Being straight-passing can feel like both a privilege and a curse. In this episode, Lala and Peelo G. break down how straight-passing lesbians and queer femmes signal their queerness in subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways. Explore the creative ways queer femmes and lesbians signal their identity to the world. From tattoos to TikTok trends, they share personal stories and unpack how signaling helps build connection in queer spaces through fashion, hairstyles, and accessories unpacking why these signals are essential for visibility and building community.

Queer style isn’t just fashion—it’s a love letter to community.

Closure can feel impossible, but it’s the key to emotional freedom. Romantic, platonic, or professional—every relationship leaves its mark. In this emotional yet funny episode, Lala and Peelo G. discuss the role of closure in healing. Peelo shares the raw truth about how their cancer journey impacted their ability to provide closure, while Lala recounts the pain of unresolved loss after someone close to her passed away from breast cancer. This episode is a testament to the strength of self-love and finding peace in the face of life’s hardest lessons when someone else leaves you hanging.

Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of cancer diagnosis, treatment, and loss.

"Sometimes, we give ourselves the closure we never got."

Join Peelo G. and Lala for an unfiltered deep dive into navigating toxic lesbian relationships. From personal heartbreak to practical wisdom, this episode explores the questions everyone should ask themselves when love turns sour.

What’s the cost of holding onto a love that’s hurting you?

Peelo G. and Lala dive into the 2024 election results and explore what another Trump presidency means for the LGBTQ+ community. From personal reflections to collective strategies, this episode focuses on building resilience and community strength for the road ahead.

Healing doesn’t mean giving up—it means gearing up for what’s next.

Navigating romance in your 40s comes with its own unique set of challenges, and Peelo G. isn’t holding back. In this episode, they discuss how dating apps, past experiences, and personal growth have shaped their approach to love. With Lala in the co-host seat, expect laughter, insight, and even a few spicy secrets.

Is it flirting or an emotional entanglement? When does it become a "situation"? Peelo G. and Lala launch Season 3 with an eye-opening discussion on "situationships." In this tell-all episode, both confront the grey areas between admiration and inappropriateness revealing the details of a situationship that blurred professional and personal boundaries. Get insights on navigating the tricky waters of situationships and what measures to take to prevent professional boundaries from being crossed, even when the stakes are high.

Join us for a fun conversation with Ashley Hankins, recipe developer, photographer and content creator behind Eat Figs, Not Pigs. We learn about her personal journey, love for cooking, and transition to healthy vegan eating. Ashley shares her motivation for writing her first cookbook, Make it Vegan: From Quick & Easy to Deep Fried & Delicious. We also learn about her Filipino Heritage, coming out story and acceptance in the community.

Join Lala and PeeLo G. as they uncover the rhythm and heartbeat of San Francisco's nightlife scene with Valerie Ganda. From iconic beginnings to underground parties, Valerie's journey as a DJ, business owner and event producer sheds light on the transformative power of music and community in LGBTQ+ spaces. Valerie highlights her personal coming out story to navigating the vibrant SF nightlife and event production landscape. She shares challenges and triumphs that shape her identity -- plus a few stories into her personal dating life!