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Ever wondered why you fantasise about your loving partner in ways that make you feel guilty? You're not alone, and you're not broken.

This eye-opening episode explores a listener's confession about desiring to see his wholesome, loving wife as sexually uninhibited—a psychological phenomenon more common than most realise. We break down the Madonna-whore complex, explaining how our culture artificially separates women into categories of either purity or sexuality, creating unnecessary guilt when these worlds collide in our fantasies.

What's fascinating is how these fantasies often aren't about degradation at all, but rather about witnessing someone we deeply respect embrace their sexual power and sovereignty. The contrast between everyday roles and erotic imagination creates a psychological electricity that's perfectly normal, even healthy. Your brain isn't betraying your relationship—it might actually be working exactly as designed.

Most importantly, we provide a practical roadmap for communicating about these desires with your partner, focusing on vulnerability, gradual introduction, and mutual respect. Whether your partner enthusiastically joins your fantasy world or prefers to keep things as they are, we offer strategies for honouring both your desires and your relationship boundaries.

Ready to understand your erotic imagination better? Head to jordanwalkerrs.com for more resources, or find our content on Instagram and YouTube by searching Super Sex Podcast or Jordan Walker Sexology Adults. If you're a parent wanting better sex education for your children, visit youwontlearnthisatschool.com for workshops and support. Great sex is learned, not lucky—and understanding your desires is the first step.

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Does watching porn help or hurt your sex life? It's a question that's plagued bedrooms, relationships, and internet browsers for decades. According to groundbreaking research involving 100,000 participants, the answer shifts dramatically depending on your gender.

Drawing from a landmark 2023 study published in Psychological Medicine, we take you on a fascinating journey through the surprising science of pornography's effects on sexual performance. For men, the findings are sobering – increased porn consumption correlates with decreased sexual confidence, poorer functioning, and lower partner satisfaction. The culprit? "Threatening upward comparisons" where men measure themselves against the unrealistic standards portrayed in adult content. It's like watching Olympic athletes and feeling inadequate during your gym workout.

The plot twist comes when examining women's experiences. Female participants who consumed more pornography actually reported better sexual outcomes across the board – higher confidence, improved functioning, and often more satisfied partners. Unlike men, women typically approached porn as educational and inspirational rather than comparative, using it to discover preferences and expand their sexual repertoire.

What does this mean for your relationship with adult content? The effects, while statistically significant, were subtle rather than dramatic. The key takeaway isn't about quitting cold turkey or doubling your consumption – it's about mindfulness. Understanding how porn influences your specific sexual confidence and relationship satisfaction allows you to make intentional choices about what, when, and how much you watch.

Whether you're curious about the science of sexuality, navigating relationship challenges, or simply interested in understanding modern intimacy better, this episode offers evidence-based insights without judgment. Share your thoughts with us on social media or visit jordanwalkerrs.com for more resources on enhancing your intimate connections through knowledge and understanding.

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Ever wondered why two communities that share so much common ground often eye each other with suspicion? This episode dives deep into the fascinating divide between the kink and swinging worlds, revealing surprising truths about how we organize our pleasure.

Joined by the brilliant Mischief and Mayhem from the Ministry of Mystery podcast, we unpack the unwritten rules, cultural differences, and tribal politics that keep these communities sometimes at arm's length despite their shared values of open-mindedness and sexual freedom. Our guests share their journey from curious newcomers to experienced scene-hoppers who've witnessed these dynamics firsthand.

The conversation takes unexpected turns as we explore rope bondage as both an art form and a pathway to deep connection, the science behind why swinging relationships often demonstrate stronger communication than monogamous ones, and how younger generations are bringing fresh perspectives to traditionally older communities. You'll hear frank discussions about consent challenges, the cerebral nature of kink, and why Perth's isolation creates unique dynamics not seen elsewhere.

What emerges is a thought-provoking look at how humans create meaning through pleasure, and how the tribalism we see in mainstream society replicates itself even in alternative spaces. Whether you identify with either community, both, or neither, this conversation offers valuable insights into how we connect, communicate, and create meaningful experiences through intimacy.

