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Cheating isn’t always about sex. In this brutally honest episode, we break down the uncomfortable truths around infidelity—from emotional affairs to unresolved insecurities, unmet needs, and the real reasons people cheat.

We explore why cheating is often a self-betrayal before it’s ever a partner betrayal, the role emotional disconnection plays in long-term relationships, and why truth-telling, boundaries, and regular renewal are essential in modern marriage.

Whether you've been cheated on, cheated yourself, or want to protect your relationship from silent drift, this conversation is packed with perspective-shifting insights.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
- Why cheating starts as an internal split, not a physical act
- Why unmet emotional needs are more dangerous than you think
- The red flags you might be ignoring before infidelity happens
- The difference between physical vs. emotional cheating—and why both matter
- How the “10 Year Marriage” model creates space for honest renewal and truth-telling
- Why the betrayed partner isn’t always innocent—and what accountability really looks like

This is one of those episodes that might trigger you—and that’s the point. The conversations you’re afraid to have? They’re the ones that save your relationship.

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Dave and Angie share a deeply personal story about Dave's return to his Long Island hometown after 13 years—and the profound realization that changed everything. What started as a trip to show their kids where Dave came from became a powerful lesson about growth, identity, and why you can't go back to who you used to be.

In This Episode

Dave's emotional journey returning to Long Island after 13 years
Why their kids' reaction wasn't what he expected
The moment Dave realized he was doing it for himself, not them
How growth changes your perspective on everything—including your past
The fantasy football test for relationship health
Why harboring resentment toward your former self is toxic
The parallel between outgrowing places and outgrowing people

Memorable Quotes
"You can't go back to that, right? But there's beauty in it because that made you who you were."
"If you don't change that perspective, you're just setting yourself up for failure."
"If a marriage is only looking backwards, you got some fucking problems."
"Some people die at 25 and live until 70."
"I didn't realize how much I was harboring resentment to myself... resentment of holding on to something that had run its course."

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Exploring Trust, Surrender, and Growth Through Equine Therapy

In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of equine therapy and its impact on both personal development and relationships. Sharing a recent experience at an equine therapy retreat in Oregon, we discuss how horses can mirror our emotions and behaviors, leading to profound insights and shifts. From the initial connection with the horses to facing challenges and breakthroughs, we highlight the importance of trust, surrender, and support in fostering growth and healing. We also emphasize the value of shared experiences in strengthening our marriage and the importance of integrating new learnings into daily life. This episode is a testament to the power of vulnerability, courage, and the journey of self-discovery.

What started as a weekend of slowing down turned into a deep dive into trust, surrender, personal growth, and what it truly means to support your partner through transformation.

From confronting discomfort in group dynamics to the life-altering moment Dave sat eye-to-eye with a 1,400-pound horse, this episode explores the emotional intensity and relational insights that come when you leave your comfort zone and do the work—together.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
🐴 How equine-assisted leadership cracked open emotional walls
❤️ Why supporting your partner’s breakthrough is sometimes more important than having your own
🧠 The exact moment Dave experienced full surrender (and how it changed his nervous system)
👥 What it really looks like to hold space for your spouse—especially when things get tense
⚡ How couples can turn conflict, discomfort, and emotional triggers into next-level intimacy
🧭 Why shared experiences (not shared chores) are the key to a connected, fulfilling marriage

Whether you’re craving deeper connection, navigating stress in your relationship, or curious about equine therapy and nervous system healing, this episode delivers truth, vulnerability, and practical takeaways.

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