➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com

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What’s The Episode About:

Have you ever felt like everything around you — movies, social media, and society — insists it takes two to change a relationship?

Couple’s counseling usually backs this idea, but let me tell you… it COULD NOT be farther from the truth!

If there’s one thing we’ve proven from our 14 years of experience in transforming relationships, it’s THIS:

One person is ALWAYS changing the relationship — whether they know it or not!

In this episode, I share a personal (and unflattering) story from my days of being known as the “Ice Princess” — so NO JUDGING!

This story is PROOF that it just takes ONE PERSON to change the dynamics of a relationship (and that ONE person was NOT even me!).

If you feel like you’ve tried EVERYTHING to get your partner to change the relationship, this episode is a must!!

Tune in to learn how you can single-handedly get the results you want in your relationships…without needing them to agree or get on board!

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Key Points Discussed:

Story time: That time Stacey threw a sandwich at a guy (00:00)

How 1 guy changed everything in that moment (08:13)

This 1 act can change someone else’s life forever (10:14)

The Closed Loop tool you can reuse (11:30)

Final words (13:24)

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Additional Links & Resources:

🎧 Listen to the explanation about relationships being closed loops here: https://martinopodcast.com/podcast/02-can-this-unusual-cesar-millan-tactic-help-your-relationship/

🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com

👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com

👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c

👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt

👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com

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We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Methodology. For 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world!

Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home!

Let’s connect:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/

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We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately.

➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com

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What’s The Episode About:

Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, it's NEVER enough to make your partner happy?

Or you might be pleasing them at your own expense, and at some point you wonder “what about me?”

If this is your reality, and you feel resentment bubbling up…let me be the one to tell you: NO, you're not crazy!!

There’s a predictable pattern that CAUSES resentment! Until you see it, resentment can keep sneaking into your relationship, even when people have the best intentions.

In a long-term relationship… I KNOW you’ve felt the INFURIATING feeling of sacrificing just to please someone else only to wind up in a situation where they are still unhappy!

Unlike everything you’ve been taught… PLEASING others in relationship does NOT fix things and it usually BACKFIRES!

This is a predictable pattern with a predictable outcome.

In this episode, I’m going to REVEAL the predictable pattern that you UNKNOWINGLY keep falling into!

There is a way to BUILD UP your relationship, without pleasing, without compromise and without settling for things you aren’t happy with! Let’s dive in!

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Key Points Discussed:

The predictable pattern loop of pleasing (00:00)

In a long-term relationship and STILL pleasing? Here’s what to do instead (03:26)

A real-life example of this strategy applied: student’s example (09:25)

Final words (14:58)

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Additional Links & Resources:

🎧 Listen to the explanation about trigger boomerang loops here: https://martinopodcast.com/podcast/02-can-this-unusual-cesar-millan-tactic-help-your-relationship/

🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com

👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com

👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c

👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt

👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com

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We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Methodology. For 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world!

Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home!

Let’s connect:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/

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We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately.

➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com

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What’s The Episode About:

Ever thought a dog trainer could teach you the secret to a happy relationship? (hehe)

Before you run out and grab some puppy treats for your significant other (YIKES!) dive into this episode!

There’s been an invisible dynamic happening in your HUMAN relationships… that is CAUSING kerfuffles! And it’s happening EVERY SINGLE DAY.

In today’s episode, I’m going to reveal this POWERFUL dynamic and show you how you can use this Predictable Pattern to create the results you WANT in your relationship and stop some of the kerfuffles you do not want.

And yes… I’m going to share a funny story about how Cesar Milan, The Dog Whisperer, has been teaching something about DOGS for decades…that can be applied to humans too!

If you do NOT see these Closed Loop patterns in your relationship, then you are suffering unnecessarily! I’ll show you the piece you’ve been missing, so you can start creating the results you want!

If you’re tired of the same old kerfuffles and ready for some harmony at home, this episode is here to help!

Let’s dive in!

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Key Points Discussed:

How Cesar Milan’s approach to dogs is similar to relationships (00:00)

How to apply this to humans (04:05)

The closed loop of relationships (08:01)

Examples of closed loops (11:20)

Final words (15:50)

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Additional Links & Resources:

🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com

👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com

👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c

👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt

👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com

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We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Methodology. For 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world!

Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home!

Let’s connect:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/

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We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately.

➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/

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We’re kicking off SEASON 2 of the Relationship Transformer Podcast with this Episode!

Join Stacey Martino, founder of Relationship Development and inventor of the Relationship Development Method, as she dives into…

• What to do when “Love Isn’t Enough”
• When you feel STUCK because there’s “too much arguing”
• Eye-opening results that every-day students are getting using these solutions
• The ONE Mistake you can STOP making in relationships today to get better results
• How you can get these results without convincing your partner to do this too.

Stacey also dives into the 3 Things that MOST people think are the CAUSE of their relationship troubles…but they are WRONG, those 3 things are NOT the cause.

She also REVEALS the eye-opening truth… the REAL CAUSE of relationship struggles (that no one showed you before).

In this episode, Stacey dives into what WORKS to stop the arguments and increase harmony. She shares about the Relationship Development Method that she and Paul invented that has helped thousands of people, over the last 14 years, to single-handedly transform their relationship, save their marriage and bring harmony back to their home.

So that you can be clear on whether or not Relationship Development could work for you, Stacey also shares what challenges the Relationship Development Method is designed to solve and gives a list of issues that the Relationship Development Method is NOT designed to solve.