Listen with an open mind – you might just find yourself questioning assumptions about relationships, pleasure, and where you might fit in these overlapping worlds of exploration.

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Sex addiction has become a cultural catchphrase, frequently appearing in celebrity gossip, TV dramas, and casual conversation. But beneath this popular label lies a surprising truth: most major medical authorities don't recognize it as a legitimate diagnosis. This eye-opening episode of Sexplained tackles the complex reality behind this misunderstood concept.

We explore how the DSM-5—psychiatry's definitive guide—doesn't include sex addiction at all, while the World Health Organization's "compulsive sexual behavior disorder" isn't classified alongside gambling or substance addiction. This distinction matters enormously. When we frame intense sexual desire or behavior as addiction, we often pathologize natural human experiences and reinforce harmful stigmas about sexuality.

The episode delves into how the sex addiction label frequently serves as a convenient explanation for behavior that challenges social norms—whether it's infidelity, sexual exploration, or non-traditional relationships. We unpack how this diagnostic framing disproportionately impacts women and LGBTQ+ individuals, whose sexuality is already subject to excessive scrutiny and judgment. More importantly, we examine what's really happening when someone's sexual behavior feels out of control: typically, it's less about sex itself and more about underlying issues like stress, trauma, loneliness or shame.

What if, instead of asking whether you're addicted to sex, you asked whether your sexual behavior helps you feel more connected and alive—or if it's covering something up? That shift in perspective opens up space for compassion, growth and genuine healing. Your desires, curiosity and sexuality don't make you damaged; they make you beautifully human. If you're struggling, what you need isn't shame but support to understand what's happening beneath the surface. Your nervous system isn't addicted—it's just trying to find its way home.

Subscribe, leave a review, and join us next time for more honest conversations about sexuality. You've been wonderful, and as always, super sexy!

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Ever wondered what really happens behind an OnlyFans paywall? Meet Amber Rivers - not just an adult content creator, but a wife, mother, and entrepreneur who's pulling back the curtain on one of the internet's most misunderstood platforms.

What begins as a candid conversation about her unexpected entry into OnlyFans quickly evolves into a fascinating exploration of modern sexuality, digital relationships, and self-discovery. Amber reveals how her husband actually encouraged her to try the platform, initially as "just for fun," before it transformed into a full-time career offering greater flexibility and family time than her previous job ever could. Her journey shatters the stereotypical narrative about why people create adult content.

Perhaps most surprising is Amber's revelation about what subscribers truly seek. "Most of them are just lonely and just want to chat," she explains, highlighting how emotional connection often trumps explicit content. This human element distinguishes OnlyFans from traditional pornography sites, creating space for authentic interaction in an increasingly disconnected world. Meanwhile, her candid breakdown of daily life as a creator exposes the exhausting reality behind the "easy money" myth - constant content creation, relentless social media management, and the precarious dance with platform algorithms that can destroy a livelihood overnight.

But the most powerful moment comes when discussing empowerment. "Before I did this, I was so shy, hated my body. Now I'm so much more confident," Amber shares, challenging listeners to reconsider simplistic judgments about adult content creation. Through establishing clear boundaries with both subscribers and her supportive husband, she's crafted a life that works for her family while embracing her sexuality on her own terms.

Ready to question your assumptions about adult content creators? This eye-opening conversation might just change how you think about the real humans behind the paywall. Subscribe, share your thoughts, and join us as we continue exploring sexuality with curiosity and compassion rather than judgment.

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Ever wondered about the world of size play but never knew who to ask? Our milestone 100th episode pulls back the curtain on this often-misunderstood practice with candid experts who live it every day.

When Mischief and Mayhem from the Ministry of Mischief podcast join us, the conversation flows from hilarious to profound as they share their journey into stretching. What began with curiosity at a kink club demonstration has evolved into a passion they're now helping others explore safely. Their fresh perspective challenges common misconceptions – most importantly that bodies don't "get ruined" from stretching play, regardless what internet myths suggest.

