I was living on a tropical island in a $500-a-week shack with frogs in the toilet, tree snakes behind the kettle, and a rotation of backpackers as housemates–whilst trying to “go all in” on my business.

It looked dreamy on Instagram. In reality? It was dreamy, but I was broke, and quietly panicking about how the 'f' I was going to actually reach my financial goals.

This episode is for anyone who’s quit their job, moved cities, or taken a big swing at going 'all in' on their dreams–or are about to.

It’s about what happens when freedom sounds amazing in theory — but you’re exhausted, doubting everything, and not sure how you’re going to pay next month’s rent.

Inside, I’m sharing:

• The messy reality of my ‘Magnetic Island era’ — from lost licenses to van life to moving to Noosa, then back to the island (indecisive much)
• The fantasy of quitting your FT gig vs. the reality of paying your bills
• The pressure to look like you’ve got it all together online
• And the moment I realised I’d built a version of freedom that wasn’t actually working for me

If you’re caught in that messy middle–craving more from life but terrified of ending up broke–this one’s for you.

Wanna chat to someone about your messy middle? DM me @danisaidyes, I want to hear what big life decision you're about to make. X

Quitting your job without a backup plan isn’t brave—it’s a privilege, and sometimes a fast track to failure.

If you’re a creative, coach or multi-hyphenate who thought quitting your job would lead to freedom... and instead find yourself deep in survival mode with an identity crisis and an empty bank account, this episode is for you.

I’m breaking down the real cost of chasing the dream too soon, why the “just go for it” advice is sometimes complete BS, and what to do when your passion project isn’t paying the rent.

You’ll walk away with:

• What I wish I knew before I quit my job to go all in on my business (and why it took me multiple times to learn this lesson)

• The reality of juggling contract work, coaching clients, and bills piling up

• How to shift your mindset from “I failed” to “this is part of the process”

• What to do when your business isn’t making money, but your life keeps moving

• The shame of pretending you’ve got it ‘all together’ when you’re crumbling inside

• The truth about the slow, boring (but necessary) path to real freedom

• Why the “fuck the 9-5” energy doesn’t always pay the bills—and how to make peace with Plan B

If you’re in the thick of it, DM me @danisaidyes. I genuinely want to hear about your messy middle!

You voted and I delivered! This was the most requested episode from the Instagram poll. It's birthday week, and we’re unpacking the most influential and life-changing lessons I've learned from 36 years on planet earth. Just in time for Sagittarius season, this is part 2 of the thoughtful guide to navigating 2025 with intention, creativity, and a sense of purpose.

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Here’s a taste of what’s in store:

People Are Weird and the World Is F*cked: Lesson 19 dives into the harsh realities of human behavior and the state of the world. It’s a reminder to protect your mental space while navigating existential dread.

Choice Is Often Not a Choice: In Lesson 20, we explore the idea that our decisions are shaped by our past experiences and worldview.

No One Else Will Back You Like You Back Yourself: In Lesson 25, we discuss the importance of betting on yourself, even when no one else does.

Decision Paralysis Is Real – Here’s What to Do About It: Lesson 27 offers tips on overcoming the fear of making the wrong choice and learning to trust yourself.

Your Body Is Not Your Enemy: Lesson 31 is a heartfelt reminder to stop fighting your body and start appreciating it for what it does, rather than what it looks like.

Ready to listen? Hit play now and reflect on these lessons as we move closer to the New Year. Let’s step into 2025 with purpose and perspective.

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