This episode is packed with eye-opening revelations, so dive in.

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Key Points Discussed:

The old and broken relationship tactics (00:00)

Relationship skill sets (04:36)

Who Relationship Development does NOT work for (10:20)

The results you can get with Relationship Development (18:28)

Final words (22:21)

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Additional Links & Resources:

🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com

👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com

👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c

👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt

👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com

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We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Method. For over 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world with outstanding results!

Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home!

Let’s connect:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/

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We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately.

First things first, let’s celebrate the success of the July 2020 Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. This was the first RBR we did online. We reached so many more people than past in-person breakthrough retreats. We delivered multiple breakthroughs, and we were so happy to see people achieve great results.

We are reimagining several of our programs to better serve you and we have several releases coming out this fall. One of them is the Relationship Development Parenting Program. It has three courses for you in the program - the 14-day boost program, the quick start program, and the yearlong program.

With that said, we’ve retired the 2nd edition of the Relationship Breakthrough Quickstart Program. We are also creating a brand new Relationship Breakthrough Program that will be launching on September 23rd. We are so excited about this because the new program is completely reimagined with some awesome new features.

The other huge announcement we want to make is that we will be holding, for the first time ever, a 2nd Relationship Breakthrough Retreat in a year in December. We’ve always wanted to hold two RBR events in a year and it is unbelievable that this year we’ll finally be able to do that.

Key Takeaways

• Celebrating the success of the July 2020 Relationship Breakthrough Retreat (02:45)
• Reimagining several of our programs to better serve you (07:07)
• The exciting new Relationship Development Parenting Program (07:34)
• How to get the RD Parenting Boost Program as a bonus (13:24)
• Retiring the 2nd edition of the Relationship Breakthrough Quickstart Program and creating a new Quickstart Program (15:58)
• Holding a 2nd Relationship Breakthrough Retreat in a year for the first time ever in December (23:17)
• Taking our Relationship Development Methodology to as many families as we can (39:32)

Additional Resources:

• The 14-Day Boost Program
• www.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.com
• www.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com

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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a talk that they recently had with their Relationship U students on what is going on in real life today behind closed doors when couples and families are stuck together because of the COVID-19 related self-quarantining. Paul and Stacey have been working very hard in sharing amazing tools and strategies on what people can do to avoid kerfuffles and all sorts of negative issues in their households, but it’s very hard for anyone to really tell just how effective they are. So they decided to share the raw, vulnerable, and real life testimonies of families that are successfully implementing those tools and strategies.

One such testimony came from Joe and Adriana, a couple that has really benefited immensely from Paul and Stacey’s programs. The two have been married for 33 years, are empty nesters, and have been navigating the quarantine together so well despite the fact that a few years ago they could not even be in the same room together for even a few minutes. They’ve been having meals together, going out for walks every day, watching shows or plays, and doing many other fun things together. They had previously been separated for a year and a half, but finding Paul and Stacey’s programs changed everything, and now they are a true testament to just how effective Paul and Stacey’s tools and strategies are.

Denise is another person who will share how the Relationship U program has changed her life in terms of teaching her to get deeper into the ownership of her happiness, and knowing that no matter what happens in the world, she’s responsible for her own happiness and needs in life. There are several other people who will share how relationship development has changed their lives, especially during the current pandemic where people are stuck together in their homes with each other. Tune in to find out how you can transform your own household and navigate this quarantine time in the best way possible.

Key Points Discussed:

• How Joe and Adriana are navigating being together in the quarantine (01:33)
• How Paul and Stacey’s programs can make people better versions of themselves (03:34)
• Working on our happiness and needs before we can work on our relationships (04:28)
• The true power of relationship development (08:25)
• The most appropriate time to practically apply the tools and strategies (11:08)
• Becoming the change that you want to see in your relationships (15:55)
• Taking a stand for your family so you can create a better legacy (18:53)

Additional Resources:

• The 14-Day Boost Program
• www.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.com
• www.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com

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Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?

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In this episode, Stacey will share part two of her talk on how couples (and parents) can maintain their sanity during these social distancing and self-quarantining times. She will talk about what she sees as two of the most common causes of kerfuffles that are going on right now and how to solve that, and how to deal with the effects of the current pandemic on our lives. She will also dive into how to look at everything that’s going on in a way that's empowering, as opposed to feeling like it’s all just happening to us.

One of the things one must get rid of is unreasonable expectations and control. We must all drop a lot of our levels of control right now because our desire to want things to be a certain way will only lead to misery for us and others around us. One cannot control everybody else but they can set reasonable standards for others to follow when it comes to basic things in life. When something is complicated and out of one’s control, one should just let go of it. A great example of that is homeschooling.

People have certain invisible expectations about what it should be like, but what they don’t realize is that it’s a full-time job, takes a lot of commitment, and is very stressful. Stacey will share her insights on how to really go about that and so much more, so stay tuned to learn how you can navigate this from the same place, increase the peace and harmony in your home, and decrease the kerfuffles.

Key Points Discussed:

• Letting go of unreasonable expectations and certain levels of control (01:34)
• The difference between homeschooling and online schooling (04:01)
• The stress of trying to replace a teacher and give your kids the same learning experience they get at school (06:34)
• The temporary nature of more screen time for your kids during these challenging times (10:55)
• Using time chunks to focus on what’s important (14:21)

Additional Resources:

• The 14-Day Boost Program
• www.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.com
• www.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com

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Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?

Click here to get your ticket now!

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You can find this episode and more at:

MartinoPodcast.com

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Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.

If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!