You’ve heard it before: “That’s a red flag.” Maybe it was something small — like a text that came too fast (or too slow), a comment that felt off, or a moment that just didn’t sit right. But what if… it wasn’t a red flag at all?

In this episode of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys, Annie invites you to zoom out and take a second look at the labels we place on people and situations — especially when it comes to dating, friendships, and navigating everyday life.

What we assume is a red flag might just be a misunderstanding, a difference in communication style, or even a projection of our own past experiences. And on the flip side? Some so-called “green flags” might deserve a little more scrutiny than we give them.

We’re picking apart the flag frenzy — both red and green. From playful debates to thoughtful reflection, Annie explores how assumptions take root, how context shapes our reactions, and why perspective really is everything. This isn’t about ignoring your intuition — it’s about developing a more intentional lens for how you interpret behavior, patterns, and people.

Throughout this episode, expect:
— Real-life examples that might make you rethink red and green flags
— A little devil’s advocate energy (just enough to stir the conversation)
— Gentle reminders that communication, context, and curiosity matter more than snap judgments

Whether you're single and dating, deep in your healing era, or just someone who loves calling out patterns — this one’s for you. Because the truth is, a lot of what we assume is based on fear, past experiences, or viral advice we never questioned.

🎧 Tune in, take what resonates, and leave what doesn’t. And hey — you might walk away seeing things a little differently. You won’t know unless you press play and give this episode a listen.

Welcome to She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys — the podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide. Hosted by Annie of The Banannie Diaries, each episode unpacks the messy, funny, and sometimes painful narratives people write about each other (and themselves) without all the facts.

From decoding modern dating to dealing with nosy coworkers, we’re diving into the unspoken thoughts people are too scared to admit out loud. It's not about pleasing everyone — it's about saying what you were really thinking. Expect sass, reflection, humor, and plenty of “wait, did she just say that?” moments.

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Let’s clear a few things up — like, first of all, what did you assume this podcast was about? In this episode, Annie unpacks the meaning behind the podcast’s bold title, the weight assumptions carry in everyday life, and why clarity — not over-explaining — is the real power move.

This episode is your invitation to question what you think you know about others, be intentional with your energy, and stop letting other people’s assumptions mess with your peace of mind.

I’m so happy you’re here. Listen and follow along so you don’t miss a minute of this podcast!

🎙️ she’s probably talking to other guys — the podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide.

hosted by me, annie from @thebananniediaries ✨ — i’m breaking down the messy, funny, and all-too-relatable assumptions we make about each other (and ourselves)…from now on, your assumptions make an a** out of you, definitely not me

from modern dating chaos to side-eye in the break room, i’m calling out the assumptions we all think but rarely say. this podcast isn’t about hiding our snap judgments or thoughts — it’s about keeping it real.

new episodes every wednesday, same unfiltered energy. 🎧 hit follow and let’s get into it.

I’m so happy you’re here. A new episode drops every wednesday; available at 5am. Listen and follow along so you don’t miss a minute of this podcast!