long. 🌱

6. Neglecting Physical and Mental Health: Why self-care is the foundation of your comeback. 🏋️‍♂️

7. Rushing Into New Relationships: How to heal your wounds before jumping back into the dating game. ❤️‍🩹

David and Rachel share personal stories, real-life examples, and candid advice (with a side of humor 😅) to help you navigate the pain and chaos of divorce. He’s been through it, and now, They’re here to guide you.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Divorce doesn’t define you—it’s just one chapter in your life.

• Your kids’ well-being is more important than your need for revenge.

• Small steps lead to big wins in your healing journey. 🏆

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Whether you’re navigating custody battles, rebuilding your career, or just trying to figure out who you are now, this episode will help you find clarity and strength. 💪

👉 What has been the hardest part of your divorce recovery journey? Share your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear your story!

🎧 Subscribe to the Divorce Devil Podcast for more raw, real, and relatable divorce recovery advice for people over 40..

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