In this heartfelt post-Christmas episode, we’re diving into the universal yet bittersweet feeling many of us experience once the holiday festivities wind down: that quiet, inexplicable sense that something is missing.

I reflect on how, as kids, Christmas was a season of unmatched wonder and anticipation. From counting down the days to waking up to the glow of twinkling lights, it was magical. But as adults, the carefree excitement often fades, replaced by responsibilities and a more mature outlook on the holidays.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The nostalgic joy of Christmas as a child: Remembering the anticipation, innocence, and wonder.
• The post-Christmas letdown: Why adults often feel a lingering sadness after the holidays.
• Looking forward vs. longing for the past: How to shift our mindset to appreciate the magic we create for others.
• Practical ways to rekindle anticipation: From planning small adventures to finding joy in everyday moments.

This conversation is about embracing the realities of adulthood while rediscovering the excitement and meaning of anticipation. It’s not about replicating the past but creating something new to look forward to—something that fills your life with joy and purpose.

🎙️ Episode Highlights:

• A personal story of a childhood Christmas that still resonates.
• A realization that shifted my perspective on the holidays.
• Why it’s important to create experiences worth anticipating—even as an adult.

✨ Takeaway: Life is too short to dwell on what’s missing. Instead, focus on the excitement and joy you can cultivate today.

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Does this episode resonate with you? What traditions or experiences do you look forward to now? Email me—I’d love to hear your story and chat about what’s next for you.

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Episode Summary:
In this episode of Six Feet Above, host Steve takes a deep dive into the clichés and realities of the so-called "midlife crisis." From stereotypes of bored, checked-out men to the guy chasing youth with a flashy sports car, Steve unpacks the emotional and psychological struggles many men face in their middle years. Using insights from psychologist Erik Erikson’s stages of development, Steve explains how stagnation isn’t permanent—it’s an opportunity for growth.

This episode offers a mix of humor, reflection, and actionable advice for men feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure about the next chapter of their lives. Whether you're grappling with regret, boredom, or identity shifts brought on by major life changes, Steve shares why these struggles are normal and how they can be the fuel for personal transformation.

Key Takeaways:

• Midlife stagnation is optional. Growth and reinvention are within your control.
• Struggle isn’t just a burden—it’s the key to becoming a stronger, better version of yourself.
• Emotional detachment affects the people you love most; opening up can transform your relationships.
• The “glory days” you’re chasing don’t need to be in the past; the best is yet to come.

Memorable Quotes:

• “Stagnation isn’t permanent, and growth is always an option.”
• “Without struggle, we cannot grow. Struggle usually sucks, but that’s okay—it’s how we move forward.”
• “Your glory days are ahead of you. Life doesn’t stop getting better if you keep choosing to grow.”
• “A midlife crisis doesn’t have to be a crisis—it’s just life reminding you it’s time for something new.”

Take Action:
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure about the future? Steve wants to hear from you! Reach out via email to share your story or get support. Let’s figure out what’s next for you.

Connect with Steve:

• Email: 6fapodcast@gmail.com

In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that resonates with so many of us: the overwhelming pressure to have life all figured out. Remember those high school moments when everyone seemed obsessed with asking, “What’s your plan for the future?” Those questions planted seeds of fear and doubt for many of us—and they’re just might still be affecting how we approach life today.

Join me as I share a personal story about a guidance counselor meeting that left a lasting impact and how it shaped my perspective on passion, purpose, and navigating life’s big questions. Together, we’ll challenge the myths around having a “forever plan” and explore why life is less about perfect answers and more about staying curious and open.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• Why the “real world” isn’t as scary as we were told.
• The harm caused by the “forever mentality” and how to break free from it.
• How passion isn’t always immediate but can develop over time.
• Practical steps to shift your perspective, embrace change, and take the pressure off.

Actionable Takeaways:

1. Shift Your Perspective: Instead of asking, “What’s my lifelong purpose?” start with, “What am I curious about today?”
2. Break It Down: Take one small step—whether it’s a new class, a hobby, or volunteering—and see where it leads.
3. Give yourself Permission to Change: Your path doesn’t have to be permanent. Life is about evolving, learning, and pivoting when needed.
4. Take the Pressure Off: Focus on what aligns with your current season of life, not a “forever plan.”
5. Start Small: You don’t have to have a grand plan right now

Whether you’re a student feeling the weight of these questions for the first time or someone further along in life looking to redefine what success means to you, this episode is for you.

Let’s Connect:
What questions are you exploring right now? I’d love to hear your thoughts! Send me a message or share your story—your journey inspires this podcast. If you found this episode helpful, please give it a thumbs up, leave a review, or share it with someone who might need it. SEND EMAIL TO: 6fapodcast@gmail.com

Stay curious, take care, and remember: life is a canvas—you get to create your masterpiece.

keywords

self-improvement, mental fitness, personal growth, self-care, life balance, motivation, reflection, maintenance, clarity, well-being

summary

In this conversation, Steve Holly discusses the importance of self-improvement and maintenance in various aspects of life, emphasizing that no one truly has everything figured out. He uses the analogy of a car needing regular maintenance to illustrate how our lives require attention and care. Holly encourages listeners to reflect on their personal needs and to prioritize self-care as a means to better support others. The conversation concludes with a call to action for continuous improvement and self-reflection.

takeaways

• No one has it figured out; we all have struggles.
• Life requires maintenance, just like a car.
• Understanding personal needs is crucial for self-care.
• Taking care of yourself is essential to help others.
• The goal is to improve a little every day.
• Self-reflection is key to personal growth.
• Balance in life means knowing what you need.
• It's important to pause and reflect on your needs.
• Creating a checklist is not the goal; clarity is.
• Stay curious and keep striving for improvement.

This podcast is for men who want to live better and break free from the mundane. I’ll be sharing my own journey—how I struggled with feeling depressed and neglecting myself, even though my life looked near-perfect on the outside. I created this podcast for men who want more, for those looking to connect with who they really are.

We’ll dive into topics like self-improvement, building stronger relationships, and steering clear of the traps of numbing out or distancing ourselves from family. I’ll also throw in a few rants on the social issues we’re all facing today. My goal? To help us live differently, so we can show up better for ourselves and for the people we care about.

Shoot me a message at: 6fapodcast@gmail.com