Welcome to Episode 440 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product is Promescent. Jeff speaks to me about the deeply misunderstood topic of premature ejaculation (PE) and the emotional, relational, and physiological dimensions behind it.

In this enlightening conversation, Jeff and I unpack the complex web of stigma, shame, and misinformation that surrounds early ejaculation. We discuss the difference between perceived and clinically defined PE, the real physiological roots beyond just anxiety or lack of willpower, and the often-overlooked arousal gap between partners.

Once retired, Jeff found his encore career in the sexual wellness space, bringing sharp business instincts, integrity, and a bold sense of mission to Promescent.

Originally from a struggling town in Pennsylvania, Jeff built a successful recruiting career in Silicon Valley, placing top engineers at tech giants like AMD, Motorola, and Lam Research. During his career, he was instructed by a major car manufacturer to discriminate against women and people of color in the hiring process, an order he refused to follow. Instead, Jeff took a stand and filed an anti-discrimination lawsuit against the company. Against the odds, he won, driven by a core belief in doing the right thing.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding The Root Causes Of Premature Ejaculation

· Why Most PE Cases Are Physiological, Not Psychological

· How Porn Skews Our Expectations Of Sexual Performance

· Defining PE: Clinical Criteria Vs. Subjective Experience

· Closing The Arousal Gap For Mutual Satisfaction

· Why Communication Is Crucial For Sexual Confidence

· How Promescent’s Patented Formula Avoids Numbing Your Partner

· Tips For Introducing Delay Sprays Without Hurting Feelings

· The Psychological Boost Of Feeling In Control During Intimacy

· Why Quality Sex Toys And Lubes Are Investments In Your Wellbeing

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Welcome to Episode 439 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have a panel of leading sex therapists and relationship and intimacy experts from around the world. They’ll discuss the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom and how to address them. A big thank you to Dr. Emily Jamea, Ariel Anderssen, Dr. Lori Bisbey, Catherine Auman, Candia Raquel, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, Dr. Avrum Weiss, and Elliot Katz.

In this episode, we explore the habits that often go unnoticed but can have a lasting impact on sexual satisfaction and emotional connection. You'll hear a variety of insights, from the importance of non-verbal communication and slowing down intimacy, to the roles of sensuality, presence, and emotional security. Each expert brings their unique lens, offering practical tips and surprising truths drawn from decades of experience.

Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just looking to deepen your sexual self-awareness, this episode offers honest, shame-free advice. From addressing awkward moments with humor to reframing masculinity and creating space for meaningful conversation, this is an invitation to rethink how we approach pleasure, intimacy, and connection.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Importance Of Reading Non-Verbal Cues

· How Sincere Appreciation Boosts Intimacy

· The Need To Prioritize Presence Over Performance

· Why Slowing Down Can Deepen Pleasure

· Connection Between Excitement And Blocked Orgasms

· How Playfulness Can Ease Bedroom Awkwardness

· The Role Of Masculinity In Creating Safety

· Why Scheduling A Sexy Talk Matters

· How Porn Has Shaped Misleading Expectations

· Using Sensuality To Awaken The Body’s Reflexes

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Welcome to Episode 438 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, who speak to me about emotional regulation, co-regulation, and their transformative journey in creating a stronger sexual connection through emotional attunement.

In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of early sexual struggles and emotional disconnect in their marriage, which eventually led them on a lifelong quest for answers. Married since 1982, they recount decades of feeling lost and misunderstood, highlighting how a lack of emotional education contributed to sexual dissatisfaction and relational distance.

Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill spent the first 30 years of their marriage living in disconnect. Their first sexual experience sent them into years of avoidance and pain. Dr Glenn was so determined to find out what went wrong that he went back to school & became a Marriage & Family Therapist and a Clinical Sexologist. But, it wasn't until he dug deep into emotional regulation that he discovered the source of all of their disconnect. From there, Dr Glenn & Phyllis created The Connection Codes- a framework to help couples connect emotionally and physically using their 4-minute exercise.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Hills’ Personal Journey

· Why Emotional Education is Critical for a Healthy Sex Life

· The Impact of Emotional Wounding on Physical Intimacy

· How Emotional Dysregulation Disrupts Sexual Desire and Connection

· The “Four-Minute Tool” for Tuning Into Core Emotions

· Co-Regulation and Building Emotional Safety With Your Partner

· The Power of Naming Emotions Like Sadness, Hurt, and Joy

· How Sexual Banter Can Foster Intimacy Outside the Bedroom

· Practical Advice for Communicating Emotional Overwhelm

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