In this episode, we dive deep into the Biblical view on polygamy and ask: Is polygamy a sin in Christianity? We examine Old Testament polygamy examples, from Abraham and Jacob to David and Solomon, and explore whether their actions were endorsed by God or simply tolerated. We also unpack polygamy in the Bible, explained through both the Old and New Testament lenses, looking at what Scripture actually says (and doesn’t say). What is the true Christian perspective on polygamy? And how do New Testament teachings shift the conversation?

But the debate isn’t just theological, it’s also cultural. In this episode, we explore African traditions and polygamy, showing how cultural heritage plays a key role in shaping beliefs. For many, especially in African Christian communities, polygamy is tied to responsibility, family preservation, and social structure, not lust or greed.
Whether you’re wrestling with the question or curious about how others see it, this episode is a raw and honest debate on polygamy in Christianity, exploring both sides with biblical references, cultural insight, and practical implications.

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro

Christians who believe Polygamy is okay
3:16 Polygamy was practised in the Old Testament
7:57 Polygamy Isn’t Called Sin in the Bible
11:29 The Bible Acknowledges Polygamy in the Old Testament
17:06 The ‘Husband of One Wife’ verses in the bible apply only to Leaders
21:16 Some Prioritise Culture Over Christ when it comes to Polygamy

Christians who believe Polygamy is not okay
36:10 Monogamy is reaffirmed by Christ
39:04 God’s Original Design from the start is One Man, One Woman
40:07 The New Testament Strongly Affirms Monogamy
45:08 Polygamy Always Brings Problems in the Bible
50:34 God Allowed Polygamy, but He didn’t endorse it
52:39 Polygamy Opposes Christian Love & Unity
55:02 Polygamy Doesn’t Reflect Christ & the Church

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56:12 Our Perspective on This Matter

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How do Christians build and keep healthy friendships with the opposite sex? In this episode, we dive into the topic of Christian platonic friendships, whether you’re single or married, and why they’re important for your spiritual and emotional growth. We discuss the benefits of platonic friendships before marriage and why setting clear boundaries is so important to keep these friendships pure and God-honoring.
We also get real about maintaining boundaries in Christian friendships and how to recognise when a friendship with the opposite gender might be crossing a line.
If you’re married, we talk about platonic relationships in Christian marriage, how to nurture these friendships while protecting your marriage and keeping communication open with your spouse.
Healthy Christian friendships take intention and prayer. Whether you’re wondering if Christians can have opposite sex friends or trying to figure out how to set boundaries in Christian friendships, this episode offers practical advice rooted in Scripture.

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
3:42 Benefits of Maintaining Healthy Platonic Friendships When Single
10:56 Guidelines for Healthy Platonic Friendships Before Marriage
19:36 Red Flags in Platonic Friendships Before Marriage
27:59 Why Are Platonic Friendships Still Important in Marriage?
31:29 How to Maintain Healthy Platonic Friendships in Marriage
41:01 Things to Consider for Platonic Friendships in Marriage

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Who you surround yourself with matters more than you think. In this episode, we talk all about Christian friendship advice, what the Bible says, what red flags to watch out for, and how to recognise godly friendships that truly build you up. Whether you're wondering how to choose Christian friends, trying to figure out what kind of friends Christians should have, or struggling with whether Christians can have non-Christian friends, this conversation is for you. We explore the purpose of friendship from a biblical perspective, cover the signs of a godly friend, and give honest advice on navigating tough relational dynamics as a believer.

We also dig into friendship red flags Christians should avoid, and how to be a good friend yourself. If you're looking for a Christian podcast on relationships or a Christian podcast on friendships, you're in the right place. This episode is full of biblical friendship advice, real talk, and encouragement. Whether you're in school, college, university, or adulthood, we all need Christian accountability friends and godly companions to walk with us.

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
3:47 What Is Friendship?
5:03 The purpose of a friendship
18:24 Things to look out for when choosing friends who are Christians
28:43 Things to look out for when choosing friends who are NOT Christians
41:14 Red flags to look out for in friendships
47:05 Green flags to look out for in friendships
50:18 What Kind of Friend Are You?
51:13 Encouragement to you

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