The technical aspects prove fascinating: the importance of platinum-grade silicone toys versus cheaper alternatives, the art of lubricant preparation (powdered lube mixed to specific consistencies), and the subtle differences between anal and vaginal play preferences. These aren't just sexual techniques but rituals requiring preparation, trust, and significant aftercare. Through detailed descriptions of breath work techniques and mental preparation, we discover how stretching becomes almost meditative – a surrender requiring deep trust between partners.

Perhaps most compelling is how stretching enhances relationships through improved communication. When words become difficult during intense sensations, partners develop profound non-verbal understanding and connection. The vulnerability creates space for growth that extends far beyond the bedroom.

Feeling curious? Whether you're size-experienced, size-questioning, or simply appreciate learning about diverse expressions of pleasure, this landmark episode delivers education with authenticity and humor. And if you're in Perth, Australia, check out Mischief and Mayhem's upcoming "Mayhem" event on August 15th – the link's in our show notes!

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Why do we find ourselves magnetically drawn to people who make us feel terrible? That question launches us into the fascinating intersection of neuroscience, psychology, and those 2 AM text anxieties we've all experienced.

Your attraction to emotionally unavailable people isn't a character flaw—it's biology at work. If your earliest experiences with love were unpredictable or came with strings attached, your nervous system learned to interpret emotional tension as connection. This attachment imprinting means that when someone treats you inconsistently, your body doesn't register danger; instead, it feels the familiar rhythm of what it learned to call "love."

The psychological principle of intermittent reinforcement further explains this phenomenon. Those hot-and-cold relationships—with their unpredictable texts, occasional affection, and emotional distance—trigger more dopamine in your brain than steady, reliable connection ever could. It's the same mechanism that makes slot machines addictive: the uncertainty of when you'll win keeps you pulling the lever, even when you're losing most of the time. In relationships, this creates a genuine neurochemical addiction to chaos that can make healthy, consistent partners feel "boring" by comparison.

Recognition is the first step toward change. When you catch yourself mistaking anxiety for attraction, pause to question whether you're experiencing genuine connection or simply repeating familiar patterns. Your nervous system can learn new definitions of love—ones built on safety, mutual respect, and the peaceful certainty that comes with healthy attachment. Breaking these cycles isn't about settling for less excitement; it's about discovering that true relationship magic feels like a long, soothing exhale rather than surviving an earthquake. Ready to rewire your love patterns? Start by following us across social media for more insights that blend science, psychology, and the messy reality of modern relationships.

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Ever thought about what it might be like to open up your relationship? You're not alone. This eye-opening episode dives into the surprisingly common world of consensual non-monogamy fantasies that exist within committed monogamous relationships.

The research reveals something fascinating: while countless people fantasize about open relationships, swinging, or threesomes, only about 10% ever act on these desires. What holds the other 90% back? Mostly fear—fear of judgment, fear of rocking the boat, fear of the unknown. Yet the couples who do share these fantasies often report stronger, more trusting relationships as a result.

Contrary to what you might expect, having fantasies about consensual non-monogamy doesn't mean you're unhappy with your current relationship or sex life. In fact, research shows people with high sexual satisfaction tend to fantasize more about monogamy, while those with lower satisfaction lean toward cheating fantasies rather than consensual arrangements. The strongest predictors for CNMR fantasies aren't relationship problems but rather traits like being sex-positive, having an open attitude toward casual sex, and in some cases, age.

Whether you're curious, confused, excited, or nervous about these fantasies, remember: your erotic imagination is valid. Not every fantasy needs to be acted upon, but honest communication about desires can create profound intimacy. If your partner shares a fantasy with you, try responding with curiosity: "Thanks for trusting me. Can we talk about what this fantasy means to you?" That simple opening can lead to deeper understanding, regardless of whether you ever step outside monogamy's boundaries. Ready to explore the uncharted territories of desire in your own relationship? This episode provides the map.

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