In the fifth episode of Sage Advice, Hamza Khan welcomes renowned leadership author, speaker, and trainer Tim Arnold, for a deep and soulful conversation about tension, paradox, and purpose. From launching and selling a business to leading a homeless shelter, Tim’s leadership journey is marked by courageous pivots and profound introspection. Drawing from life-changing decisions—like saying yes to a Wyoming ranch, a blind date that led to marriage, and stepping into service work—Tim shares how these moments shaped his philosophy of “lead with and.” A master of making complexity accessible, Tim opens up about the spiritual influences that helped him embrace life’s polarities: striving and accepting, beauty and brokenness, tradition and progress. He and Hamza explore how leaders can become bridge-builders in a world that often demands sides. With clarity and humility, Tim challenges us to let go of approval addiction, manage tensions rather than solve problems, and build a life that balances ambition with grace. Tim’s timeless advice: 1) Live your life in total polarity—touch both sides at the same time, 2) You don’t have to choose between striving and accepting, and 3) Don’t waste your life’s energy on what most people think. This episode is a grounded and generous meditation on wisdom, maturity, and the paradoxical power of leading with both strength and surrender.